Her mom said she could go out with guys and so we three wayed her ex-boyfriend @ like 1 in the morning.Her mom asked her who she was talking to that late and she said me.She didn't say me and Sean(her ex) cuz she knows her mom would freak.She lets her daye but all she sais is "If you don't love him..Your just using him" and "Whatever..your just going out cuz thats everybody else does."But she really wants to go out with guys!!How can she get her mom to believe and trust her.She talks to her mom about it and she hears..she just doesn't listen!!
2007-07-01 03:29:06 · 11 answers · asked by ♥whit. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your just a child that doesn't understand parents. Listen to them and remember that they have lived life and know better than you.
2007-07-01 03:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 and dating guys hmm..i don't know I don't think it would be such a problem if this day and age was like it was way back when where KIDS went on group dates or out with a bunch of friends... or when the kids actually came to the house and met the parent's
And to know you really love someone you have to spend time with them I know people who still haven't found that someone...
and i'm sorry if you are talking at 1am and hiding who she is talking too then that's not responsible and won't get her mother to believe her...
been there done that just be honest!!!!
2007-07-01 03:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Catherine A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is how most moms are.i would juss let it go for now.cus shes not going to change her mind about the way she feels.but just tel ur friend that she should try sitting down with her and talkin to her about it.like telling her mom that she really cares about the boy.or if its her ex tell her to tell her mom that she is juss friends and she ikes to have people to talk to.it will probly work she might understand ..im 14 also so i go thru this with my mom lol.i always talk to me ex on the phone at 1 am juss last night and my mom wus like stop talkin to boys that early in the morning if u dont go out with him.soo i juss dont listen lol i do it anywaysss hope i helped bye byesss
2007-07-01 03:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is too young to be dating. Talking to guys at 1am is too late for a 14 year old. Take time to be a kid, wait a few years and start double dating and don't rush into anything. Have fun, but don't get all worked up about dating boys.
2007-07-01 03:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by ontrack522 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
provide up being absent from college. this is affecting your spelling. in case you want perfect be taken care of like an person, act like one. pay attention to your self once you assert "im no longer being irrisponcible no rely what absolutely everyone says"Do you definitely believe you're perfect regardless of somebody (exceedingly your mom's) opinion? Be open perfect your mom and in no way positioned your "acquaintances" till now her. Who feeds you, keeps clothing on your decrease back, and takes you to the physician once you're ill? might desire to any of your friends relatively shield you in case you have been thrown out of the abode the following day? you choose you mom greater effective than you think of. do no longer insurrection for the sake of having your way. paintings on that dating inclusive of your mom.
2016-10-03 08:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 this child has no business going out with boys.
2007-07-01 03:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove to her in a way that will make her think that she actually likes the guy or something to make her look responsible or just talk to her mom about it.
2007-07-01 03:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by bla bla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's fourteen. She can't drive. That greatly limits "going out." Listen to her mother and stop trying to prove how omg!mature you are, because in doing so you are proving the opposite.
2007-07-01 03:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by Bain W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try introducing the boy to the mom?
2007-07-01 03:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you freind that she wants to obey her mom because mom's always knows what the best for us. and no one mother put there child in danger.
2007-07-01 03:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋