Family & Relationships - 15 April 2007

is it possible for a guy (who is considered to be attractive) to be attracted to a fat girl?

2007-04-15 16:36:16 · 34 answers · asked by 4ever brown 1 in Singles & Dating

tim does not mind spending $800 on toys for his car or $400 on concert tickets for his son. but when it comes to doing something with me(ex vaction) we allways have to go as cheap as possible and he complains how much this is costing him.even eating out is a big deal on valintines day we went dutch.

2007-04-15 16:36:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would be your reaction if a black woman came up to you in a bar and offered to buy you a drink in hopes of getting to know you better? I am a black woman very much interested in dating white guys and was told by a white guy that this was a good thing to try. I then realized that he does not speak for every white man out there. So if you are the type that is intrested in dating black women share your thoughts with me. If not then this is not the question for you to answer. Also I would like to know how you think you would approach a black woman you were intrested in. And the type. I want to know a lot don't I?............lol

2007-04-15 16:32:55 · 15 answers · asked by Ki 2 in Singles & Dating

What certifications do i need to babysit? (not be a childcare provider) Just babysit for people when they need it. Where can i take classes? Thanks!

2007-04-15 16:32:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i belive it or not want to be spanked how can i be spanked ood but i mean it wheni am spanked i feel great for a long time well greater so how can i get some one to spank me

2007-04-15 16:25:40 · 9 answers · asked by iamiam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I bought him Sominex but doesn't really work well, maybe there is a different type of sleep aid I dont know of that might help?

2007-04-15 16:25:33 · 9 answers · asked by cruz o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has a step-sister that likes him. She told me that he told one of his friends (a girl who he doesn't like) that he did not think that our relationship would last long. He is very like cuddlely to me now that it is almost a year since his cousin died. I know that sounded weird but, we talk about alot. Also, everytime we watch a movie together, he has to be very close to me. I really care about him so much. What do you think?

2007-04-15 16:25:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This question is specifically for ladies. I recently brought my wife a product called an orgasm butten. What this product does; placed in the middle of the woman's back; you simply tap it and instantly causes orgasm. You can use it up to 15 times in 3 minutes at the most.
No side effects, and perfectly safe. Even though I have researched this item thoroughly; I have found no side effects yet my wife objects and disagrees with the product. I recently purchased it for my wife. We have a 2 year old toddler that usually wakes up right after my wife has gotten hers. I usually allow her to orgasm first in foreplay. We often do intercourse late at night because I work and train in the day, and we also wait and stall for our son to fall asleep.
Many nights my wife gets the chance to orgasm but I do not. I think the orgasm button will work better in my situation although my wife disagrees. She says she feels awkward and uncomfortable using such objects. What should I do?

2007-04-15 16:24:51 · 10 answers · asked by Jman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I will be filing for divorce from my husband in a couple of months. We live separate now and I have my own car and he has a truck. Both of our cars are in my name only.(his credit isn't so hot and he couldn't get one in his own name) My car is a lease and he still owes about $32,000 on his truck. He always makes the truck payment but now that we aren't together anymore I want him to get it in his own name. I know I will have to speak to an attorney but I was just wondering if anyone else has gone thru something like this. I am worried because I don't want him to mess up my credit by not paying it or something. I couldn't afford it if I was to take it for myself. I don't want him to say that I can just have it because he doesn't want it anymore. Do you think there is going to be any way that they can make it in the divorce agreement that he has to continue paying and to get the truck out of my name and into his?

2007-04-15 16:21:01 · 6 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we both work full-time and split the household bills 50/50.plus since we live in an apartment he has no outside "man" jobs to do(ex mowing,painting,fixing things)but i have a hard time just getting him to take the trash out.he will say things like "we dont have any clean dishes?" where i would just clean a dish if i needed one.

2007-04-15 16:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone know of a great gift that i could get my hubby for his birtday? not going over $75.00. he deserves something nice. he is a very hard worker, loving husband, and dad. i want to do something really special for him. he has had a really rough childhood and he says that his birthday was never a big deal. i just want to make him feel very special, appreciated and loved. we already have a babysitter for the night but we do not want to go to any clubs because im on medication and he has to work the next day. he likes to fish and play with gadgets. any suggestion.

the best answer will be picked for best answer!!!

2007-04-15 16:13:11 · 5 answers · asked by Summer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What will u do when you find out the media has been covering it up b.c they were complicit in the 911 attacks

fox, cnn, msnbc, nytimes, cbsnews, etc etc

What will u do when u find out the truth is they are in on it?

2007-04-15 16:12:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A marriage is a joining of two people, but where does individuality begin and end?

For instance:

Is it acceptable to have separate e-mails and private access?
Does this promote the idea that another's activity is questionable?

He tends to look at what I am opening and he peeks out of the corner of his eye to see who has sent me messages. Is this possesive or normal posessive tendencies in a relationship?

Separate e-bay accounts?

Right now, he has access to my account, but I may not want him to see what I am buying; especially if it is for him. Should he be offended if I change my password? How do I word it to him?

Myspace: good or bad idea?

2007-04-15 16:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by Sha-na-na 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok theres this girl in school that i like but im really shy on asking her out...everytime i see her either on school or at the store she makes eye contact with me...my question is that what does it mean when she makes eye contact with me what does it mean? please no stupid answers like for example:cuze your ugly...best answer gets 10 extra points...please help!!

2007-04-15 16:11:29 · 12 answers · asked by JD 3 in Singles & Dating

i am trying this really funny nice hot guy and some other ones the same but hes the hottest and the funniest and nicest guy there he loves me and i love him but he doesnt know i am ingaged and next week i am getting married and he asked lets get married next week and i am like know i can't and hes like oh ok and im like how about the week after that and he said ok what ever you want and i said thanks and when he finds out i am married and we get married he week after that he will devorce or something and say i hate you or soimething even though he said i love you please just help?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-15 16:10:57 · 4 answers · asked by Meg P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The reason I still stay in the family is because I love my kids. I am in my mid 30 now, we marry around our mid 20s. Back then, we only had sex maybe 1-2/week, sometimes 1-2 for 2 weeks, so average less than 1.5/week. she said women want much sex when they are over 30s. now we are both in our mid 30s. that average is still the same and it has been that way. Sometimes, no sex for weeks, when I didn't talk to her, she knew that I was angry then she asked me for sex. The problem is I already express my feeling to her so many times in the past. I am not very demanding in term of sex but for my age, I do need more than that. And I don't want to tell her every time since I think it is the couple's thing, she should know it and no need for me to bring it to her all the times. I thought about to leave my family many times, but I don't want to leave the kids behind and they need a complete family. I always thinking to leave after they get marred, but that maybe twenty+ years late,AH?

2007-04-15 16:10:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband just started a new job, and I just about passed out when I found out what he will be making. I want to make sure that next year we don't end up owing taxes because we didn't have enough taken out of his check. I already told him to fill out his W-4 listing no dependents and also to have an extra $50-100 a week taken out in taxes. Is there anything else that we need to do in order to avoid not having enough taken out?

2007-04-15 16:05:18 · 2 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes I feel like I want a divorce but I love my husband very much. He has no communication skills, he just walks away when we begin to fight and we are not even yelling. Sometimes I think we are 2 way different people and I just don't know sometimes?

2007-04-15 16:04:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I meet and feel in love with guy 10 yrs ago, we broke up, but I had no idea he was seeing someone else. We ended up meeting one night to "reflame a relationship" and I got pregnate. He never told me of the girlfriend until I had the baby & they broke up.He has never seen the child or given support. Since my child has been born I have had support only from MY family. A month ago we started talking, he says he wants to do DNA. (that was a month ago 7yrs from birth) But since then we have talked in some form every night. I find myself falling back in love with him because he has sorta changed, BUT MY FAMILY WOULD NOT HAVE US IN THE FAMILY ANYMORE AND NOT LET ME BACK IN IF WE BROKE UP. BUT I truely do not feel they would do it becuase of the grandchild but I still do not know how to react to my feelings or belive what he says. I want to be married forever, not because of a kid. I can not get him or our future out of my head.

2007-04-15 16:04:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 16:00:50 · 12 answers · asked by mat 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is turning 15 in 3 weeks. She lives with her Dad in another state. He has sole physical and legal custody. I gave it to him during the divorce.

I want to send her something nice for her birthday. However, I just received a message from her saying that she does not need anything from me for her birthday. I have not talked to her for a few weeks. I have been e-mailing her though.

I had gone to stay with her in my ex-husband's house because he moved due to job reasons. I live in another state. I could not stay and so I came back.

I feel that I have failed in my responsibilities as a mother and am an excuse for a human being. However, when I was with her in my ex-husband's house, I could not take care her the way that I wanted.

I feel like punishing myself and am generally down and depressed about my actions. He will not give me legal custody though. HIs mother is taking care of her for the time being.

2007-04-15 16:00:05 · 14 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

I'm needing help with romantic things I can do for my girl, she loves romantic things. I told her I liked her by writing her a letter and attaching it to her favorite chocolate in the world. She loved that. After prom I gave her a rose and told her I really liked her. And now I'm needing ideas for more romantic ideas. What can I do? Ohhh if it helps I see her everyday in the hall in the morning before classes start what romantic thing can I do there? Please answer both questions.

2007-04-15 15:59:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you do or are suposse 2 get him a gift when we coplete 6monthz what is something i should get him?

2007-04-15 15:58:38 · 11 answers · asked by SofaKingBored23 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There are so many deep mysterious questions about life and the universe...i might be wrong but i think asking ourselves more and more questions will give us the answers.

2007-04-15 15:58:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my ex left me for another woman 10 months ago, his best friend started to contact me through the phone a couple of times then he asked me out for lunch it felt very nice, then we after that we went dancing adn he started hugging me and kissing me that felt very nice, the thing is that they work together and I'm afraid he is telling all of this to my ex I already asked if he did but he said no what should I do?

2007-04-15 15:58:02 · 15 answers · asked by cherry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to be the best to me boyfriend but just dunno how. I am a conservative type and i am not comfortable when we are in public. I am used to get what i want and he often gives in even if he is not totally convinced. I could be too sweet and too demanding. I want to be the best for him. Guys how do wnat your girls to act?

2007-04-15 15:56:46 · 16 answers · asked by angel blue 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this boy and i think he likes me too.his sister and his friends are telling me that he likes me and wants to kiss me but i dont believe them but at the same time i do and i do not want to tell him i like him i want to show him i like him.can someone please help me and only girls.

2007-04-15 15:56:43 · 14 answers · asked by Sammii 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 15:54:30 · 44 answers · asked by Mike M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 15:54:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy at work was looking at my arm and asked if i shave ..and i told him no.. he said he wanted to know because he said you can't tell that i have hairs there..he tends to be flirty and sometimes cocky.. he's cute..

2007-04-15 15:51:39 · 5 answers · asked by pink 1 in Other - Family & Relationships