Family & Relationships - 1 July 2007

I'm 17 and for two months, and not even two months, like one and 18 days I'm gonna be working. In total I'll earn about $1,000 after taxes. And it's just for the summer, when I go back to school, it's over. Now this woman wants me to save $500 dollars so when I go back to school I can use the money for lunch. What the hell! Then I'll have like $500 to spend and probably even less when you count other things like getting my liscence, which I will have to pay for and my phone. So it'll be less than that to start with. My mom is being so selfish! She's acting like this because she isn't getting overtime from work and she has mortgage and bills to pay, but she's not dead broke! Why can't she just let me enjoy my damn money and get what I want and save some for other things I want. It's not right. It's like I'll be working to eat! And that doesn't make any damn sense because it's not a steady job. It's just a few bucks to have and enjoy. Why is she doing this? Why must she be such an a s s?

2007-07-01 09:51:01 · 15 answers · asked by Blaire 3 in Family

ok i 13, we really hit it off, we talk for about two hours!! i didn't really meet him online though he is my bffs good friend, i sent him a pic and he told me i was really pretty, he isn't really good looking though but he isn't ugly i don't care that he isn't hott, but he asked if i wanted to go out sumtime, but he lives like four hours away but cums to visit around my town alot! shud i accept?? o yah i know he isn't a creep online i talked to my bff and she was the one who got me to talk to him

2007-07-01 09:50:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I will have our 7 month anniversery on the 20th on December and I still don't no wht to get him. He plays football, enjoys wrestling and track and watches NASCAR. Plz help!!!!

2007-07-01 09:49:53 · 12 answers · asked by alyssa.jensen 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I really like. We are friends, but we are not close. I am going to see him at a pool party this weekend, so how can I get him to notice me? I really want him to like me.

2007-07-01 09:49:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I go hiking with this group of people. After a few months of lay off, I met this girl and we talked for almost the entire hike, except at the end. Both her and I used to live in the same town and we made a lot of connections about that and other things.
When I said, "I hope I see you again." She said, in a subdued voice,"Yeah....um....I hope so." I didn't see her again on the next hike or any following hikes for several months. I learned later that she was in the process of moving. She only moved 40 miles away. Next week they told me they're going on a hike that's like all day this time and 50 miles away. They said she might be there. Now, if it's just about the hike I'd rather not go. It's too long and too far away and I have other things I'd rather be doing. But the chance of hooking up with this girl is there. But given her lukewarm response when I said goodbye to her, and the fact that she hasn't shown up for any of the other hikes, I wonder if it's worth it.

2007-07-01 09:47:14 · 2 answers · asked by LG 7 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married next month. My grandparents had a passionate loving happy marriage until one of them died. My parent have been married for over 40 years - unhappily. I was wondering what do married couple feel that is the most important advice they could give a soon-to-be newlywed for a long lasting marriage? Keep in mind, he and I are both in our 30's, and is this the first time either of us have been married. What makes your marriage successful?

2007-07-01 09:45:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I’m 7 month pregnant and I shouldn’t try sex because of threatened abortion (as my doctor said) but my husband doesn’t accept it. He told me that he will make relationship with his previous girlfriend if…what should I do?

2007-07-01 09:38:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't really believe it's always happy - but did you meet that person you always dreamed of? where?

2007-07-01 09:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister and her friends saw me and started teasing me they all rubbed there fingers the shame,shame sign. im really blushing how can i face the girls afthe they saw me naked.im sorry now i played all the pranks on them.did they do the right thing to teach me a lesson?

2007-07-01 09:37:27 · 7 answers · asked by exporer99 1 in Family

I was talking to a guy from my class on msn and he says he thinks some one fancies me and then I said he wont because Im ugly and then he said your a very.....looking girl what dose he mean?

2007-07-01 09:27:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

That way each have their own money and clean up their own mess and do not have to put up with one another. Who is usually the woman that does these tasks {domestic in nature{"

2007-07-01 09:26:26 · 12 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

Everything I ever try to suggest to him, he has to disagree & say the opposite. Is it just his ego that makes him think i'm wrong all the time? Because a woman can't be smarter than a man? What is it? I just don't know. If I say the sky is blue, he says it's orange. I just don't get this stubborn a$$!!!!!!!! Please explain to me if you know....

2007-07-01 09:20:10 · 21 answers · asked by Ballagirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They do not have to move in and put up with all this or do you?

2007-07-01 09:17:32 · 5 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 09:16:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Personally, i think it's pure nonsense. How will you find something if you don't put any effort in it? And besides, i tried this approach (no dating at all, not putting any effort to find a lover) for almost two years now and it didn't bring me anywhere, i'm still single. I'm not saying you should start searching like you're desperate, but not making any effort at all will not bring you anywhere.

2007-07-01 09:14:04 · 23 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Singles & Dating

but shes got a boyfriend hes a real prick and no one even her friends dont know why she likes him she flirts with me all the time and im real confused about what to do , what should i do

2007-07-01 09:13:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a Bride-to-Be, about to be married in 19 days and I am really excited to be getting married to the man of my dreams. Lately though, I have getting really depressed and moody & it really doesn't feel like I am getting married. I have gone through a lot of family drama through the whole wedding process and because of it my parents won't be at the wedding. I don't know if all this depressing and sadness (about my parents) is just coming to a head or whats wrong with me, but I wanna enjoy these next couple weeks and I need some ideas on how I can do this. Any of you ladies experienced this before your weddings? Honest and helpful answers need only apply! Thank you!

2007-07-01 09:13:36 · 12 answers · asked by Tiffany 4 in Weddings

There's this girl which I really like, and I want to ask her out I know she likes me too but the problem i have it's Age difference, She's 16 and i'm 18 which it isn't much of a difference but I'm afraid of what people might think! they might say it's wrong or something cuz i'm also going to college and she's in high school!

I mean as long as sexual relations go I'm willing to wait for her until she 18 or until she's ready I don't care I just want to be with her that's all she has an amazing personality, So can you people let me know about this age difference? and Is it safe to go out with her even though our age is different?

2007-07-01 09:13:06 · 7 answers · asked by Vicz101 5 in Singles & Dating

We're having a USO themed 1940s inspired wedding, and instead of another baggie of nasty jordan almonds to send home with our guests, my husband and I were thinking of putting a blank thank you care in a stamped and addressed envelope and having guests write thank yous to our troops over seas-- what do you guys think? And where on earth to get over 100 addresses of guys and gals over seas??? We have 3 or 4 friends in Iraq but we'll need more addys than that-- thanks for all your help!!

2007-07-01 09:11:18 · 14 answers · asked by mrs.v 4 in Weddings

Is any man worth this?

2007-07-01 09:09:49 · 30 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

O my gosh i cant wait! it's in laguna beach! imlike totally excited! it's like soo totally gonna be so much fun! im like o my god (when summer first called) and she was like yeaa totally rite? and i 'm like i kno. and she was like ok call me later and spread it just dont tell like the geeks and like amanda were like soo totally not talking to her rember wut that fat bitc* did. and i was like totally she got so fat! so just call amber mitikaly and she'll like tell you guyz and if amanda reads this then she's like totally a bitc* if you know me (jessica mcpherts) or amber just say cuz we like arent gonna waist our like time k? okkk MWAHH BYE!!!!

2007-07-01 09:06:40 · 6 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating

So they stay single?

2007-07-01 09:05:54 · 9 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

Can you dye a black prom dess w/ gold beading to a white dress w/ gold beading. I payed alot of money for my prom dress, and I dont only want to wear it once, but I dont want to get rid of it...And I dont want to get married in black! Any ideas?!??!?!?!

2007-07-01 09:04:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have three girlfriends and they are apart though but they really like me what should i do?

2007-07-01 08:56:51 · 15 answers · asked by lil'latinoking 3 in Singles & Dating

In this case, and when love is so much deep between both of them ... whom do you expect to take the first step declaring his deep feelings? Despite their being shy, who can break the circle of shyness and confess ... can it be a boy or a girl? Am speaking generally of course .. is it always a rule that a boy should always be initiating love even if he is a shy type (regarding this case)?

2007-07-01 08:50:48 · 3 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

HELP!

2007-07-01 08:45:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i havent had a boyfriend in about a year. now this one guy asked me out and i love him to death. we've only been going out for a little over a week. all we've done is kiss and hug. um i want to make out with him but i ...kind of forgot how. haha. up any tips?

2007-07-01 08:44:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know they aren't obligated to but I wonder if the new tradition of having older couples stand on their own two feet is starting a bad trend.

I currently have 3 brides I'm designing for, all are 21 or younger. When they were asked why they were getting married now it's because if they waited any longer the parents would not pay since they were "adults". One bride even told me it's OK if she gets divorced in a few years because she got a free party and tons of presents she wouldn't have gotten if she waited until she was sure he was the right guy.

It leaves me wondering if couples are jumping into commitment early to get the wedding paid for....what do you guys think?

2007-07-01 08:44:00 · 20 answers · asked by pspoptart 6 in Weddings

I'm not gonna lie. I'm gonna miss her SO much! She said though even though she had a supervisor's position, she couldn't handle the drama, & it' problem after problem. She was making a lot of money, but she said she doesn't care about the money. She's going back to school in the fall to get her PhD in Math. & she has the money to pay out her own college tuition.

Everyone will miss her, & we all feel like she was the only single 1 person who did her job correctly & was dedicated to it, & she deserved her high position. Now who do we have to count on when something isn't done right?

2007-07-01 08:42:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-01 08:39:24 · 3 answers · asked by Liz 1 in Singles & Dating