Family & Relationships - 15 April 2007

i've been on one date, and things with her ended in her being pregnant by another guy. now i'm supposed to hang out with this other girl, and maybe go out with her if it goes well. would she know i've never kissed if we kiss. how does all that work? i need help

2007-04-15 12:45:06 · 13 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 12:34:15 · 11 answers · asked by cool 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They said they didn't like certain people but they end up doing it with this certain person during work hrs

2007-04-15 12:33:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Help me.

2007-04-15 12:31:20 · 11 answers · asked by kelsey r 1 in Friends

I'm a straight guy, turning 16 in less than a month and my question is, is it weird for not wanting a girlfriend? I get complimented on my looks a lot of times by some girls, and I'm friends with a good share of them, some hot, some....not so much. It's not like I don't try asking girls out, but I end up developing a crush so strong for them, ending up asking them out, and they kind of leave me hanging, either being friends, or whatever. So I don't bother, or else one more denial would kind of crush my spirit.

Sure, there's hot girls I'd like to go out with, but they're not in my group of friends, and they're usually party girls, and I'm a straight-edge type of guy.

At this point, I'm somewhat sick of girls, especially all of them in my classes, who complain about the littlest things, saying random things they assume we care about. (For example, we're taking a test, and out of nowhere, this girl blurts out, "Omg, I just made this really stupid mistake." I can't help but think STFU.

2007-04-15 12:25:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy ,wich is very nice and I realy like him ,but he comes from a rich family and never been married before( I was married and have kids ),wee went out couple times and everithing seems ok ,but I was wondering if I should be worried about the diferences between our class scale !
Anybody any advice !

2007-04-15 12:18:45 · 22 answers · asked by Juliet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my son want to move in with his father i was wondering at what age they could choose what parent to live with

2007-04-15 12:15:40 · 6 answers · asked by proudamerican 2 in Family

I've asked a lot of questions about this one guy over and over and over. Each time a new problem comes up that im feeling worried about. This time it is worse. This hit me hard and i've had problems.
I like this guy named Frankie but Frankie doesnt like me he says [i dont have the right personality, im not attractive by his standards, not smart enough, and too young] heres the problem he likes a girl named Mickey. My cousin and friend. She is my age, she gets worse grades than me, and Frankie and i seem to 'click' more than thy do.
Worse part is she likes him too. She has a history of dating guys that are my firends and dumping them. After she dumps them she expects me not to talk to them, which i wont do.
Now frankie came over yesterday and mickey and him arent going out yet. We were sitting on the couch and before i knew it we kissed. Kind of jooking around and such it happened a few more times that night.

2007-04-15 12:14:33 · 8 answers · asked by drummergrrl2004 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother has a boyfriend (she is divorced from my father), and he's very nice, polite, and respectful. In the beginning, I really didn't like the prospect of my mother having him as a boyfriend, not because of his personality or anything, but because it's just hard to accept him into the family, and I don't like the idea of him ever being my stepdad if they get married one day. I try my very best to accept him into the family, but it gets harder everyday. I thought after a while this feeling of dislike is supposed to go away! I don't show anything, but it's hard to keep my true feelings in. How can I have myself accept him as a member of the family? After all, I have no reason to hate him.

2007-04-15 12:11:16 · 9 answers · asked by julia 6 in Family

My uncle is into things like contacting ghosts and stuff and for my birthday he got me a book called Developing your Psychic powers. It freaks me out. He didn't give me a reciet so I couldn't return it and has been calling me asking if I've read it yet. Should I tell him I don't like and ask to return it? Or would that be rude?

2007-04-15 12:10:15 · 16 answers · asked by Carly 1 in Family

i have dislexy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ok

2007-04-15 12:07:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex has moved not one inch from 3 and a half years ago.I left for someone else after 22 years. So be it.50% of marriages end in divorce. She has dedicated her life to making mine as difficult as possible, lying in court, making false allegations of "harrassment" ( I havent spoken directly to her in 3 years) and the like.. does this ever end????

2007-04-15 12:05:07 · 9 answers · asked by malcolmhiggins 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just so very confused on what I want to do in life and I feel like I'm running out of time to have a family if thats what I am suppose to do. I'm 28 and some days I just feel like running and not turning back but I also don't want to leave my Sister since we've became very close.

I hate feeling stuck!

2007-04-15 11:54:44 · 5 answers · asked by Whos your mama? 3 in Singles & Dating

was with my friend and a few girls i didnt know before this night n they were feelin my a.ss n evrything lol and were sayin stuff like '' come on into the bushes and well have some fun'' lol do you think they actualy like meor ar they just messin around?

2007-04-15 11:50:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would have put this in singles/dating, but it seems like only middle school and high school kids live on that page. So when you are looking for a real relationship, not just someone to date a few times. Also not necessarily marriage. What do you think is the best way. I am leary of the seak and destroy desperation method of internet sites and bars. I also realize someone is not going to just walk up to your door and introduce themselves. So how did you meet your true love? I am in my late 30's so looking for age appropriate advice

2007-04-15 11:49:34 · 11 answers · asked by Sleepless in Seattle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i forgot my homework at school and it was due 3 days ago and i need to give it in on Monday and my friend already turned it in on Thursday and she already got the paper back on Friday though there are no writings. If i don't turn it in tomorrow then i will get a bad grade in the report card. And she is making up excuse about it and said no. If she was a real friend she'd give it to me. Don't you think so? I think she is just using me. When ever she needs a friend or favor. Please help me with my problems.

2007-04-15 11:47:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-15 11:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by segkid92 2 in Family

i have been on here before with this ,so far this is whats going on since my last post..last yr in may i sued for full support after only recieving 50a wk for 4 boys this has been going on since 96 when he walked out on us.i have had primary custody of our four boys since.he only took them every other weekend and holidays never called the boys during the week they would have to call him he wasnt in the picture much at all .i would call him to be more involved but i would always hear i am to busy.
well once i finally sued him for full support now he wants to take ours sons whom i raised on my own his big 50awk didnt do crap.i did everything for our sons docs,dentist,er when they were hurt ,took care of them when they were sick,stayed at the hospital with my son for his surgeries.went to schools to get my sons help.

now he wants to say i am unfit i dont drink i dont smoke i never did a drug in my life unless prescribe .i was and still am a full time mom..my sons are 17,15,13 oldest18

2007-04-15 11:44:48 · 6 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 11:36:49 · 4 answers · asked by ramji 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay.....I'm just wondering if anyone goes through the same thoughts and confusion that I do..? I am so tired of the ups and downs of my relationship. Does anyone feel like their spouse just doesn't get them? Do you often have arguemnets and feel like they never get resolved ever, maybe because you just totally got misunderstood by your spouse? But this happens often. I want to be best friends with my husband. But we are soooo different, and have such different views and ways of looking at things. He is not a bad guy, but he is so set in his ways. I feel like I live life his way, my thoughts don't count much for anything. I'm just looking for people who can relate. Tell me your story.......Thanks!

2007-04-15 11:36:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know half my family due to my mums dad abusing her and them all falling out do u think its possible to miss something u never had?

2007-04-15 11:23:10 · 6 answers · asked by Nart 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-15 11:18:33 · 30 answers · asked by Big D 1 in Singles & Dating

im between 9 and 20

2007-04-15 11:18:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So let say, we have a time machine. Now in the present, we already know who your spouse is. Let's travel 10 years back into the past, shall we?

Bloop bloop bloop.

Oh kay now let's kidnap yourself 10 years ago and let's meet your spouse(10 years ago version).

And then I go:

"Behold! Your future husband/wife. *grin*"


What would you say and how would you react?


(Summarized: If I introduced you your spouse 10 years ago to you and say this will be your future spouse, how would you react and what would you say?)

2007-04-15 11:17:53 · 18 answers · asked by Adia Azrael 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This is the situation the best friend is always there to listen.
Including eveything about the girl's boyfriends. Can she end up falling in love with him? Ok he is great, but passionate love was experienced with someone else, love thoughts, tears, disappointments, etc. and the best friend was there to witness everytning. Why does he fall in love with the girl?
and If they end up having an affair can she forget her past love? Can they be really happy? Can he actually forget that one of the girl's past boyfriends and biggest love of all was also his best friend?
Thank you for reading and taking time to answer!

2007-04-15 11:17:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 11:17:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or do you feel it was all worth it?

2007-04-15 11:15:35 · 13 answers · asked by JustMaybe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, there's this girl... and... I love her.

We got to know each other last March, and in May she was already my girlfriend. But, after four months, her mother found out about our relationship and forced us to break up.

What to do.

But, my love for her was still strong, too bad she didn't felt the same. She goes around chasing some other guy, but yet I still try. I tried to do some stuff, who knows, maybe I could be better than the rest.

Tried to play the guitar till my fingers bled, wrote pages and pages of poems, travel hundreds of miles just for her.

But now.....I think I should face the fact that, she loves him more than me. Well, she doesn't love me now anyway. So I guess it's time I should just give up......


Well, I tried to still be friends with her, but it hurts me so much when I see her going around with some other guy, and me being ever the optimist my mind always seem to stray about plans on how to get her back.

2007-04-15 11:14:24 · 8 answers · asked by Adia Azrael 4 in Singles & Dating

He is 26

2007-04-15 11:14:01 · 6 answers · asked by anna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our relationship was great & the timing right. Now I’m resenting him for not doing it. I don’t want to pressure him by talking about it or blackmail him by breaking up. I’m pulling away, though, because I’m hurt & afraid I’ll take it out on him. He gave me a promise ring (sweet, but we’re in our 30’s…) but I only got a silly promise (e.g. “I promise I’ll always tickle you”). Nice, but I was hoping for a more serious one after (e.g. “Seriously, though, I promise when I get some things in order, I’ll give you a diff. kind of ring”). He also told me his ex is getting wed & he didn’t want to propose because it may seem like he’s competing. That's upset me so much that if he proposes, I’d want to get back at him by saying “it's a bad time for my ex because he still loves me & would be crushed”. I wouldn’t really say that, but that HE mentioned his ex & one of the most romantic events in our relationship in the same breathe…well, it’s basically ruined the “romantic” part for me. Suggestions?

2007-04-15 11:13:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating