2007-07-01 03:00:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes you can. It is possible because your parents did it for you. There was a time when you snuck out late at night. Or you lied about something and they found out. Where there is love there is a way. The only thing that can replace a broken heart is the heart itself. If you want to make it work then it will. That means forgiving the person fully. Not holding a grugde and bringing it up every argument. Just put it on a piece of paper and throw it away. Hope I helped you out.
2007-07-01 03:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I have been separated for almost 2 years, married for 8. I went to him about an affair I was having and I was honest about everything. Just recently, we've decided to work things out. We are "dating" again. We both know that we can live without each other but we also know how good it once was between us. No matter what, I believe love endures everything...we are trying and we all make mistakes. Yes, I've made the biggest one ever but since I know that God has forgiven me, in time so will he. Give it a try and don't give up!
2007-07-01 03:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you've lost your trust, it's not just broken, it's over. I don't know your situation or the seriousness of your trust issue. However it IS Love, Honor and Trust whatever person you are with. They all go hand in hand.
2007-07-01 03:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by floridagirl1261 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the present day world, Trust has lost its meaning. We are not angels. All of us have our own weaknesses and why your so called 'trust' was broken is also an issue. Get to the root cause and if it is genuine, forget and forgive. Life is short. LIVE it - dont LEAVE it for something silly as trust.
2007-07-01 03:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by Vasanthkumar Mysoremath 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, forward as in placing one foot in front of the other and walking out of the front door. No trust, no marriage!
I would have a hard time with accepting what he says, which then may cause me to become suspicious and then I may begin to doubt myself (which is not good). Instead of that kind of misery, I would rather leave and start over - never to be desperate.
Be blessed.
2007-07-01 03:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Decent 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it can be very, very hard, but YES...it can be done. but sadly, most people in a relationship where trust has been broken, have not reached a level in thier relaitonship where they can truly forgive, and move on. in a case like this, it could take some marriage counseling if both people in the relationship want to fix things and move forward. but when it all comes down to it, it depends on the persons envolved in the relationship, and how strong thier relationship is. i've seen people try to work things out for years and never make it, and i've seen people try to work things out and recover in a week. it depends on the people, and the situation i guess...you'll never know untill you try.
2007-07-01 03:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As I know for a Christian Life, Marriage is a big responsibility to a husband and wife. There is no Perfect Relationship but you can resolve your problem if husband and wife talk, forgive, humble themselves and pray. Read Christian Books - It will help you a lot. Hope both of you husband and wife enlighten your mind. God Bless.
2007-07-01 03:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by rockstones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did before when I found out that he slept with a prostitute after promising me that he will not look for another woman, but now that were married all my trust is gone after he had an affair with a married woman and the worst of it is he loves this woman. His only the father of my children,I don't respect nor trust him anymore..............
2007-07-01 03:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it can be worked on. I personally had my trust hurt by my current boyfriend of whom i have dated for a steady 5 yrs now. I lvoe him to death and that is why i attempted to move past things... there were rumors of him kissing this girl, now we are 22 yrs old and this kiddy bull $hit was dumb to me, these were little girls who had a crush on him, i did doubt him , and still think about it possibly being true sometimes (mostly when we fight, i think b/c i want him to be wrong) but in general these lies were causing me to distrust him, and hurt my trust highly!! but he swore nothing happened, that he loved me and would never jeaporadize our relationship for a little girl. So i chose to believe him and here we r now 3 1/2 after that and truely deeply in love! I will always think about it periodically and it has taken me a while to get over fighting about it constantly! so i say YES you can work things out, but the key is you need to be set on getting over it , and able to put it behind you and really, honestly WANT to trust him again everyday working on it from minute to minute. Good Luck!
2007-07-01 03:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no...never...actually, that is my problem until now i'm still married just for the kids sake but i don't love my husband anymore because the trust has been broken...i tried my best to forgive & forget but its very difficult to move forward.
2007-07-01 03:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋