Im 33 married with children but I connected so solid with this girl wearing an AC/DC shirt mowing grass at a jewish church. I am wondering if I should let her go and just have that memory or is she the one....
What should I do?
I think the feeling was mutual but there was no mention of this connection in our short meeting but she had to feel it ...
2007-07-01 03:11:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whether the connection was real or just in your head, you need to figure out why you want it to be real. You have an obligation to your spouse and your children to be faithful to them and find out what is motivating you to run from them and to another before you ruin everything you have. Even if you no longer care about your spouse, an affair would hurt your children in ways you can't even imagine. A child's identity is closely connected to their parents and they WILL feel betrayed, even if they don't understand everything going on. This is something you will have to live with for the rest of your and your family's lives, it is NOT worth it.
2007-07-01 03:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have a family and you should work things out with your wife and figure out what is going wrong with the relationship. You aren't even sure this girl had a connection with you. Are you willing to risk losing your wife and the respect of your children over a hunch? What happened to the vows you took as a husband? Do they not mean anything? Adultery, HELLO!!!!! If you decide to take the steps with this girl that you think is the one, but not sure if she thinks you are the one, please, please, please, please, please end the relationship with your wife first. Don't put her through the pain of an affair because you can't make up your mind on what you want.
2007-07-01 10:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by ontrack522 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married with children then I would suggest you need to sort out the issues you have with your wife. You would not be looking elsewhere if everything at home was happy.
Time to invest in your wife and family me thinks.....
Good luck
P.S In case you didn't get it leave the other woman alone. She doesn't need to be involved in a married mans life.
2007-07-01 10:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by Yoga Wifey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is she the one??? What about your wife and kids? Don't they count anymore?
Unless you are unhappy in your marriage ( and if you are then something needs to be done about that) I would let it go. If you follow it through and she feels the same you are looking at some major trouble down the road.
2007-07-01 10:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by rahtenrobbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your infatuation is based on a physical attraction. Talk to the woman and you'll realize you have nothing in common.
2007-07-01 10:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay home & take care of your wife & children, they are the ones who really need you.
2007-07-01 10:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run far away from this mutual connection, it is adultery.
2007-07-01 10:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your wife and children - LET IT GO!
2007-07-01 10:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be a man and think of your kids first.
2007-07-01 10:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by setter505 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fine
2007-07-01 10:14:26 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋