Family & Relationships - 15 April 2007

I'm a DAV disable vet I get over 2500 a month for my disablity from the V.A. and Over 1300 from my Goverment job that also retired me...My question is, I know I will have to pay child surpport, but what about alimony??can my disablity from the V.A. be garnashed??

2007-04-15 13:33:40 · 3 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my mil gave us an old holiday decoration that was made by deceased relative that I'd rather not keep or use. my husband doesn't even remember this thing, it has no meaningful value to him and we both think its tacky. My mil called it a family heirloom. Do we have to keep it? its not an antique or anything that holds financial value. i guess i'm afraid howd she react if they to visit during christmas and it wasn't on display. We have limited storage space and i hve limited space for holiday decorating. does anyone know what really defines a family heirloom?

2007-04-15 13:33:39 · 4 answers · asked by Panda 7 in Family

My fiance's neice died in an accident. His mom let me know where the viewing and funeral will be and told me i could go if i wanted. My fiance is in iraq right now and we're choosing not to tell him because we're afraid it'll mess up his concentration. I dont know if i should go to the viewing or not. It hasnt been formally announced that we're engaged and not all of his family knows me yet. What should i do?

2007-04-15 13:31:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK LAST YEAR I WENT OUT WITH HIM AND HE WAS MY FIRST boy friend.AFTER 5 MONTHS OF PURE HAPPY NESS IT WAS OVER.AND EVERY ONE SAY WE ARE THE PEFECT CUPPLE,I PRETEND I HATE IT BUT I REALY LIKE IT.SO THIS YEAR HIS GIRLFRIEND IS SHEA.SO 2 MONTHS AGO I SEID MY MOM THINKS THAT YOU WON'T BRAKE UP WITH SHEA AND GO OUT WITH ME BECAUSE YOU'R TRYING 2 TEACH ME A LEASON 4 BREAKING UP WITH YOU.AND IT WAS TRUE!I WAS DISAPOINTED,BUT I DID NOT LET HIM SEE.SOME TIMES I WILL CALL AND HE WILL SAY,WELL BYE.OR IF WERE HANGING WITH THE GUYS HE'LL BE ALL LIKE YOU CAN LEAVE.SO,KEEP WATING 4 HIM,OR GET OVER IT?HELP!

2007-04-15 13:31:12 · 2 answers · asked by bradleys girl 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-15 13:28:26 · 2 answers · asked by So... Kiss Me! 3 in Singles & Dating

I know my mom would be more understanding than my dad but the thing is if I tell her I'll never here the end of it.

2007-04-15 13:26:42 · 14 answers · asked by kingsexlord 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 13:25:28 · 1 answers · asked by ilovesimpleplan2006 1 in Singles & Dating

does anybody have any great ideas for my birthday party? im going to take my like 4 friends bowling and then were i think just going to watch a movie... but its a sleepover so i dont know what we should do... and i dont really have alot of money to spend. by the way im turning 14.. im not childish so dont tell me to like play with dolls or crap like that!
thanks

2007-04-15 13:23:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so i was set up with this guy two years ago and we went out a few times but he told me over the phone that he couldnt be there for me the way he wanted to and he stoped talking to me after that. and after two years he has started to talk to me again. he and i saw each other twice and i thought we were just going out as friends and the first night we hung out he kissed me on the cheek. the second time we hung out he was trying to kiss me in the movies a few times. and then he started to hug me and everrything. later that night he started to kiss me on the neck. each time i told him to stop and i asked him why he is so interest all of a sudden and he said he was lonly. i honesty think he is trying to get some but i donktnow he hasnt been wiht any other gurl i was his first gurl in his life and well as mine. he doesnt even call me when he wants to go out he just im's me on aim. i know that he isnt committed this time either but i want to know what u think? should i give him another chance

2007-04-15 13:18:10 · 11 answers · asked by huh? 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been chatting with an old girlfriend of his from 5 years ago, on his my space page, she knows were married and she's married as well. I don't mind him chatting with her but he doesn't know that i know and I don't understand why he's not telling me. What should I do?? I am afraid to tell him that I know.

2007-04-15 13:18:09 · 34 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My in-laws are crazy people and have always been. They didn't attend my wedding. My mother in-law talks to my husbands ex and buys her son (which is not my husbands child) the same stuff as she does for my son (her real grandchild). My mother-in-law encourages weird and sick behavior between her daughter and my husband (1/2 brother and sis). She claims it's normal because you are brother and sister. She bad talks me and never has been there for us. We decided not to speak to her for the sake of keeping our family intact. However, my husband keeps going back to here the nonesense such as "You should leave her" you can always have kids with someonelse. Life goes on. It's easy to say, coming from a person whose been divorced 3 times and let her kids when they were growing up. Yes, her daughters were taken away and she left my husband as a teen. The term family means absolutely nothing to this women and I don't want her negativity or need her presence in our lives. Am I right?

2007-04-15 13:16:30 · 13 answers · asked by Rjay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I jus entered a school where the grades go from 7-12 everyone has their frieds alredy, and the girl im closest with is leaving. T he other people are really mean, i have noticed because they make fun of others and i dont want to be their friends but i want friends an no one seems to like me. Can anyone help?

2007-04-15 13:13:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-15 13:12:42 · 9 answers · asked by TargetPractice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 13:06:58 · 27 answers · asked by MARK S 1 in Singles & Dating

my mother and her boyfriend moved in with me they came all they way from ny i live if fl. my husband and i are trying to get their crap together. my mothers boyfriend tried to get a job and he failed the drug test with he finally got a job he said his back hurts went to er now he isnt working. my mother cooks and leaves out the food on the stove all night long and i have to get rid of it the next day. i have a nice house and i like to keep it clean and they dont put things back where they belong and they left dirty socks on my counter and he yells and swears and we dont do that here, so we are always telling them the rules do n swearing in the house , put thing back where they belong and well my mothers boyfriend is mad that i say those things and he told my mother he wants to move back home. do you think i am too pickey with my house ? do you think i have too many rules? please tell me. these are my rules no swearing , no yelling, put things back where they belong

2007-04-15 13:03:16 · 28 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would ur opinion be of a girl who is 16 years old and loves pink, would u think she is girlie, weird, stupid, or normal. Is it normal for a girl that age to love pink? What is ur opinuion about pink?

2007-04-15 13:01:17 · 26 answers · asked by Naila 5 in Singles & Dating

Do you believe in dating? I think it's kind of a social mechanism to power the movie, dinner, candy etc. industries. Isn't it really all about finding that special someone, who you can click in with and just enjoy their company right away, instead of having to "test each other out" on dates? I mean think about it. It's rules, it's roles... Wouldn't you much rather just explore this other person, and get to know them in a sincere way, instead of following some kind of script? Just a thought...

2007-04-15 13:00:04 · 5 answers · asked by standardstudent 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend told me that her bf forced her to have sex. But I found out from a friend that she had consented, but when they were in the process of having sex she said to stop but he refused. is that still rape?

2007-04-15 12:57:48 · 15 answers · asked by hittheswitch 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 and I have a 16 year old brother who has had one girlfriend when he was 13. The thing is my mom never knew about rheir relationship so she won't let me have one and there is this girl I really like. Also like the girls mom is fine with the Idea but my mom isn't okay with it and if I tell her about my older brothers last relationship he'll hate me forever. What should I do???

2007-04-15 12:57:09 · 20 answers · asked by kingsexlord 1 in Singles & Dating

My 14 year old cousin wants to move with me and my parents because she has no friends where she lives and all her friends are where i live. She is severely depressed cuz her parents wont let her. She's crying right now. Her parents dont understand what she going through. Is there anyways shes able to move with us without permission of her family?

2007-04-15 12:54:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-15 12:53:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Thats a quotation... Agree or disagree?

2007-04-15 12:51:31 · 8 answers · asked by Rona9 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like dis boy n he knws it n says he got feelins 4me but he has alot of friends dat r gurlz should i get invovled wit him or just be frndz wit him...he also spends alot of time wit his gurlbestfriend n his boybestfriend tells me dat dey once tried dating but it didn't work out .ps his longest relationship lasted 2-3 weeks...i really need sum advice

2007-04-15 12:51:26 · 6 answers · asked by shawna 1 in Singles & Dating

see she doesn't get how to do math and i do so she wants me to let her copy my answers on our test on tuesday what should i do?

2007-04-15 12:50:53 · 8 answers · asked by help911 1 in Friends

my boyfriend talks about his ex all the time. we will be together and he will be like " oh this reminds me of _____" i am worried that he may still have feelings for her. and i really don't know what to do.

2007-04-15 12:50:43 · 6 answers · asked by baconbitz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this girl at school.And she found out I liked her.She said to her best friend that I was cute and would like to get to know me more.We became friends.Now fast forward a month later...I basically wrote her a letter professing my feelings for her and asked her out.She told me the letter was really sweet...but her dad doesn't allow her to date.What bothers me is if she's using this as a underlying excuse for some other issue because quite frankly she hasn't told me her feelings for me(if she has any at this point).I haven't confronted her about this issue should I?What bothers me is I have to ask my friend to ask her how she feels...and what does she say now?"I don't really know"(referring to if she liked me).She's a sweet girl...but this is freaking annoying and frustrating. Couple of notes: -Her parents don't allow her to date until College(although she's made it clear that she won't follow through with it) -She's a super busy student -We've been friends for about a month.

2007-04-15 12:49:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found some websites but they are al religious and it will be a non religious ceremony...

2007-04-15 12:48:51 · 4 answers · asked by cokittedelarge 2 in Weddings

I seem to be having conflicting thoughts about this, some people seem to be true friends at times like they will always be with me when i need it but then if its to their benefit they will just forget i exist, anyone advice or anything to help me with this?

2007-04-15 12:48:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm 14
I feel so lost
like i dont know myself anymore
i'm upset or angered or numb most of the time, and i dont know why?I cant talk to any body
I try to talk to my mum well
she told me something about what happend in ther past life
with grandma ,it was horrible and i realised 'she's only human' and cant help me
I cant talk to anybody
No councilers
,mum,friends,teachers,i can olnly talk to you guys
i just want to stop working
i'm mouttained by everything
exams
social
I feel gly and fat all the time, it never goes away
i miss my granperents unbearably, it hurts alot, there dead,i was very close to my granddad
and even now just trying to type about him, makes
me cry.
I have unstable brothers in the past if i tell my mum all the things i'm feeling and thinking she might think 'SHE CANT TAKE IT'

and she's fat and has diabetes so has my dad
I dont want her to die when she's 60
i've said this and she tries but she
cant do it
i can only talk on here please xx

2007-04-15 12:47:48 · 8 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay i need clarification on this, when you get married, you have a joint bank account. and then you divorce. what happens?

now another clarification, what if you have your own bank accounts and one together. nothing happens to your own accounts?

2007-04-15 12:46:36 · 13 answers · asked by LADIDAH 5 in Marriage & Divorce