but shes got a boyfriend hes a real prick and no one even her friends dont know why she likes him she flirts with me all the time and im real confused about what to do , what should i do
2007-07-01 09:13:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thnks but im really scared to tell her ive already got shot down this yr and i dont want to have it done again i hate getting hurt like that
2007-07-01 09:30:15 · update #1
Tell her about it. I'm not promising she'll like you, but it would feel good to get it off your chest wouldn't it? And if she saw how much of a great guy you are, she would give you a chance. But chances are that since she's dating that guy, she's probably in love with him, and you can't mess with true love. If she doesn't love you, you'll find someone else....WAY better than her! (Because if she chooses her prick-of-a boyfriend, she's more of a prick than him!) It's just a part of life.
Good luck!
2007-07-01 09:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen, if she's going out with a jerk, what does that tell you about her? It sounds like she likes to flirt when she knows she's already with someone else...in other words, she's a tease and a collector of hearts.
My advice is this:
1. Forget her, she already has a boyfriend
2. Forget her, she flirts with you while knowing she has a boyfriend
3. Forget her, she would lead you on while knowing her boyfriend would probably pound you if he caught you with her
4. Forget her, she'd probably tell her boyfriend that you said you liked her if you told her (see item 3 above)
5. Forget her, there are plenty of nice girls out there and you don't need to waste your time with some who's a pretty tease.
Do you see a common thread here? If she ends up dumping the creep, and you still want a shot at her, then go for it once she's a free agent. However, remember how she acted and how long she stayed with this guy. Girls like that don't usually deserve nice guys. Don't be a schmuck, find a nice girl or don't complain when she breaks your heart. Tigers have stripes, leopards spots, but they always act true to their nature and one never becomes the other...the same is true of people, they don't really change.
2007-07-09 00:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do the math. If this girl likes to be with "a real prick", don't go showing an interest in her. You deserve better than her - no matter how much you like her. Find someone else. You'll be glad that you did.
2007-07-01 16:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by leesa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well either tell her, and let the pressure off, or sit there and watch the prick treat her bad. u wont feel better or acomplish your goal if you just sit there. u r a man, use some balls. if she rejects you, then move on, its her loss. there are too many women out in the world to stress out over one. ...keep that in mind.
2007-07-09 15:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Tony E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do nothing.If she already has a boyfriend,you need to step back.She obviously has not come to the point or conclusion that you and her friends have.Trying to make her leave him,would push her closer to him,she needs to realize that the guy is not for her!!For some,it takes a long time,because they are insecure.
2007-07-01 16:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by debi jean 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
id have a friend talk to her about her going out with u and breaking up with the prick
2007-07-01 16:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by vidiotrp 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IM IN THE SAME SITUATION!! I am going to tell the boy that I like him even though he has a bitchy girlfriend! I think you should go for it! E-mail me at StrawberryMuffin101@yahoo.com and I will tell you my story!
2007-07-01 16:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be a great friend to her. and treat her right. she might notice that she really does like you and realize that her boyfriend dosent treat her as good as you treat her. but at the same time...you cant be afraid to tell her that you like her. girls like guys that arent afraid to express their feelings towards them openly. so just tuff it up and tell her how you feel.
2007-07-09 16:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by mll13x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man if the chemistry is right go for her....ask her out...life is full of chances...take one..whats the worst that can happen, her saying no and her boyfriend kicking your behind?..just kidding..take a chance....good luck....
2007-07-01 16:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Vic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her to dump him and get with you. Go after what you want to suffer for the rest of your life.
2007-07-09 15:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋