Family & Relationships - 15 April 2007

The school year is drawing near.

I currently go to college in California, but I have to go home to Arkansas next month for the summer.

My ex-girlfriend and I went out for 2 years and 15 days before we broke up this past September. She lives about 30 minutes from my school in California.

I have to go home to Arkansas on May 19th. I want to write her a letter to tell her how I feel, but I don't even know where to start.

I want her back so bad. I love her so much.

It's been 7 months without her, and I've had the chance to move on plenty of times, but the truth is that I don't want to move on. I only want her.

We broke up in September, and the last time we ever talked was in November. Her dad called me about a week and a half ago to "see how I was doing," I left him a message saying how I was doing but no call back from him, yet.

The last thing she ever said to me was, "We will get back together, but not for a long time."

What should I write in my letter?

2007-04-15 19:20:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay so i had been talking to this guy for about 6 months or so and we were really really close we shared alot of things about our family i even opened up to him ( in which i don't really do alot )

and we are kindof far away right now so we can only talk on the phone.

he told me when i moved back we could establish something and that i really meant something to him and he would never forget me.

well all of the sudden he just stops calling me. and then he will call me about 2 weeks later all perky asking me "did you miss me" and i'm just like yep. and his phone always dies when he calls me like 2 minutes into the convo.

anyone know whats up is it another girl?

and the next time he calls should i just be like hey i'm busy i'll call you back later

or should i just go along with it and not stoop down to this level and not play his mind games.

i'm so confused what should i do?

thank you.

2007-04-15 19:17:03 · 9 answers · asked by venusian ℓove ♡ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 19:14:33 · 37 answers · asked by ♥Kimchi♥ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

married to you with two kids would that make you worry?

2007-04-15 19:13:27 · 10 answers · asked by babygirl143_dk 3 in Singles & Dating

I work about 10 -15 hrs per week the rest of the time am it home. I have 3 kids 3yrs 19 mos and 7 mos.

my man work 40 hrs per week.

my family say I do to much for him
I do everything that has to do the home.
I take care of the kids and him I get up 2hrs before he does to make his coffee and food for the day and I lay out his clothes. I wake him with coffee in one hand and food in the other and when he gets home from work dinner is ready and after he eats I rudder his feet and etc.
the only thing he does it home is help with the kids.
I feel this is the way it should be.
I don’t have to do all this thing but I like to.
but do I do to much for him?

2007-04-15 19:06:18 · 30 answers · asked by h_m_3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 19:04:28 · 23 answers · asked by jordan k 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been living together for 2 years. We got engaged in November. Since then though there have been some serious arguments. A lot of it from tension of quitting smoking and other issues unresolved. The last fight was major. Though we have had bouts before, he has never cheated. This time he went to his sisters and her best friend was there. She threw herself at him (she is very manipulative and gets around). After spending a couple days with her he claimed to have feelings for her. After a week or so she dumped him. I finally talked to him and we started to communicate. He says he realizes a lot of things he didn't before and we are in counseling together and apart. Now that he is back, I feel horrible at the things he did to me and get sad a lot. He talks to me and soothes me when this is happening but does not approach the subject on his own. I am wondering how you know if someone has fallen out of love?

2007-04-15 19:02:11 · 13 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Marriage & Divorce

the complications>
1.we have 2 boys already
2.most importantly,we married in church
and my religion frowns at divorce.....

2007-04-15 19:01:26 · 15 answers · asked by Riveroflove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

really hard for me, he keeps begging me and threating to hurt himself and so on. It is driving he crazy, I cant stand to see him hurt but I dont want to be with him. How can I make things easier for the both of us?

2007-04-15 18:59:41 · 25 answers · asked by flirtz1984 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When she smiles at me everytime I come around when and she doesn't smile often, smile when I flirt with her ex(tickle her ribs), and when i put my arm around her and she doesn't brush me off but when other guys try it she brushes them off, so are those signs of interest?

2007-04-15 18:58:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do so many girls always demand or at least urge to go for the tall guy yet the "hottest" men alive arent that tall. (Brad Pitt 5'11," Johnny Depp 5'10," wentworth miller 5'11")?

2007-04-15 18:55:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were never married and have an eight year old daughter together. She married a guy who makes about $35K/yr. She makes about $60K/yr. I make between $200 and-$250K/yr. I mention this because I feel I'm being asked to provide what her husband cannot afford. I have no problem with celebrat-ing her as the mother of our daughter. But it seems tacky to me and disrespectful of her husband. He's a nice guy, about five years older than me (20 years older than her) and good to my daughter. She wants me to take her to the usual place that costs nearly $200 for two people and a kid to eat brunch on Mother's Day. She's starting to nag me now because she knows reservations fill up fast. Should I take her there for brunch?

2007-04-15 18:54:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for over a year,

2007-04-15 18:51:31 · 13 answers · asked by reina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i left and came home heard my boyfriend on the phone talking to someone it went like this hello, hiiiii, yea yea, i know, i love you, yea we are cool, yea yea with agiggle,your the best, ok do you want me to find a place or do u want to go to the same place we always go to ? ok yea yea,the one with the downstairs?yea ok sweety ill see yiou in a while.
then sneaks the keys out of my purse and leaves without saying a word to me isnt gone all night but long enough and doesent answere his phone when i called him he says he was talking to me, i know he wasent i couldnt confront him when i heard it because i was afraid he get real mad when i ask him questions

2007-04-15 18:49:18 · 6 answers · asked by dwtnjuliebrown1 2 in Singles & Dating

We were together for 2 1/2 years. We both loved each other very much. We spent every minute we could together. Then one Friday night he went to an auction with his mom. We talked on the phone, he said he loved me and would see me the next morning. It was several days later when he came to our apt and said he didn't love me anymore and was moving out. No reason. We didn't have a fight or anything to make this happen.

2007-04-15 18:44:11 · 9 answers · asked by Ms Silver Dragon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

so theres this guy i really like
we dont go to the same school but he always textes me on fridays or saturday to say hey and to hang out but we havent been able to hang just me and him cause stuff always comes up
to me hes probably one of the best lookin guys to have shown interest in me
but since hes so cute alot of gorgeous girls like him from all the schools and all grades. I personally think I am not even half as pretty as the girls always tryin to get with him
thursday he texted me because he was listenin to " i got five on it" and he said he thought of me for some reason ( we both like to smoke weed occasionaly) and then he asked me what i was doin over the weekend and it ended on him gettin at me this weekend so see if we can hang out. and he didnt get at me. i know its nothin to do with him wantin my weed if anyone wants to know. is he probably not interested in me like that? he asked me first to get at him but then i said no you should and he said for sure,

2007-04-15 18:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together for a few months and I recently took a cut in hours at my job and I'm looking to work an additional job even though I'm about to relocate to where he is. He on the other hand is financially stable and has a six figure income. My tuition for grad school is due and I have some other things that need to be paid and instead of struggling, should I just ask him for assistance? He has offered before and I declined and said I have things under control. I don't know if it's due to pride or because I've never asked anyone for anything, but it's hard for me. It shouldn't be that way because this is a man who says he loves me and I love him. Also, being that I've declined before, what would be a good way to bring this up to him instead of just hinting around?

2007-04-15 18:33:56 · 7 answers · asked by mistyerious 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 18:29:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so at my last meet i ran a 400 in like 1:15 and an 800 in like 3:30(pathetic i know) well my coach told me today hes gonna put me in the mile next time and i told him no cuz our team only has 12 girls on it and i dont want to cuz if i can barely run an 800 how am i gonna run a mile well anyways i told him no but he said hes gonna put me in it no matter what i say but i really dont wanna run it so do you think i should just scratch it or what should i do cuz there is no reasoning with my coach
plus i think hes only making me do it cuz he hates me

2007-04-15 18:27:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a good friend that is always texting me and calling me. He is one of my good friends and i have never liked him and have never thought of him in any other way. he says that he likes my best friend and the reason he doesn't call is because he doesn't want to bother her but he doesn't mind bothering me so he calls and text's me. but a few of our mutual friends have said that they think that he likes me. i didn't think so until today he said some things that we a little bit weird. lately he has all of a sudden become more interested in my life and has been asking me "how was your day" "are you tired" etc. which is normal for friends to ask each other. bu he always wants to know who i'm talking to and if its a guy then how close are we...and my friends told him that i got hurt while i was walking with a guy and he called me and was like 'interogating' me about the guy. he sent me an im and i told him i couldnt talk cuz i was having trouble...

2007-04-15 18:24:55 · 18 answers · asked by Colie 2 in Singles & Dating

She knows a guy 4 de past 7 years.They both started talking only b4 2 years. She had a crush on that guy.Even that guy loves her. Now that guy has proposed her. She is hiding her feelings n pretending as a friend.As a friend I need 2 help them. I need help her sort this problem wat 2 do?

2007-04-15 18:21:36 · 14 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Friends

When does trying to accomodate the needs of one's partner mean giving up part of oneself? What should we be willing to change and what should we hold to in ourselves?

2007-04-15 18:19:08 · 18 answers · asked by Cybele 1 in Singles & Dating

my son graduates this year .but is going to national guards then to collage do you think his father should still pay child support???

2007-04-15 18:19:00 · 6 answers · asked by john j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend make out and i know how 2 kiss, but i want it 2 be REALLY pleasurable for him. we usually do this in public, so it can't be anything 2 naughty, but i want 2 know what i should do and how i should do it. and how do i make him give me a hickie? he doesn't think he knows how, but when he tried 1 time he WAS doing it right and STILL backed away! do i turn him head toward my neck or just tell him. he's the type of guy who isn't that quiet with me, but he's kinda insecure and stuff. please help me!!!!!!!???????

2007-04-15 18:18:06 · 3 answers · asked by honey 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do if your daughters dad has been out of her life for 4 and a half years. then decides he wants to come back into it. He wasnt there before. She is 7 years old. i have been married for a year and together with my husband for 2 years. She thinks of him as her dad. I dont want to keep her from her birth dad, but he hasnt been there. He has been in trouble with the law in the past, and he was emotionally abusive to her and I. He has told me alot. I have trouble beliveing anything he says. I dont want my daughter hurt and i dont want any bs. Our life is good right now. I dont want anything messing it up but at the same time i dont want her to grow up and hate me for not letting him see her. what would you do?

2007-04-15 18:16:28 · 10 answers · asked by COUNTRY GIRL 2 in Family

Broke up with my bf two days ago because I dont feel the "Magic" anymore. . I had run out of things to talk about with him and although I loved him very much I wanted that spark back(I had been trying for some time).

He is totally devastated and I want to make him feel better, in the past he has been diagnosed with severe depression and while we have been together he got alot better..

The other night he txt me and said he has never felt so low in all his life....what can I do to stop him hurting?

Have I made the right decision?

2007-04-15 18:06:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is addicted to a video game. I come home from work before he does and as soon as he gets home he turns on his 2 TVs and 2 ps2s. He plays two TVs at one time.
He stays up playing until he falls asleep.He even plays for a hour or two before he goes to work. He doesnt do anything around the house. Or even leave the house at all.

We havent done anything together in weeks. I had no idea he was this addicted to the game until recent when I moved in with him. Since I moved in he no longer does anything but play this game.

I dont fuss because I want to love him for who he is...but its hurting our relationship. He tells me he loves me but this game is hurting our relationship. I go out without him and he gets mad. But yet he wont go anywhere with me.

What should I do?

2007-04-15 18:01:00 · 28 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Singles & Dating

and ive been put in charge of messing with the car and i need more ideas so far ive thought of panties on the antenna, lots of beer cans dragging behind the car and a muffler whistle. any more ideas?

2007-04-15 17:58:39 · 7 answers · asked by ohmygodtheykilldkenny 2 in Weddings

You were 'talking" to a guy...you haven't had the chance to see each other for a few days. He sent you a text that said, "Hey, just wanted to say goodnight. Good luck on your exam tomorrow and let me know how it goes. Hopefully I can see you sometime this week :o)"

We have seen each other a couple of times socially, stayed the night together once (no sex, just a nice night together), talked on the phone and texted a lot.

Would a text like that be too much? Like saying I hope I can see you sometime this week. I know people can get a little freaked out if they think someone is moving too quick.

I am going to ask her out on a more formal date, sometime this week.

2007-04-15 17:57:04 · 26 answers · asked by John H 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my gf have been together for 6 months now. Where going to different colleges, there about 2 hours away. Well probably talk to each other everyday over the phone, but are chances slim on staying together?

2007-04-15 17:57:01 · 15 answers · asked by Trent 2 in Singles & Dating