Is it me, should i change for them to like me, I've been trying and all that but it seems that all the guys just use me to either get down my pants or to get to my friends, I'm just sick of it, will i ever have a bf that doesn't use me?
2007-07-01 10:25:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sure, you just have to find one that isnt a pig. good luck
2007-07-01 10:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Life's tough, get a helmet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to see yourself in a positive light and other people will too. I don't think you have to be this way, to get a bf. Don't be use by men or anyone else, you are worth more than that. If you allow men to use you, why would they want anything more, you should want more and you do. Click it down and the right man will be found. Why by the cow, when you can get the milk for free.
2007-07-01 10:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on where you are meeting these guys.
If its at a party, club, bar well then the chances are slim to none.
Sometimes people want love so bad that they will unknowingly let the wrong people into their lives. Try being a little more cautious before you get involved with someone you dont know.
Also try going "off the market" for a little bit, usually thats when you meet someone when you arent looking.
2007-07-01 10:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jana M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day in age it seems almost impossible to find someone perfect for you. Now im pretty sure there is that perfect guy for you maybe you just need to meet him or you just have to open your eyes more. Also give the most unlikely guy a chance. ( doesnt mean have let him in your pants though).
2007-07-01 10:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by ac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you will. First you have to stop worrying about what they want and start looking for someone who has something to offer you. If you change for people they think you don't stick up for yourself which makes you an easy target. If you make yourself happy then the right guy will be easy to find.
2007-07-01 10:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Karmakitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should change guys talk so to them your just a easy target. Don't make it easy for them to get in your pants. They have to earn it. You will find someone to love and respect you just wait. Have patients.
2007-07-01 10:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_nikkiboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MANY of us face this question/dilemma, dont change, our fate is our fate, whether it will happen or not, don't try to "make" it work, for that will always end in disaster and/or dissastisfaction, live your life and be the best you that you can be, while being social, he will come along.
Good Luck
2007-07-01 10:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lupita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet the next guy, dont be so easy to give it up. Just be yourself. remember all good things come to those that wait. Good Luck
2007-07-05 06:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go the other way around put your self in a mall not a thrift shop then you will find that you worth more.fix your self change your personality read good books about relationship for women.why men love bitches etc.
2007-07-01 10:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why you're single: because the good guy haven't found you yet.
now dont go looking for bad fishes when they're plenty of good fishes out there in the sea.
2007-07-01 10:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by lelenguyen05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have the problem .I believe its better to be yourself ,be cool and not so anxious....the man of your dreams is in the next corner
2007-07-01 10:33:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋