Having problems with boyfriend sleeping over?

Question

My b/f and I have only been going out for 4 months now and he is being soo pushy about sleeping over at each others house. I'm still not comfortable yet because we both live with our parents. His parents are chill, but mine are conservative. We got into this house arguement last night b/c he crawled into my bed and fell asleep..w/o my permission. I got upset. He keeps pushing and pushing and says if it doesn't happen, we'll break-up. Should I convince my parents to have sleep overs with him, or is he being a baby and wanting his way...I dont want to lose him over something soo lame. (Note: he's 20...I'm 23..)

Answer 1

Your an adult...decide what you want to do, your parents arent able to threaten you into making a decision you don't like, likewise the same can be said with your b/f. Assert yourself, it will be rough at first but you are an adult

Answer 2

you are both over 20 and still living with your parents? i could understand that for someone going to college but if you arent...get your own place.especially at his age.he doesnt seem to have much ambition to move out.

Answer 3

If he will break up with you over not being able to sleep over then dump him. He is not taking your feelings, etc into consideration. He sounds very immature. You can do better. You can find someone who puts your feelings, etc first.

Answer 4

Why are you going out with someone you don't want to have sex with. It is the 21 century and your both in your 20s?

Answer 5

Dump him and find a real man......he's being to pushy....if he's willing to break up over this, he's not worth your time.....

Answer 6

your 23! why do youi care what your parents think so much? ur being a baby!