I need help?

Question

i'm 14
I feel so lost
like i dont know myself anymore
i'm upset or angered or numb most of the time, and i dont know why?I cant talk to any body
I try to talk to my mum well
she told me something about what happend in ther past life
with grandma ,it was horrible and i realised 'she's only human' and cant help me
I cant talk to anybody
No councilers
,mum,friends,teachers,i can olnly talk to you guys
i just want to stop working
i'm mouttained by everything
exams
social
I feel gly and fat all the time, it never goes away
i miss my granperents unbearably, it hurts alot, there dead,i was very close to my granddad
and even now just trying to type about him, makes
me cry.
I have unstable brothers in the past if i tell my mum all the things i'm feeling and thinking she might think 'SHE CANT TAKE IT'

and she's fat and has diabetes so has my dad
I dont want her to die when she's 60
i've said this and she tries but she
cant do it
i can only talk on here please xx

Answer 1

Sweetie,

You are going through many changes physically and emotionally. Your body chemistry is out of balance with hormones. You are transistioning to adulthood and leaving childhood innocence. Your mom needs your help in helping through this period of your life. Be patient. Try to talk with your Mom, your school counsoler, your doctor and/or your pastor. Each one might be able to help you in their own way. The more people you can talk with, the greater insight you might find.

I have lost all of my grand-parents, my mom, my step-dad, and my dad. The one thing I have learned is you will miss them, but you need to remember the good times you had with them because they wouldn't want you to be sad. They will always be with you in your heart.

God Bless

Answer 2

wow Kate,
I do feel for you! I am a nanny for a girl your age, and I to have been your age before! It is a tough age, I am not quite understanding what exactly is so wrong. I know I am not in your shoes, and you sound very unhappy. Are both your parents sick? Do you have any close aunts or uncles? I wish you the best! Try to hang in there. You should start a journal. Sometimes it helps to write your feelings down on paper. I will be thinking about you! Good luck

Answer 3

You need to talk about this, and not just here on Yahoo Answers. This sounds like it goes way beyond normal teenage angst. You need help - professional help. It sounds to me that you might be experiencing some heavy duty depression. I know, I've been there too.
You must get to a doctor, and if your parents won't take you, go to the school councilor and ask them for help. Do so sooner rather than later, we've lost too many kids to suicide, which untreated depression can lead to. Not to mention drug abuse, running away and homelessness.
Believe me you are worth the trouble, you really need to take care of you. Asking for help is not weakness, it is a very adult thing to do.
Please Take Care!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

hey sweetie, i know how you feel at 13 i was going through some tough times and at 15 i left home, life is hard and feel you like you have all the worlds worrys on your shoulders. but to be honest u dont you will be ok you may not think so now but you will be being young is so hard because everyone thinks ur a dumb kid with no feelings and just attitude tuth is deep down u do care and u do want to be the one that everyone calls on! but ur just a youngster, life will get easier and ur mum telling u that she prob thought she was making it easier on you to be urself. thing is when someone says why do u feel that way its soo frustrating because u really dont know yrself and that angers u more.
u feel like ur problems are small they are not talkin to docs does wonders believe me i know xx

Answer 5

try to relax, and rest everytime you can't find answers it helps when you are feeling confused . Everything it's in your capacity to see things in an anti-depress way, speaking with a doctor it's a good choice too .

Answer 6

I think you should see a doctor, its sounds as if you could be suffering from depression. Do you have a spiritual advisor , Priest/Preacher you can talk to? You're way too unhappy for just being 14, please see a doctor.

Answer 7

Don't worry. It's just a stage that you will soon pass. My granddad died 3 years ago in December, and i never got over it until summer break. It will pass.

I hope you get alright. If someone asks, just tell them that you don't feel so well.

Answer 8

i feel the exact same way i dont know how to help you but i understand...read my question im the depresed 11 year old