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yourlocalbarista
S What does it mean when someone describes their relationship as something?
I have a friend who has martial problems. He and his wife has filed for divorce last year and then when it was almost finalized decided to get back together. They have one child a 3, almost 4, year old. He and I talk regularly. I asked him recently how is relationship was going, knowing that he has problems. He said that they are something? I was like something? He said yeah, there's no other way to describe us, but as something. He also admits they still have issues.
They were originally divorcing, because she has been cheating with multiple men during their whole entire relationship. She decided to end the divorce after she had filed.
2007-07-01 04:42:57 · 16 answers · asked by yourlocalbarista 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In this situation, the one reason keeping these two together is the child. If the child wasn't in the picture, i guarantee you, they would not be together. So no matter how bad their issues are, their child comes first. I hope this answered your question.
2007-07-01 04:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Devika P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have no confidence in them selves.
Because they need the money to live.
Because they actually have done the same.
Because they are afraid of change.
Must be a hundred reasons that one could come up with but most of the time it is the change that scares people nearly crazy. Yes it would be a big change of life and that is not easy for any of you out there.
2007-07-01 11:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend has cheated on me 8 times that I am aware of, 4 in the last year. I stay with him because I love him and hope that he won't do it again.
No other reason besides love and hope. I don't have low self-esteem and I make good money. I just love him enough to deal with it and hope for the best.
2007-07-01 12:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by grneyes8621 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't want to throw in the towel when it comes to someone they love. They choose to put the blinders on and live in a world of denial.
You can't change their opinion of the cheating spouse regardless of the pain that was caused.
You just stand by as a shoulder to cry on when they are hurting.
2007-07-01 11:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people marry for love, better or worse. People aren't perfect and when you expect them to be, you will be disappointed in the end. But many stay for financial reasons, children, scared of change and mostly because they feel know one knows them like their spouse and they've been through alot together.
My advice: Stop worrying about why he did it. He has his reasons and you don't know what you'd do if you were in his shoes. You think you do until you have to live it yourself. Stop judging and live your best life, while he lives his.
2007-07-01 12:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by I Love Him Always! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The better question here is why are you so concerned?? Sounds as if you have a crush on a married man and seem a little bitter that he reconciled with his wife. If I were you I would allow the chips to fall where they may and not ask too many personal questions. If he wants to share he will, and if not, its none of your business. It is his choice if he chooses to stay with a woman that cheats on him.
2007-07-01 11:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Addictive Power of LOVE
Sometimes you dont realize how much you love someone until they stopped loving you.
2007-07-01 16:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People go back to people because they still have feelings for him and the believe they have changed...normally people dont change..it is stupid to go back to people chances are you will just get hurt again =[
2007-07-01 11:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Kaitlyn =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my idea of marriage is in sickness and health for richer or poorer so basically you take the good with the bad now cheating is not right but it is forgivable when i marry it will be for life till death do us part if my other half cheats on me of course i will be mad but i will do whatever it takes to salvage my marriage and move on
2007-07-01 11:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Pink Paige 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't put up with a cheater. I deserve better. I don't care how much I love him, I gotta have love for myself, too.
2007-07-01 12:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋