If you like a girl, or even love her, would you love all her imperfections too? BIG and small?
The world is just becoming way too superficial for me.
Thanks for the answers!
2007-07-01 06:18:05 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you truly love someone, you have to love the whole package. That is what makes us all different, and special in our own way. You can not pick and choose the good qualities, and throw out the bad. I do believe we all have our great characteristics, as well as our not so flattering ones. It is a cliche," but none of us are perfect" I do believe you are correct, and that the world is becoming too superficial, materialistic, and loosing sight of what is really important in life.
2007-07-09 03:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes love the imperfections. Imperfection to one is perfect to someone else. These are perception issues. There is no clear standard of perfection. If you love her, you go for it. If it doesn't work out you get to re-choose. Everything is temporary. Even if it lasts 50 years it will come to an end sometime. The 50 years or 50 minutes will be a blessing.
2007-07-09 05:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by bondioli22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it depends on the guy. If the guy loves the girl, then it really shouldn't matter if she gains 20 pounds, etc. And the same for the girl, if she loves the guy, it shouldn't matter if he doesn't want to workout at the gym any more. Yes, the world is superficial now. It is all about no wrinkles, botox, facelifts, boob jobs, thigh and tummy tucks, porcelain teeth, etc. What you need to do is talk with your boyfriend about this. If he is telling you that you will be dumped if you gain any weight or you quit college, etc. Then he is superficial. It may not make a difference now but it will when you are married to him and have 2 kids and he finds a younger model of you more desirable than his wife.
2007-07-01 06:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Nobody is perfect.
2. If you fall in love with somebody you have to be sure they are right for you. Once you are married it is supposed to be for life. Good and bad. What could be little things now could be violent later. Pay attention to him or her and how they interact to others (family, friends or strangers).
3. If you marry that person, you should keep yourself the best you can to the way you were when you married. Yes, as you get older, have kids etc....your body changes. However, gaining 150 pounds after getting married is over board. Letting yourself go physically is doing wrong to your spouse. Letting yourself go mentally is also doing wrong to your spouse. Unless of coarse it is a disability or disease.
4. Each spouse has an obligation to take care of themselves for the other spouse.
2007-07-09 06:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by saved1985 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "love" someone, you should be able to look beyond their imperfections. You are right about one thing, the world is becoming too superficial..
2007-07-09 03:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience has been that when we meet, appearances are very important. After being together for a while, mostly we don't notice, except to see how they're doing. Yes, it's nice to have eye-candy, but it all depends on what's inside eventually. Some pretty good lookin' ppl have gotten to be pretty ugly after a while. Yes. I know if I am in love with somebody, and they love me too, and treat me right, I can overlook a whole lot. I'll only see their inner beauty.
Peace
2007-07-09 04:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by Linda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would my mom tought me when you love someone or like someone then you should never try to change them because that's not how realationships are supposed to work that she told me you love everything about them and you even love all there annoying little habbits is what is wrong with men now a days they don't realize that if your only interested in someone because you want to change them or only for there looks or money etc it going to probly be a short relationship but then again most guys dont like being in a serious relationship.
2007-07-09 06:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thought about your lover's imperfections can be overcome when you are immersed in true love for each other.
there is no way, i can fall in love with imperfections, i would rather love her perfections so much so that i ignore all the other things.
2007-07-09 06:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by Yashie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you love the girl you will love the imperfections - big and small...
NEWSFLASH : No one is perfect. Not even me. LOL.
Loving someone is not based on appearance only. It's actually loving the person (their personality / beliefs / charactor / etc).
If the relationship is based on physical appearance only then it is not 'Love' but instead being physically attracted to someone.
2007-07-09 02:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi green,
are you kidding? My girlfriend lets me look at her naked. She wants to spend time with me. She laughs at my jokes.
I am so happy a woman is this interested in me, she could have webbed feet and rabbit ears and I would never say a word about it.
You are right. The world is becoming more superficial every day. A star for this observation.
2007-07-09 06:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by yoak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋