I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months. I'm a Christian and wanted to wait to have sex until I am married but things didn't work out that way. He knew that I wanted to wait, it just kinda happened. We didn't plan it or anything. I really want to tell him that I think it would be best if we just waited now. I am really feeling guilty and horrible about what I've been doing. I'm sure he would be ok with it but how do I tell him?
2007-07-01 11:05:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES. WE ARE SINNERS. AND GOD KNOWS THAT.
OUR FIRST OBLIGATION IS TO THE LORD, MY FRIEND."
If this Man really loves you and plans to be in your life forever, He'll have to accept your decision to wait.
If not, I am afraid you must move on. Even if that means through the pain.
God sees and knows everything. You must wait, for that is what God wants us to do!!
God will forgive, but we must repent.
Listen to what God has asked of us to do. And he will bless you.
Your in a tough situation here, and I'm sorry about that. But that may be better than YOU being sorry for not listening to God.
Live for God......Not for self.
I will pray for you my friend. God Bless
2007-07-01 11:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by Blueryno 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to wait until you get married?or should i say you dont want to have sex with a guy who will not marry you ?
then you have to think about this:
if you dont mind having sex with a guy without marrying him then you dont have to ask this question right :)?
now if you DO mind having sex with a guy that will not marry you then your question should be:
will this guy marry me?
now this question is to you to answer and you do that by considering the nature of the relationchip with your partnet and how commited -or not-he is concerning this relationchip.
i hope that clearified some aspects of your problem and i hope you find the answer.
2007-07-01 11:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves then he will wait for you...The best way is to bring it up randomly in a conversation...just talk about your religion and talk about how you think its right to wait until your married to have sex. If he loves you then he will understand.
2007-07-01 11:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by klneum01164715 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are sorry you violated your moral stance and would really like to wait. Tell him you love him, if you do, and it has nothing to do with not desiring him. Tell him you gave in to tempatation and don't want to anymore. Ask God to forgive you and then forgive yourself. God's grace will cover you if you do not keep on doing it.
2007-07-01 11:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... i so understand you, just talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel. I mean (this is gonna sound really old) but if he really loves you, he will understand and respect your own personal values. It sounds like you guys are really in love and i know you guys will get through this one...
2007-07-01 11:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Young n in LOVE.... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell him flat out, no holding back, no holds barred.
You've already laid down w/ him.
So tell him...no more.
You just told about a million strangers around the world.
You let go of ur integrity, so tell him.
2007-07-02 02:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lovers need to be honest with each other. Tell him exactly what you told us. If he loves you, he won't want you to feel miserable.
2007-07-01 11:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him how you feel. If he can;t or does not want to understand . Get rid of him he is not the right one for you .
2007-07-01 11:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him it was nice but you feel like you betrayed your beliefs and don't want to do it again until you're married
2007-07-01 11:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have waited now its to late to tell him no he will leave for someone who will giv it to him
2007-07-01 11:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋