I have a huge problem. I like one girl very much. I had asked her out, but she always refused. She did'n tell why, just refused. period. She has some kind of APS (she criticizes herself, has rejected many boyfriends) But she is exceptional. She likes parties a lot, and has many friends. We were close friends until I asked her to meet me, so I could tell ,what I feel to her, but she was afraid. Then I realized, how many mistakes had I made, and how stupid I was. I kinda scared her. She likes chatting on the Internet, but is afraid to talk to me outside . Phone calls also make her anxious... Some days ago I left her a present and she was surprised. She wrote , that she is happy, that I had done so many good things to her. She said, that I was very brave (she didn't expect such a thing from me). Bu she hasn't rejected me. I try to tell her, that she is the most interesting person i've ever met. P.s. Sorry for my grammar. I am from a Baltic country
2007-07-01 11:13:37 · 7 answers · asked by House M.D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt mention, that i promised her to play a song using an accoustic guitar (although i am a newbie). She answerred, that she is waiting for the song ... Could it be, that she is interested in me?
2007-07-01 12:21:28 · update #1
It sure sounds as if this girl is interested. Personally, since things are going well for you, I would take it slow with her. Especially after a bit of a rocky start.You do not want her to feel pressured or pushed, or that might set you back again. If you truly like her, give her time, be her friend, and tell her you will be there for her. You sound very thoughtful, and giving her a gift was a nice gesture. Now, go play that song that you promised, and always remain a gentleman.
2007-07-09 04:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No doubt she is interested in you. If she did not want to have anything with you, you would know by now. Perhaps she is not ready to get closer to you and no matter where in the world you are from,,the girl is naturally suppose to play hard to get so just go at her pace. Continue to do nice things for her,, surprise her just like you have done in the past. However, don't put all of your eggs in one basket. She may be shopping as in perhaps you are not the only one she is interested in. Women also tend to avoid getting hurt more so than men, when leaving a relationship so she might be afraid to get too close to you now becasue she has been hurt before and she is not forgetting how that happened. She is just being cautious. Bottom line is she is interested in you but take it slow.. go at her pace. Too fast is not good for you or for her.
2007-07-09 10:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by jorge e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is interested in you. I think that maybe she is insecure, maybe she doesn't feel she can sustain a relationship without geting hurt or hurting you along the way. Write to he, ask her directly if she has any kind of problem or objection. Have a lot of patience with her, since it seems both of you are interested in each other, you look like a great guy and apparently she knows that. Give her the confidence, show her that you care and are willing to work into your relationship.
2007-07-09 09:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is interested in you, but she might just be shy. Maybe she's scared to date a guy because something might have happened to her in a previous relationship. I had a relationship and he tore my heart. I was afraid to go out with someone. It took me almost two years to gain confidence and trust back.
2007-07-09 10:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by Kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow. Dont rush her. Try to start off as friends and see how it goes. If you tell her you are friends, and get to know one another better, maybe she will relax around you and you will find a way to make it more than friends. Good luck!
2007-07-09 06:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Becca24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually your grammar isn't bad (compared to most) i think she just doesn't want to be hurt or hurt someone else. she sounds like she likes u but... well i don't know how to explain. there r a number of reasons she might have doubts. she might have a crush on someone, she might not be aloud to date. or....millions of other reasons (it would take pages to tell them all) but if u continue to be her friend and be nice to her and what u have been doing she'll come around. good luck ^^
2007-07-01 11:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by Fayth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if she likes you
2007-07-08 23:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋