I show no interest in the opposite sex around my parents. I have never once said "he is hott" in front of them. I have told them that I am into boys I just don't feel comfortable talking about them to you. I am scared that they will start to think that I am a lesbian. They do know that I am really shy around boys at school. I don't think I will get a bf in high school because I am shy and I live in a small town. Do you think my parents will think that I am a lesbian because I show no interest in boys around them??
2007-07-01 10:09:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 14 btw!!!!!!
2007-07-01 10:12:22 · update #1
no its not like you are getting it on with any girls!! are you?? but as a mom if my sons didn't show that they was into girls around me i would just assume that they are embarrassed i mean why jump to think something when you aren't sure!! i never acted like i was into anyone when i was younger only my sisters told me that i didn't have bf because i was into girls but that was just them being mean!! so i don't know i guess i just would say to you keep your head up and be yourself and don't be shy around guys they are all more scared of us then we are of them!! if they act mean its cause they are scared and don't fully believe in their self!!
2007-07-01 10:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by labrown_eyez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, in one of your other questions, you mentioned that you are shy. Your parents know that (because they know you) and probably have never thought that about you (being a lesbo). I think school is out, you don't have much to do, so you come up with questions on Yahoo Answers. Nothing wrong with that...but why not go out with some friends, have some fun, go to the mall, etc! Why knows, you might meet a really nice/cool/awesome guy when you go out. Wouldn't that be cool!
I used to go out with friends all the time "looking" for girls and I never found any that interested me. But then I would go out to the store or to work and I would meet some really interesting, awesome, amazing girls/women. That is how I met my present day sweetie! I wasn't looking for love...love found me that day! And from the second I looked into her eyes and she looked into mine...I knew we had something special. It was unbelievable!
Keep your chin up...there is someone out there for you.
And when you meet someone you like or think is "hott" say, "HI!" What is the worst that can happen...him saying, "HI!" back? lol. Just be yourself and don't let the shy thing take over. Being shy isn't a terrible thing...a lot of guys find that to be a very attractive quality in a girl/woman.
2007-07-01 10:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say Through all their faults, my parents did a fantastic job. They raised 4 bright and successful children. We are all self reliant, have good jobs and treat others with respect and compassion. I do the best I can with my two, however at the age of 7 I really cannot determine what type of men they will be. I can only hope that I have managed to instill in them the same values my parents did which I carry to this day. Right now they are fantastic children. They are bright, kind and helpful. However I still have to make it through the teenage years. This is a question to possibly answer in another 20 years, when I have two young men who call me mom. Then I will be able to tell you more accurate what type of people I raised and then maybe I will have a better answer. However at the moment, I can hope for at least the same, and if possible exceed what my parents did.
2016-05-20 03:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here. I don't show much interest in getting with women. But I am into women, and told my parents that I dont want a GF until im older. Just tell your parents that your not into getting a BF right now. And if they DO think your a lesbian(which they won't) Who cares?? You are you, which is a beautiful thing, becuase as long as you know your not, it dosent make a difference what your parents think of you.
2007-07-01 10:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about that. But try to change your shyness. There is something to say for a little mistory but try to be a little out going other wise how are you going to have fun with life. I wouldn't worry about boys your young high school is just a milstone when it comes to every other part of life. Someday u will be all grown up at your wedding and laughing at yourself for even wondering what your parents thought about your sexuality. Also as you grow older you will get more comfortable around your parents and then knowing when you find a guy attracive.
2007-07-01 10:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by anglzndskyz2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should just really talk openly with your parents. every parent loves their child and are always taking care of them. just tell them your shy that why maybe you havent talk to them about the situation. I Think they wont think your lesbain you are 14 , maybe they think like that if your like this and your 25 but your not. I think is good that you are shy, things will be slower to you and its good. I was shy too and I turned out right. well good luck hey Im not old Im 23.just in cas you think I was like 40
2007-07-01 10:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably relieved you are not kn*ckedup...I was a tomboy and got kissed the first time at 17. 2 of my friends that were girls (less tomboyish) were having their 2nd babies at 17...
Your folks are counting their lucky stars! Life is long, so you can pace yourself...I got married at 21 and have been happily married for 12 years!
Enjoy being yourself! You are beautiful and worthy of a wonderful boy when YOU are ready.
2007-07-01 10:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not a lesbian, don't worry about it. If you get caught up in what everyone else thinks, you'll never have a pleasant life. Just be secure in who you are and nobody will have a reason to doubt anything about you, especially not something so trivial as sexual preference.
2007-07-01 10:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by onemoreordinaryday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not a good enough reason, but maybe being less shy around your parents will help you being less shy around boys at school.
2007-07-01 10:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by leira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think they really think that it sounds like a late bloomer i was really shy in school i had only one girlfriend while i was in school the hole time just remember the worst that can happen it they say no..one more thing you are going to have to get out of that shyness there is nothing wrong with being shy .....
2007-07-01 10:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by Death follows us all 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋