cause im going to this concert with my best friend and i know my friend Zach is gonna be there too is it cheating if i dance with him and i have a boyfriend who didnt want to go cause he was hanging out with his buddies he said he would go if i really wanted him to but i said he didnt have to cause i know he didnt want to
2007-07-01 10:01:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just dancing no bumping n' grinding
2007-07-01 10:07:03 · update #1
First of all, it depends on HOW you are dancing! If you're rubbing your body all up against him, then that's cheating. If you are trying to seduce him while dancing, that's cheating! If you dance with him for the joy of dancing just as you did as a child with your siblings, there can be no harm unless he gets the wrong idea and/or your boyfriend becomes upset after hearing from others how you were dancing. To avoid problems, tell your boyfriend that Zach is going to be there and that you probably will be dancing with him (because you love to dance). If he has a problem with it, then dance with your girlfriends. The last thing you want to do is cause a problem between you, Zach and your boyfriend! If you secretly have a thing for Zach, then you need to be more honest with yourself and your boyfriend! Behave as you would like your boyfriend to behave given he were going to the dance and you were staying home! Good luck!
2007-07-01 10:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell zach that u know that ur bf would get mad if u were dancing like not bumping or grinding but just like slow dancing or stuff like that. so maybe he'll back off a little if u tell him that
2007-07-01 17:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how your boyfriend feels about it. if he is the jellos type then he might consider it cheating, you should not have to ask him for permission, but you should also remember to dance conservatively due to the fact that you do have a boyfriend
2007-07-01 17:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your BF that you will doing friendly dancing with people you know. If he has a s----fit, tell him to grow up, that he obviously has to learn to trust that you are not cheating. If he changes, then drop him,. No one wants a baby.
2007-07-01 17:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the word cheating is such a clique nowadays. The real "cheating" is having sexual relationships with another partner that is not your spouse. So, no, its not cheating but your bf might get jealous though
2007-07-01 17:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think dancing is cheating. but it will probably make your bf jealous. Guys are just like that sometimes.
2007-07-01 17:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, but i still would not do it because what f zack tells ur bf! well u can do it, i mean its just dancing. but how would u feel if ur bf danced wth another girl, how would tht make u feel. look at this queshtion in ur bfs point of veiw.
2007-07-02 02:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not but he might not see it that way you knw . dancing is not like making out or moving in with him its just dancing.
2007-07-01 17:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by ~**casandra**~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Dancing is just dancing.
2007-07-01 17:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by Diminati 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not cheating if you do not get to close, but I bet you know your boundaries. No, it is not cheating
2007-07-01 17:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by Vic 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋