Family & Relationships - 1 July 2007

And was it great?

2007-07-01 12:12:14 · 23 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok so me and my girlfriend just broke up. We were very serious and we were together for 8 months. We had our share of huge fights. And she finally cracked and said that she couldnt be in the relationship anymore. So we broke up and we are just trying to build our relationship (friendship) up again. I have fixed my problems that caused a lot of the stuff that went on, and shes fixing her issues too. So lately we havent been talking alot, so she can have her space to work things out with. But today she called me, and we talked, and at the end she said i love you (normally im the one that has to say it first since the break up) and she also said that she does still care about me, but she just needs to be alone to work things out. Well today she left me a message on aim that said "i sure do miss my baby bear(my nickname with her)". In y'alls opinion do i have a shot at getting back together with her. Because i want do, i think that once we're ok she would too, but what do y'all think?

2007-07-01 12:08:30 · 5 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Singles & Dating

i hate how i am soo shy around boys what do you guys recommend for me to do
any help will be appreciated

2007-07-01 12:06:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I heard once that when it comes to realtionships, men and women of teh same race are naturally attracted to each other. Although we see people dating outside their races dating, i have always wondered if those people were first attracted to their own race. Is this a true fact and what do you think about this?

2007-07-01 12:05:38 · 30 answers · asked by BKool 4 in Singles & Dating

I know this boy, for a pretty long time. We are normal friends then everythig change when i told him who i like(it niot him) Then he doesn't really play with me anymore. And i felt sad that he not around no more. Do i like him or i hate him?

2007-07-01 11:55:41 · 4 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

me later? then the guy blurts out that the bartender has a
girlfriend? So, why did he apparently want to tell me later that he has had a girlfriend for one week? Why would he tell a guy he ha a girlfriend if maybe he doesn't?

2007-07-01 11:47:52 · 3 answers · asked by So adorable 5 in Singles & Dating

Honestly.

2007-07-01 11:37:57 · 19 answers · asked by La Princesa 6 in Singles & Dating

I have a very important decision to make and I'm looking for some suggestions or whatever here. I am looking to marry my girlfriend at the beginning of next year. I am from the US and she is from Canada. We have talked about living in Canada. The problem though, is if we move there I will have to start school all over again because the college system is different. Plus, I only have $25,000 saved, which is enough to buy a car and a payment on a house, but I will have to pretty much start my life all over again. I have suggested that we wait until the fall when I'll have twice as much money saved up, but she wants to get married at the beginning of next year. What should I do??? Please help!!!!!

2007-07-01 11:32:17 · 12 answers · asked by gododjgjodjod 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this one boy, two of my best friends like him too! What should I do?

2007-07-01 11:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by London V 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in total despair. I don't see any reason to keep going. We didn't have any kids...

2007-07-01 11:24:55 · 29 answers · asked by Talkingless 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 3 year old daughter and a 2year old son. Motherhood to me has been terrible not only did I lose respect. For some reason this society thinks that because you are a mother/wife you are now a slave! People are quick to judge,"Why didn't you keep your legs closed", and give you dirty looks if one of your kid cries. Hello? They are kids..You should stay home if you don't want to see any! It seems like a crime.. I'm 23 married for 5 years to a momma's boy and frankly I don't want anymore kids..The one Dr. I've seen refused to do the procedure on me and talked me out of it. But really, I don't want anymore I have a boy and a girl and a husband who seems like my third child!! Why is motherhood so difficult!! Sometimes I want another one but I think that's mothernature just trying to trick me..Motherhood has been a traumatic experience for me..Advice please, don't leave me judgemental comments...

2007-07-01 11:24:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my "other" are going through a custody battle for our son because he has to go to school in the fall (he will be 5). We have shared him 50/50 up untill now.

I want to know if I should go ahead and enroll him in school for the fall, or if the courts would look down on that as I am expecting to have custody?

2007-07-01 11:23:56 · 5 answers · asked by ntlgnce 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know some of you guys are going to be haters on this subject, but I am getting married May 31, 2008. This is both our second marriage, but my first marriage was when I was 19 and lasted a couple months (did not have a wedding) and his first marriage lasted 7 years and she cheated on him twice. So anyway, we are having a wedding w about 100-150 people. Between the two of us, we have four children (one for me, three for him) so instead of a honeymoon, we are doing a family vacation to california (where my whole family is from) to do the disneyland/sea world/universal studios/ and san diego zoo package. We will all be out there for about 12 days. We own everything we need for a house, etc, so i was wondering if there is any appropriate way to suggest monetery gifts rather then the normal/traditional wedding gifts? I know they do honeymoon registries, so we were kinda hoping to get money to help pay for our honeymoon/family vacation instead. I do not want to be tacky though.

2007-07-01 11:23:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

hurt. They might be the same one.

2007-07-01 11:21:45 · 6 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a huge problem. I like one girl very much. I had asked her out, but she always refused. She did'n tell why, just refused. period. She has some kind of APS (she criticizes herself, has rejected many boyfriends) But she is exceptional. She likes parties a lot, and has many friends. We were close friends until I asked her to meet me, so I could tell ,what I feel to her, but she was afraid. Then I realized, how many mistakes had I made, and how stupid I was. I kinda scared her. She likes chatting on the Internet, but is afraid to talk to me outside . Phone calls also make her anxious... Some days ago I left her a present and she was surprised. She wrote , that she is happy, that I had done so many good things to her. She said, that I was very brave (she didn't expect such a thing from me). Bu she hasn't rejected me. I try to tell her, that she is the most interesting person i've ever met. P.s. Sorry for my grammar. I am from a Baltic country

2007-07-01 11:13:37 · 7 answers · asked by House M.D 3 in Singles & Dating

i really like this grl but i dnt feel comfortable comin out n sayin i like u any advice for droppin discrete hints either online or in person?? grls prefered

2007-07-01 11:12:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we`ve been together for almost a week
but we`ve been REALLY good friends before.
now that we`re going out, we`re kinda shy around each other...
-he hasn`t kissed me
-he wants to hold my hand but hasn`t.

what should i do the next time i see him [nextweek]
should i just go ahead & make the first move?
if sooo. how?

2007-07-01 11:11:15 · 28 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

well...
theres this girl at school and ive known her for about a year now. We've got really close, and the other day she was saying abput how well we have got to know each other in such a short amount of time on MSN (im in her display pic for tht with her). Even one of her and my best friends noticed this and is trying to set us both up.

As soon as i log into MSN, she says hi to me (if shes online). On her myspace, she has a pic of me with her under her friends bit. She currently has the highest score on my myspace quiz (along with my best mate, but theres some stuff she obvs wouldnt know)

When we pass in the corridors at school etc, we always give each othe high 5s and say hi. I try to sit next to her in as many lessons as possible, and wen i ask her who she sits next to in a lesson she always asks me if i want to sit there.

We meet up in town quite a bit, mainly with others though, or go after school quite a bit.

I want to know if she sees me as a frend or more.....

2007-07-01 11:11:03 · 10 answers · asked by JAMMIN... 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom is a drunk and in rehab , my brother is dead, and my dad is abusive. I am stuck here alone and should get help but am afriad to: if my dad finds out he'll literally kill me. I still have the scar from when I tried to tell my teacher what was going on. My dad found out and literally threw my down them, then took me outside and punched me in the face. I see only two choices: run away or die. HELP!!

2007-07-01 11:09:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i aint picky im just hungry. oooooooooohhhhh yeah!

2007-07-01 11:08:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the Mormon and Catholic religion when you take vows with your partner, the sealing is very different. In the Mormon religion you seal with "For all time and eternity" while in the Catholic religion you get sealed with "Till death do you part" My bf is Mormon and I'm Catholic. I believe that no matter how you get sealed you will still be reunited with you family in heaven if you did good on earth, even if we're sealed with "Till death do you part" He believes that you will only be reunited with your family in heaven only if your sealed with "For all time and eternity" How is that? Does anybody know more in depth about the Mormons and Catholics? I'm Catholic but, not hardcore into my religion, while my bf is a return missionary, so he is really into the Mormon religion.

2007-07-01 11:07:35 · 6 answers · asked by Lina3 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known them for over 9 years. The first time I met them I fell in love with the woman and felt my heart sink when I found out they were married. But I would never want to come between two people especially not friends. Well the guy dumped her 2 months ago after almost 14 yrs of marriage and I just found this out. I tried to get back in touch with them and the woman told me they were just divorced. She invited me to attend church with her today and then asked me if I wanted to get some lunch. She is devastated with him leaving.

Meanwhile inside I am torn. It was easier when they were together and so I never even entertained thoughts about the woman. But now that he left her, I want her. I know people need to mourn the loss of a LTR and I don't want to pressure her. But at same time I kinda feel like a liar because I am listening to her cry over her ex all the while I wished she was my wife. I feel like I should tell her the truth, but how and when? Help!!

2007-07-01 11:06:49 · 3 answers · asked by wtptoo 3 in Singles & Dating

Thanks for looking. I have been with my girlfriend for 3years and 3 months now, and we broke up. She broke up with me because I just wouldnt change, and we would argue a lot. I would never want to go out, and am very shy. I know she still loves me, because she told me. We have broken up before, but I got use to just saying sorry and saying I would change, and then we would get back together. It wasent like that this time. I am ready to change, and she has always wanted a ring from me. I am ready to give her a ring. I bought her a 1 carat diamond ring that I want to give to her. I was thinking of giving it to her right when the fireworks are going off. I am wondering what I should say, should I write a letter with all the things that I will change about me and have her read it then give her the ring? How should I give it to her, I was thinkin of saying how much I love her & asking her if she will be my girlfriend once again, then opening up the box the ring is in. Please respond thank u

2007-07-01 11:05:34 · 16 answers · asked by Joe B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months. I'm a Christian and wanted to wait to have sex until I am married but things didn't work out that way. He knew that I wanted to wait, it just kinda happened. We didn't plan it or anything. I really want to tell him that I think it would be best if we just waited now. I am really feeling guilty and horrible about what I've been doing. I'm sure he would be ok with it but how do I tell him?

2007-07-01 11:05:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....when the child has nowhere to go except for a series of temporarily 'camping out' at their friends homes (if lucky)?

2007-07-01 11:04:12 · 26 answers · asked by Alice Chaos 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

that she didn't want to do.... i don't know who the friend or the girl is... but should i tell someone in the family???? i mean, he is in his mid 20's, so he is an adult.. and it happened about 5 years ago he said... but i still suspect his behavior and he is around my little sisters a lot... who should i tell and what should i say??

2007-07-01 11:01:56 · 5 answers · asked by what's it gonna be?? 2 in Family

SOOO... I met this guy at a camp and we are now in a long distance realtionship. He is a really great guy, but I am very very vain. He is not like totally hot, but he's not ugly either! yeah, before anyone says it, i'm just RUDE. i'm 16 and he's 17. But he is sooo sweet. so i am supposed to go and visit him in a couple of weeks, but i keep thinking "he doesn't LOOK like a guy that i should date" u know? i really like him though, but the vainness keeps getting in the way. what can i do to overcome that?

2007-07-01 10:55:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This has to do with some questions I asked the other day about my brother moving in with me and my family.
I can't say no to him moving in. I feel like it's mean and he has nowhere else to go. Me and my family live in a small town where there is barely any businesses to work at. Otherwise you would have to have a car and be willing to drive a half hour away, which my brother cannot do.
See he's been in trouble with the law. He used to live in the city with another family member until he got into further trouble now he cant go back to that family members house to live, and wants to live here.
I'm afraid that if I let him stay here with us he'll just freeload or get into trouble all over again. cause there isnt any jobs available around and how wold he help us with bills and stuff.
what should I do?...I feel like I cant tell him no.

2007-07-01 10:54:38 · 13 answers · asked by preggo&luvinit 3 in Family

2007-07-01 10:50:19 · 23 answers · asked by xxobabeejdolloxx 1 in Singles & Dating

i personally believe that i am too young to get married, i'm 18years old, and constantly felt pressured into doing things i never really felt like doing.

I dont really see the benefit or advantage of getting married. its like all i ever felt was pain in my all f'ing existence i call the "fabolous life" so why commit myself to 40 (or however long) years to one person, who probably will only s.hit on me even more than the people i thought loved me, did.

i dont know, i just dont.

2007-07-01 10:50:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating