Thanks for looking. I have been with my girlfriend for 3years and 3 months now, and we broke up. She broke up with me because I just wouldnt change, and we would argue a lot. I would never want to go out, and am very shy. I know she still loves me, because she told me. We have broken up before, but I got use to just saying sorry and saying I would change, and then we would get back together. It wasent like that this time. I am ready to change, and she has always wanted a ring from me. I am ready to give her a ring. I bought her a 1 carat diamond ring that I want to give to her. I was thinking of giving it to her right when the fireworks are going off. I am wondering what I should say, should I write a letter with all the things that I will change about me and have her read it then give her the ring? How should I give it to her, I was thinkin of saying how much I love her & asking her if she will be my girlfriend once again, then opening up the box the ring is in. Please respond thank u
2007-07-01
11:05:34
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Joe B
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Thank you all ladies for all the answers I appreciate it. I feel very confident now that she will say yes. I appreciate all your answers, and thanks again!!!
2007-07-01
11:28:26 ·
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you are the cuteeessttt thing everr!
that is such a good idea!
you are so sweet!
if you really are gonig to change (i have a feeling you will being that you thought of all of this) then i would tell her in person, like take her to the fireworks, then afterwards sit under a tree in the park or on a bench or in a car or anywhere private, and tell her exaclty whats in your heart.
SO ROMANTICC GOOD LUCKK WITH EVERYTHING!!!
2007-07-01 11:12:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Well I don't think it would be a good idea to do it during the fireworks b//c she would be able to hear you. You should to it after, and make sure that guys are cuddling through them. Then when there over began telling her how much u love her and the good things she's done for you. and pull the ring out and Viola!
P.S- Whether if you do it right or wrong, a diamond always makes saying yes A LOT easier!! lol Good luck
2007-07-01 11:14:07
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answered by shes so lovely 2
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I would say take her hands, look her in the eyes and say "(her name) i am ready to change, i love you that much. Im sorry if i ever upset you and i want to show you that i want you in my life forever...and this is why" (open the box)...i got you this...then explain that its a promise ring. It may sound a little gushy to you, but she needs to know you are going to change, and you want her in your life forever. Tell her what you told us! Dont be shy. Its better if it come from you, and not if shes reading a note you wrote when your there beside her.
2007-07-01 11:16:23
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answered by Psychgrl77 3
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well...i dont think u should write all the things you will change and have her read it..having you look her in the eye (being sincere) and telling her..means alot more,and she would be able to believe u more..if i were in your shoes i would take her hand,apologize for being wrong,tell her what your going to change and really mean it this time,tell her that being apart from her is making you miserable,after you've got all of your feelings out,open the box and ask her.......very good idea with the fireworks
2007-07-01 11:15:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Fireworks is a very good idea but leave the note out. Tell her this ring is my heart and i give it to you. She will melt into your arms after that. No more needs to be said.
2007-07-01 11:25:24
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answered by Teenie 7
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holy crap a 1 ct ring just to be a girlfriend!! i always thought that was an engagement ring, aren't promise rings smaller stone settings- under 1/2 ct.. ah that's just me so any who...
give it to her during the finale then give her the letter later on after you all are done "celebrating"
hope it goes well for you
2007-07-01 11:40:59
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answered by nataliexoxo 7
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its a little to late, if she is willing to take you back, first count yourself very lucky. ask for forgiveness and promise that you have changed and will never go back, get down on one knee when doing this, put the ring in a home made firework w/ribbons ,then after fire works take her some where special and treat her to something nice. then count your lucky stares if it works and your forgiven.
2007-07-01 11:28:06
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answered by skip3800 2
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That the way u do it on the 4th of july firework. Speak from your heart, no paper. Good Luck to u both.
2007-07-05 06:39:34
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answered by dbrh_soto 6
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Oh, that's so romantic. Yes, do it, give her the ring. Then go somewhere quiet and tell her how you feel and how you're going to change. Good luck, be brave, and don't be shy!
2007-07-01 11:10:42
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answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7
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it looks like you really love you girlfriend so yes you should give it to her, under the July fireworks would be really romantic and unforgettable.
that girl is really lucky and good luck to you both
2007-07-01 11:10:54
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answered by sasha 4
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