I really like this girl at school.And she found out I liked her.She said to her best friend that I was cute and would like to get to know me more.We became friends.Now fast forward a month later...I basically wrote her a letter professing my feelings for her and asked her out.She told me the letter was really sweet...but her dad doesn't allow her to date.What bothers me is if she's using this as a underlying excuse for some other issue because quite frankly she hasn't told me her feelings for me(if she has any at this point).I haven't confronted her about this issue should I?What bothers me is I have to ask my friend to ask her how she feels...and what does she say now?"I don't really know"(referring to if she liked me).She's a sweet girl...but this is freaking annoying and frustrating. Couple of notes: -Her parents don't allow her to date until College(although she's made it clear that she won't follow through with it) -She's a super busy student -We've been friends for about a month.
2007-04-15 12:49:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to move on but I'm just so into her.She's a real nice girl and I feel we click a lot.And that I make her laugh.It's just for some weird reason she refuses to tell me her feelings for me.
2007-04-15 12:50:06 · update #1
Both of you sound young. It's probably true her father doesn't want her to date. All fathers are protective of their daughters -it's normal. You are friends, why can't that be enough for the time being? I think she likes you, but it is difficult for some to actually say it. Why don't you just accept & enjoy the time together as friends. Whatever you do, don't pressure her or you'll loose her as a friend. She sounds like a lovely girl with morals. So respect that, and enjoy her company for now. She can very well change her decision to a positive outlook about you - you will just have to be patient.
Good luck.
2007-04-23 12:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Susie L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family should always come first. They are the people who will be there for you and take care of you when you get wounded in war. It is, however, important for you to find a career that you enjoy. What about something like law enforcement or firefighting. Both of those are "exciting" careers that don't involve sitting behind a desk at a computer all day. What about a recruiter for the military? Try and find a compromise that your wife can live with. What you ultimately need to do is figure out which is more important to you. If you say your wife is, then you need to make the sacrifice and find another job that will also make you happy.
2016-05-21 00:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by pilar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating can be scary, especially if you're on the young side. Perhaps her parents really won't let her go out with boys yet.
Try to spend time with your friend at school. Perhaps you could get together during lunch, a study hall, or after school. The next time you go to a party, invite her. She doesn't have to go with you--she could attend with some girl friends, and you could hook up there.
You could also ask if you could go to her house so she could help you with homework. There shouldn't be any objection if you do it at the dining room table. As she and her parents get to know you, they'll probably open up a bit.
2007-04-23 12:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by dirty t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and not have a friend in the middle. That person is probably uncomfortable being put there.
You could still be friends but if you're wanting more and she's not able to be what you want then it's time you graciously move on. There are lots of girls that would probably like to get to know you.
2007-04-23 11:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by momma mia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, she probably doesn't want any more. Maybe she really doesn't want to date now and her parents' rule is a convenient cover for her to use. Maybe she does like you, but she's not ready to admit it yet. You said she's a really busy student so it's possible that she doesn't really think of dating seriously. High school is a busy time and sometimes people just can't fit dating in.
2007-04-15 12:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a good idea to do something with her that includes her parents. Go to a museum, a movie, a little league game or any other thing that will allow you to spend time with her and allow her folks to get to know you. If she is worth all that trouble that's the best route to take. Best of luck.
2007-04-23 11:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Victor B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how she really feels about u. Go and talk to her father and ask him if u can date hers daughter, told him that u really care about her, but one thing don't talk her that u going to see her father, just do it in case she lied about the her father don;t let her date nobody. Like that u will find the truth.
2007-04-23 11:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a stuck up rich girl that is shallower than a kiddie pool. You may think she's nice, but sounds like she doen't care about you, and doesn't want to spend time with you. Daddy is just an excuse. If she really had feelings for you, she wouldn't care she would sneak around and still date you. :)
2007-04-23 07:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by spawanee 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just ask her how she feels about you... though it seems she's kind of avoiding it, which could mean she's not sure or has no feelings at all for you...
but you'll never really know until you actually ask her.
just don't be pushy about it... lol.
2007-04-15 12:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋