I’m 7 month pregnant and I shouldn’t try sex because of threatened abortion (as my doctor said) but my husband doesn’t accept it. He told me that he will make relationship with his previous girlfriend if…what should I do?
2007-07-01 09:38:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry you are faced with this situationget rid of him quick- if he thinks s*x is more important than the health of his wife and unborn child, then he doesn't deserve the 2 of you. he is such a child to threaten going with his ex. There are other ways around the solution, other than penetrat=ion.
2007-07-01 09:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wife and I had relations with both our kids into the ninth month as long as I was careful there was no problems, both kids are fine. Think your doctor is a quack no offense. The thing that bothers me is the threat of seeing an old girlfriend, so the question is is the relationship really there? Is the dedication to it really there? Is the love really there? Only something you can answer no one else. Been married over 25 years to the best angel GOD has sent on this Earth, never threatened her with going to someone else, or even threatened her, nor cheated on her. Always respected, and worked things out through communication Why? Love, pure love
2007-07-01 09:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Pengy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait what? I've failed to understand your poor grammer skills. I think I understand now though that I have read it a couple of times. I'm having a hard time understanding the threatend abortion part. Your husband doesn't accept the fact that you cannot have sex b/c of doctors orders? WOW sounds like a great husband... if he wants to leave you over that, then you know he's not going to be a good father to your baby or a good husband for you. He's basically only there for the sex... does he have to write that on his or your forehead? It doesn't get much clearer than that. Your better off w/o him you tell him that he can get over not getting any for a while b/c you are not risking your baby's welfare on his dumbass impulses. If he don't like it you can tell him "Don't let the door hit you in the a$$ on your way out" Then take his a$$ for child-support. If he's gonna do the laying, he's going to do the paying!
2007-07-01 09:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
May Goodness. You husband needs a talking too. Have your hubby talk to your doctor. If your doctor is worried about something bad, then he should be respectful of that.
I have 3 kids, and have had sex with my wife until it was not recommended or just to hard to find a position.
Make sure your husband understands, your not doing this to avoid him, but for the safety of the baby. I hope you have explained that to him. Let him know that you still find him sexy & you crave his touch. But, that you are just worried about the baby.
May I suggest, trying other ways to please each other. It maybe the jester that will make the difference in his mind.
That being send, any man who would force his wife to have sex & endanger the baby is not much of a dad. Any husband who would tell his wife to have sex with me or I will go to another woman [in this situation] is not much of a husband. You and the baby may be better off without him in your lives.
Good Luck
2007-07-01 09:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by BTP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a high risk pregnancy? is this why your doctor has told you not to have sex? are you on bed rest or have you been on bed rest? I am assuming that these are some of the reasons why your doctor would tell you not to have sex, I had sex with all 3 of my pregnancy's up until I went into labor....that said I would have your husband go with you to your next appointment and have your doc.explain to him the reasons why you have to abstain from sex....and if he still cant except this than I'm not really sure what you can do...I hope that once he hears it from the doctor himself that his attitude will change but if it doesn't...than I'm just as stumped as you...sorry
2007-07-01 09:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is being selfish and insensitive. Nevertheless, get a second opinion. As someone with four kids, my wife and I were told that sex (including intercourse) was perfectly fine as long as both partners were ready, willing and able up to the due date, and was, in fact, recommended if the baby was late, as orgasm could trigger labor.
All that useful medical info aside, your husband is still acting like a selfish, mewling crybaby, totally preoccupied with his own pleasure and needs to grow up NOW. Playtime is over and it's now time to suck it up, be a man, and provide your child with a decent father figure.
2007-07-01 10:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go on and take his stuff with him. You need to worry about you and that babie only write now NOTHING else. and if this is how he wants to behave toward the woman who is carring his child he has no love for either of you and should not be in your lives. He is not a man nor is he a true husband.
2007-07-01 09:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like some thing's already going on with the previous girlfriend, why else would he threaten you with her if there wasn't?
2007-07-01 10:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually you can have sex up until you give birth, is there a complication that is preventing this?
Regardless you need to get rid of the assshole. He is emotionally abusive.
2007-07-01 09:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him! And DO NOT allow him to have sex with you! If he tries, then you need to call the police. He obviously doesn't care about you or love you. But if he needs proof, call your doctor's office and have your doctor speak directly to him.
2007-07-01 09:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋