Family & Relationships - 1 July 2007

My son is turning 18 soon and has recently begun dating. However his first girlfriend has very small breasts, probably an A-cup. Now god bless his heart, he loves her ever so much, but I'd like to set a firm precedent to avoid future heartbreak.

I wouldn't want him to be ridiculed by his friends and classmates for 'going out with a flatty' as I would have been back in my younger years. Unendowed females are also generally emotionally unstable due to low self-esteem (I don't want a teenage drama queen on my son's hands!)

My biggest worry is that many years down the line, their female children would be 'flat chicks' as well. I'd like my son to be a spittin' image of his old man, and to help him avoid some obvious mistakes.

Should I forbid him from dating her or let him figure it out for himself over time?

2007-07-01 06:52:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would it be appropriate to ask people who are invited to bring a covered dish, appetizer or desert to a retirement party/pig roast?

A friend's son just became a state police officer and to celebrate, they held a picnic for him and asked everyone to bring something.

My dad retires in less than 3 months and we were going to have a huge pig roast for a picnic as well as include a retirement celebration. Other than the pig, we were going to provide the cake and beverages.

2007-07-01 06:51:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What size girls do guys find most attractive? is it the size zero bones, mid size, or bigger girls?

2007-07-01 06:50:28 · 19 answers · asked by dixiegurl8804 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf can be such a bore. I work during the week so I mainly have time to spend with my bf during the weekend. However, I feel like I have to beg him to hang out with me at times. We live 30 mins apart and if i don't call him to hang out he will just not call all day until at night when I am ready to sleep. today, for e.g., is a beautiful day otuside and I want to do stuff outdoors. I call him and ask him if he wants to go do something since the day is so nice and he is just like go ahead without me I 'm going to cook. I know he isn't really an outdoorsy person but don't you think he can at least make the sacrifice sometimes. And even if he wants to stay home and cook how about inviting me to cook with him. I always have to suggest stuff otherwise we never do anything together and the only time we hang out together is if we watch a movie at the theater or my house. Am I being unreasonable for wanting him to make the effort to do stuff together. Do I try too hard? Help!

2007-07-01 06:50:20 · 9 answers · asked by Sandra F 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been separated for a few months now. We spoke about separating for a few months and coming back together to work on things. Well, a month after I left and went to see him, he told me it was best we stay friends. The apartment we live in, my name is still under the lease, and I still have a the keys. It's been about three months since I've been there. Since then he moved his mother in and put her on the lease. I heard girls on his voicemail and he even stopped giving me money that we agreed on.

Last week, one of his friends told me that he is talking trash about me... Him and his mother. When I try to call, he ignores my call and even got as far as letting his family cussed me out over the phone. When I call him on his phone. I want to confront them, but I feel funny about going back there. should I go and confront them or let it be?

2007-07-01 06:49:08 · 15 answers · asked by ATLCHI 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yes or No??

2007-07-01 06:45:48 · 6 answers · asked by soccerwoman96 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Girls are welcome to answer this one too.

I was just wondering would you guys even care if the girl you really like/love has a certain skin condition such as keratosis pilaris (kp)?
Or would you just accept her and still love her the way she is?

This question includes the rest of the imperfections we girls are insecure about out there. Thanks. =)

2007-07-01 06:43:54 · 20 answers · asked by Krista 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay i have been with my bf for 4 yrs actually more like 5 yrs in total.Anyway 3 months ago he asked me to marry him after loads of drama read one of the previous posts if you would like more info.I was so happy and relieved when he asked but he has been a bit cold and indifferent to whole thing.His Baby's mama mother of his 7 yr old son just called off her wedding after finding out her fiancee had cheated on her and that he was unsure if he loved her.My bf has been spending more more time at her place he says its for his son.But now my bf wants to take a break and go take the honeymoon BM has with her and son? Fiancee claims he loves me in some form of "love" but says he needs to explore his feelings and needs a break?He claims these feeling started when he read what would have been our wedding vows before BM became availiable again?What does that mean?
I love him and dont want feel like i wasted 5 yrs of my life?

2007-07-01 06:40:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm out of a long-term relationship and I know I have to go out and meet people rather than dwell on the past. The people I meet, we hang out casually (not "casual sexually", guys...casually). I'm not ready for a new relationship and I make that known, but the people must see something in me or what I do/say that just makes them glom on like I'm "the one" or something. I would LOVE to find that person again, but I'm not ready. I can't seem to heal and get out in the world because I can't go hang out with someone without them, like, wanting a future together..no matter their age. What makes so many people see "their future" in me? I'm successful, but not set. I'm not ugly. I care for people, but I'm also fun. I just want to go hang out not alone sometimes, but it seems that being alone keeps me from hurting more people, so I feel trapped. HELP! Maybe it's the fact that I DON'T show too much interest and I'm trying to be fine by myself that makes me a "challenge"?

2007-07-01 06:39:48 · 8 answers · asked by rlfesty 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for a few years to a man who has been mean and cruel at times, and mentally and physically abusive. I have been cheated on and literally treated like ****.
We have one child and one on the way. Which probably isnt so good.
The last few months I have spent talking on and off to a guy that I know. I really want to be with this guy. But I have issues. I have a hard time leaving the abusive relationship that i am in. I heard this is common. I just really dont want to hurt anyone.
Has anyone else been in this position and have any input?

2007-07-01 06:36:06 · 14 answers · asked by Tljabgdvhj 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-01 06:29:29 · 2 answers · asked by kate r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married in march 08, I have already picked out my dress, its ivory...and I am doing calla lillies, I was thinking of doing champagne w/a black sash for my bridesmaids but now I am doubting it, what colors do you think would go best w/my ivory dress and that time of the year?!?!?

2007-07-01 06:25:37 · 15 answers · asked by Kayleighs Mommy 5 in Weddings

my ex husband is a verbal abuser, should i record our phone conversations as "proof" in court, when i take him back to court for custody issues with my daughter?

2007-07-01 06:24:26 · 10 answers · asked by xxtr8sbabygurlxx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

An 8-10 year old kid. Not older.

2007-07-01 06:24:12 · 13 answers · asked by My Name Doesn't Fit Here 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you like a girl, or even love her, would you love all her imperfections too? BIG and small?

The world is just becoming way too superficial for me.

Thanks for the answers!

2007-07-01 06:18:05 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner pays nearly £600 a month to his ex....but we have found out that his son is not seeing any of the money! My partner's son has asked him for £20 for a school trip...The ex has spent the £600 on holiday clothes for herself. My partner is spiting mad as you can imagine....Can he do anything about it?????

2007-07-01 06:16:12 · 19 answers · asked by plasticcow2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You are exhausted and plan to relax at a movie. Friends need a babysitter so they can attend an important meeting. Do you babysit?

2007-07-01 06:12:08 · 12 answers · asked by ♫Problem Child♫ 7 in Friends

2007-07-01 06:06:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im in this relatioship with this girl and she has a 7 month old baby from some guy and all of suden he want's back in her life and she's trying to work things out with him because she knows at least the baby will be ok financially but she really wants to be with me but she's not to sure if i would be able to take care of them both but i know i can i would do anything to keep her.

2007-07-01 06:06:42 · 8 answers · asked by nephew 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

now i only have my boyfriend to dress up in little pink scrunchies!!

2007-07-01 05:59:43 · 6 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a guy rubs his knee / thigh on yours while he sits opposite you?

2007-07-01 05:56:30 · 10 answers · asked by SK 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a little complicated. We are both in the military, so our pensions will be our own. Very shortly after being married a little over a year ago, I was posted away to another province, meaning that we have never cohabited. Now we don't want to be married to each other anymore, he is very unsupportive in any way shape or form, and I have been paying all the bills. I need to know, do I have to be legally separated before divorcing him? Do I qualify for an annulment because we have never lived together? He doesn't want to stay married, and we have no assets, house, children or anything like that. How long will I have to wait before I can be un-married, depending on whether I can skip the legal separation part, because of not having lived together for the entire time being married?

2007-07-01 05:54:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He has cheated on me several times, and now we have a baby. I don't trust him one bit, but I love him. I know it is time to move on. I just can't seem to let go!

2007-07-01 05:53:57 · 3 answers · asked by Mz. Emmi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

In the book Owlsight, Mercedes Lackey includes a Bonding ceremony (marriage) in which both bride and groom wear elaborate embroyered robes over simpler dress and these robes, it says, are displayed on walls as art and worn on anniversaries.
What do you think of this as an alternative to only dressing nicely (my choice) or to a hugely expensive white dress that is never worn again ("my daughter will wear it" she says, having refused to wear her mother's or grandmothers' dress.)?
A robe, cape, or shawl which might show family history, crests, living locations, interests of the person (or couple) or art based on their aspirations?

2007-07-01 05:51:25 · 11 answers · asked by Mike1942f 7 in Weddings

ok, this is a long story.

Basically I was seeing this guy and he had a girlfriend who I had completely no idea about!!! I fell pregnant with his baby and kept it and only found out he had a girlfriend when I was 9 months pregnant. I did my best to let my son see his father but he chose his girlfriend over his son, like I was waiting for him, 1 day when we arranged to meet for him to take his son but he didn't turn up, he went to see his girlfriend instead! Anyway he broke up with this girl when my son was 3 MONTHS OLD but she is giving me problems!!! My son is now 3 YEARS OLD! She calls me a b****, a ho (even though I've slept with 3 people, my son's father being my first) and a whole load of other names and says I broke up their relationship! At first I ignored her but now she is getting to me. She won't listen when I try to tell her I didn't know about her - if I did I would stayed well clear. What should I do???

2007-07-01 05:50:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-01 05:48:39 · 4 answers · asked by cactus 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 05:45:13 · 15 answers · asked by mirrorbee 6 in Singles & Dating

Does your boss allow you to take a nap? My boss will probably hit my head hard with his knuckles..:{..if he caughts me napping..Actually I would like to have but with the numerous meetings and assignments.. I hardly get the chance..

2007-07-01 05:43:18 · 6 answers · asked by d Hearty 1 in Family

I want to do something special for my boyfriend,but other than the ordinary,take him out to dinner thing? any creative ideas out there?

2007-07-01 05:40:34 · 15 answers · asked by Yollie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-01 05:38:19 · 8 answers · asked by 0 3 in Singles & Dating