Family & Relationships - 15 April 2007

if not, would u? knw ne1 who has?

2007-04-15 02:23:37 · 19 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend often says "Oh god i'm gay" when she's said something stupid, or something she regrets saying, using it in the way of "I'm an idiot". But this time she wasn't joking and I've offended her by saying "no you're not" thinking she meant it in the idiot way. I've told her I didn't mean it that way and that i didn't mean to offend her and asked her what I can say and she says she doesn't care anymore. To make it worse just after it had happened I signed out of Msn to talk on the phone because I had to take a message and put it on paper. She thought I'd blocked her and kept calling me a homophobe, which I'm not, I have no problems with it, if she likes the same sex I'm fine with that, love is love, after all.
What can I do to make it up to her? She'll be at school tommorrow and I don't know what to do or say to her. Please help!

2007-04-15 02:22:15 · 34 answers · asked by K 2 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend are both 14...and he's VERY shy, and im VERY confident...i hang out with guys WAY more than girls. So when im out with my guy friends and my boyfriend, i tend to muck about and get close to my guy friends, and my boyfriend being shy doesn't do anything! According to one of my girlfriends, he looks like he's often jelous...i cant help this, what can i do?! I dont want him to feel like this...

2007-04-15 02:21:59 · 11 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant stop thinking about my best friend. We both like eachother but we both are taken by other people. We have kissed once when we were drunk but we are trying to get rid of these feelings. Its just not happening i think about him ALL the time, i feel like my head is going to explode.

2007-04-15 02:20:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 02:20:03 · 16 answers · asked by Tate 2 in Weddings

My son is 26 years old. He loves to spend time with his new-baby born and wife, but he never seems to ever call me. I always call him but he never answers. I might ask him that if I should move in with him. Do you think I should or not?

2007-04-15 02:19:06 · 9 answers · asked by chip d 3 in Family

2007-04-15 02:18:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like cellphone,cuz I broke up with him for constantly lying to me.He forcefully took it back.-

2007-04-15 02:18:24 · 11 answers · asked by Carine3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious,trying to figure out if the internet might be used by anyone over 40 ,female and for what reason,also what state and/or country you are from?

2007-04-15 02:17:27 · 9 answers · asked by smokenh h 1 in Singles & Dating

She is so beautiful, has a perfect strong character.
She is limited by her parents, they are so strict.
we cant see each other a lot.
i love her thats why i do care about making her happy.

2007-04-15 02:16:46 · 4 answers · asked by Rman Coolpix 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 15 and me and my bf (who have been together for around about 6 months) is almost a year younger than me really want to have sex for the first time but because we have a long distance realtionship we only see each other a few times in the school holidays and our parents never have left us alone by ourselves longer than 10 mins. should we talk to our parents and tell them, because we really love each other

2007-04-15 02:14:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HOW WE SAY LOVE IT IS LIVE
AND LOVE THROUGHT THE LOVE PERSON

2007-04-15 02:11:48 · 6 answers · asked by GAMES1234 G 1 in Singles & Dating

at first my boyfriend was very inlove with me. he almost gave me everything special..he always wants to see me..always escape his duty just for me..(no sex involved).. then we always quarrel because he was jelouse, he only wants me to be in school, home and with him nothing more. then its like i became a ******. i always give him a head ache already.. now we already our 2 yrs together.. we are already hurting each other verbally.. its like we already have a gap and our chests are like very heavy towards one another already.. then when we had a vacation.. he raped me:c he raped me 3 times and that is the first time we had sex.. i feel bad about it because i am not yet ready to have sex (i am 23 he is 26) now..its like he doesnt respect me anymore.he says he loves me but he always gets hot tempered at me easily.. i can feel that some things are changing..its just like his love for me is not that strong anymore.. i want his love to come back? but how? please give me tips.. PLEASE. thx. :c

2007-04-15 02:10:37 · 6 answers · asked by mini 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he forces me to go ahead and be with him and i dont want to......so how do i make him stop?????

2007-04-15 01:53:30 · 17 answers · asked by <3[D@ViDs]_{Qt}<3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 01:46:01 · 4 answers · asked by alice_in_badlands 1 in Friends

making the trip (five hours) and helping out while here. But I was upset most of the weekend, as she annoyed me. And I don't know how to keep from showing my annoyance.

For example, she visited my estranged hubby and told me for about HALF AN HOUR how much nicer his place is than mine. I'm NOT jealous. But after a while the comparison was irritating. THEN she said, "His place makes yours look like a dump." Uh, THANK YOU. I eventually just went into my computer room.

Then she yells. She's a screamer and gets angry a lot.

How do I control MYSELF?

2007-04-15 01:37:11 · 9 answers · asked by TopLessOne 1 1 in Family

What should i do, i worry about it all the time. I'm 18 and shes 16 and i know she won't leave me or cheat on me, but still i worry about it everynight. What should i do to cure this problem, its wrong for me to tell her she cant talk to other guys who are her friends, and i wont do that to her.

2007-04-15 01:32:18 · 18 answers · asked by Scott R 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom has been visiting (I've been sick) and expected to leave today. But yesterday my aunt, uncle and dad thought they were leaving yesterday. When mom found out they thought they were leaving, she started yelling at my dad and said, "This is the last time you do this to me!" Then she started crying and moaning and shaking. It was bizarre. She's always been emotional and, frankly, childish. But this took the cake. It scared me and made me think she's lost it. But my aunt says she just cryies to get her way. Who does that at almost 70 years old?! I thought I was the weird [re: stoic] one. Is this a sign she needs help?

Part of me understands maybe she was overwhelmed...She's been worried about my health, she made the five-hour trip which scared her, I'm getting divorced which depressed her and we've always had a tense relationship. But is her reaction normal?

2007-04-15 01:31:46 · 7 answers · asked by TopLessOne 1 1 in Family

Hi! I suffer from Borderline personality disorder and have damaged relationship with my partner. We have 1 year old daughter together. Plus he has 2 other children. He is 28 years older than me. We are not affectionate, I ask for that, but he rejects me,we don't communicate well and I can admit that I have to blame, but also not everything is perfect with him either as I feel he favours his other children to me and our daughter. I love him and he supports me, but I feel I am a burden to him and he has said that to me as well. Is the damage beyond the repair and shall I move out ,so he could have a better life without me? I just feel alone because we are never doing things together and can talk about important things only if his children are in bed or away and there are a lot of pressure how I need to be, but it is hard suffering with borderline and having so many distractions. How long does it take to get a council flat and what r the other options if I have no money for a start?

2007-04-15 01:30:21 · 4 answers · asked by Lona 3 in Marriage & Divorce

They misspell your future mother in law's name!!
Her name went from Barb to Barn.
I double checked my paperwork and emails, and I spelled it Barb, so I FWD'd the original e-mails and let them know about the error.
Do you think they should reprint it?
I don't really care, but I think my FMIL might be upset.

2007-04-15 01:28:29 · 10 answers · asked by sweetxgrace 3 in Weddings

2007-04-15 01:26:56 · 19 answers · asked by LadyC 1 in Family

my ex he gets to see our girls every second saturday for the night and holidays such as christmas etc we get along quite well so when he couldnt take them 2 weeks ago because he had to work and his wife finds it hard looking after all 4 kids (they have twins together) i didnt mind as he came to take them out to lunch sunday then easter he couldnt have them as she had family comming from the uk and they had to pick them up etc i was a little annoyed but he came and seen them the day after when he finished work then last night he was meant to have them but said he couldnt agian i had to cancel my plans to stay at home with the girls i figured they were doing somethin with the family from uk but when i meet up today to take the kids to maccas for lunch his wife was whinging she couldnt get this stamp of her hands when i asked where it came from she goes oh we went to an opening of a new night club "excuse me u cancel the night with ur kids for the 3rd time in a row to go clubbing?"

2007-04-15 01:25:19 · 6 answers · asked by mrs nevz 3 in Family

2007-04-15 01:18:23 · 9 answers · asked by rael` 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 01:17:30 · 17 answers · asked by abhishek v 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to know if there are non-verbal ways to flirt. I mean I kind of think so. An example perhaps is smiling a certain way or twirling your hair or something. Please give me your ideas about the way we can flirt nonverbally

2007-04-15 01:16:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its his 7th birthday, I havent been invited iver like normal as I had a falling out with his father christmas
we usually get invited over its so sad as my son and nephew get on so well
My parents have taken my children out for the day they only called in to give his presents
I have asked my sister to call around this evening should I say anything, such as why didnt you invite us over ? you have spoilt your sons birthday
my nephew called and asked for his cousins to come over but they had already gone out
I called earlier to wish him happy birthday and that I had his presents and cards
what would you do in this situation

2007-04-15 01:16:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fella and I have been together for 3years and 2mthsbut he wont commit to me. He stays with me but i pay for everything. Forced him into having a baby with me but we are having trouble conceiving (trying for 2 years). He dont to get married or engaged he has done the engaged thing before and i haven't. I recently found out his sister is pregnant and getting married? Am i being unreasonable to want this or jealious

2007-04-15 01:15:09 · 41 answers · asked by naj 2 in Weddings

Lot of serious things are being taken up & discussed in this forum regarding marriage, divorce etc. let me share a joke with all of you & would love to hear from you your comments regarding this. Two men, one American and an Indian were sitting in a bar drinking shot after shot.


The Indian man said to the American,” You know my parents are forcing me to get married to this so called homely girl from a village whom I haven't even met once.


We call this arranged marriage. I don't want to marry a woman whom I don't love...I told them that openly and now have a hell lot of family problems."




The American said, “Talking about love marriages? I'll tell you my story.


I married a widow whom I deeply loved and dated for 3 years.


"After a couple of years, my father fell in love with my step-daughter and so my father became my son-in-law and I became my father's father-in-law.


My daughter is my mother and my wife my grandmother.


More problems occurred when I had a son. My son is my father's brother and so he is my uncle. Situations turned worse when my father had a son. Now my father's son I.e. My brother is my grandson.



Ultimately, I have become my own grand father and I am my own grandson.


And you say you have family problems...? !

2007-04-15 01:12:58 · 25 answers · asked by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 in Marriage & Divorce

He is already in California.

2007-04-15 01:09:12 · 1 answers · asked by fatima m 1 in Friends

i think my mum is cheating on my dad. ichecked her fone and is having text messsages from someone she calls 40 he was like i am going to miss you gorgeous e.t.c. i don't want to be asuming somthing terrible about my mum. i really don't know what to do i think my dad suspects somthing as well. what should i do.

2007-04-15 01:09:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce