Family & Relationships - 15 April 2007

2007-04-15 07:53:33 · 7 answers · asked by jackie c 1 in Family

I am a guy who has a female friend who is a coworker. I became friends with her over the past two years or so. I felt like I could talk to her about things. She has a strong personality and has gone through a lot of hardships in life. Over the past month or so, I noticed a change in her attitude toward me. She started to put me down and call me names. I asked her why she was doing that and she said that I was being annoying. I do have some personality traits that are kind of weird, but she has become mean to me when she wasn't like that before. Everytime I would say something to her, she would snap back at me with criticism, usually in a group setting. She was a lot nicer to me when she talked to me alone, but she is hurting my feelings. Why would her demeanor toward me just change like that?

2007-04-15 07:49:14 · 14 answers · asked by iridealone 2 in Friends

Because much of our behavior is determined unconsciously, our friends and others around us know us, in some ways, better than we know ourselves. Would you want to *really* know what they appreciated AND found irritating, annoying, or even worse about you.

2007-04-15 07:46:09 · 7 answers · asked by Michael 4 in Friends

I have been single my whole life. I live with my twin sister, so I have all my emotional needs met, but still, I pine to be married. I need to face the fact that maybe I never will, but my human brain won't quit telling me to find a mate. How can I be happy where I am? Nuns can do it, so why can't I?

2007-04-15 07:43:41 · 4 answers · asked by saralizzy1981 3 in Singles & Dating

Tomorrows her birthday and we just got bacc together and im broke and i really want to get her sumthin special and im only 15 and im so screwed.

2007-04-15 07:42:46 · 6 answers · asked by dirty_third_king 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister is 21 im 18, but she always acts like she is my little
sister. eg. on her birthday she landed up at my place and asked me to
take
her shopping and buy her gifts

is that normal? are many sisters like that?

her general behaviour is like a little sister's.

she also likes to hang out with me very often

2007-04-15 07:41:36 · 11 answers · asked by AS 1 in Family

2007-04-15 07:40:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People have been giving me advice saying that we should just go out already. There are just a few problems, we consider each other brother and sister, he only answers my calls/texts at like 9pm-1:30am. Oh and then last night he was playing x box live and he was talking to me and people, so he was like hold up I'm on the phone, and apparently his friend was like with who and he said my mom. SO i was like no you don't say that I'm your mom! SO he was like nah I'm jk I'm tlaking to my sister, which kinda made me mad still. So he goes on and his friend says is your sister hott? and he said yeah she loves you. I was so mad that i said i had to go. And he was like right now? and i was like yeah sorry bye.

BUT.... a couple days ago he was all like lets hang out and lets talk like this more often [we talked on the phone for 3.5 hours that night] and he was saying how he WOULD kiss/makeout with me and stuff and now i just don't know if he likes me or not?
Read my other ?'s for help with this

2007-04-15 07:39:05 · 2 answers · asked by A&FloveX3 1 in Singles & Dating

i told my best friend that i liked this guy and then she said that she liked him two after that she had another one of my friends ask him out for her and she said YES and im like still in love with him we tried to brek them up but that didnt work so how do i get reveng !!!!!!!!!!!!! because as me and my friends say if you mes with fire (me and my freind are fire)you get burned!!!!!! im serous about this guy and he needs so much better than her and im in love with him and shes not!!!!

2007-04-15 07:37:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How red should her butt get and how long/ bad should she cry durring the spanking?

2007-04-15 07:34:51 · 7 answers · asked by Ronny W 1 in Singles & Dating

so yeah i dont know how to act when he gets close to me....
any lines i should say to him cause i am really starting to like him and i think he like me jst because he stares at me all the time in our classes together. and he sits at my lunch table with his friends and his friends alway like make him sit next to me

so does this mean he likes me and wat should i talk about with him.....

Please help
thanks

2007-04-15 07:34:39 · 6 answers · asked by oxonina14oxo 1 in Singles & Dating

just finding out if all some people do is base what they do in lifeon sex or being able to do what they want

2007-04-15 07:28:17 · 36 answers · asked by thndrstruck71 2 in Singles & Dating

---i went out with this guy & he and I shared so much together. there were some rough times but we got through it. there were a couple of break-ups, but we got bak 2gether, but now it's still off. **he and I still have feelings 4 each other, but lately he chANGed.
---He seems like he doesnt have any time for me anymore :( Every free moments we have, he spend it on chattin with the teachers or other people & we can't talk on phone because his mom dont let him.
---& i told him to come to my house this weekend, but he didnt come & never called to apologize. I write him notes but he never response to them. It's like his mind is into something, but I have NO idea what & he wont' tell me.
**---so, what is up with him? & what a girl like me to do?---**

2007-04-15 07:23:46 · 18 answers · asked by Toki 3 in Singles & Dating

being pregnant with this guy I like's baby, what does it mean?

2007-04-15 07:22:47 · 15 answers · asked by dreamer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm talking about those guys that are always smiling, scrawny, unathletic, high-pitched, good-dressers, and laughing at things that girls laugh at. Yea...I might have answered my own question in that last sentence 'cus I'm sure girls want to have fun, but I just don't get it when it comes down to serious relationships that go beyond friendship for this group of guys. I mean, evolutionarily, these guys are at the bottom of the pack most of the time.

2007-04-15 07:21:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There was a time when I was that girl
That girl you wanted to hold, love, and twirl
You needed me and I needed you
I loved you and you loved me too
Why aren’t we still in that place?
What happened to your everlasting grace?
I am still the girl you used to know
I never thought that you’d sink so low
That day I met you, it felt liked I’d known your forever
You made me think that you would never
You made me feel like I had never been hurt
And that I didn’t deserve to be treated like a piece of dirt
Your smile was enough to help my tears
And keep away every single one of my fears
But now I’m just stuck in a moment
A moment that wasn’t meant to last
It is now just in the past
I bet you’ve moved on already
But you left me here, stuck in a moment that wasn’t meant to last.

2007-04-15 07:09:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my gf was rapped by a friend at the time and i just found out about it, i feel so bad for her she isnt doing anything bc of me and my ex friend i told her i wanted her to press charges and she wouldnt and whats worse is he was over all the time with us and i didnt know i was going to ask her to marry me but i dont know if i should know i couldnt even protect her from a friend. how can i help her i love her so much?

2007-04-15 07:06:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Every month we women are tortured by the Premenstrual syndrome or PMS. I just want to know why men can not menstruate?

2007-04-15 07:05:51 · 31 answers · asked by oana t 1 in Singles & Dating

Go here to read article:

http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menlovesex/6165/whats-the-difference-between-flirting-and-cheating;_ylt=Ah7JKcPUH1AcDEA5B6BtO0SrJNIF

Would you want your partner to do what this guy says is ok? This question is for both women and men.

2007-04-15 07:04:29 · 20 answers · asked by Wimpy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, so my mother in law doesn't like me anymore, i think she's kinda jealous because she probably thinks i took her "baby" away from her, she was real nice to me but ever since my hubby and I started living together, she totally changed towards me. She would want us to go over every sunday for dinner and my husband didnt' want to, I would really tell him we should because I knew she would be mad if we didn't. He said he didn't care, he wanted to enjoy the few days we had off for just us. Well we wouldn't go over every sunday night and when we would go over to her house (once a month) she would just start yelling at us telling us that we shouldn't pull away from the family like that. Everytime we would go over, she would do the same thing, yell at us and just scream at us, then we stopped going, we havent' been there in a couple of months, I still tell my hubby that we should go over because I could just imagine how mad she is, but he don't want to because of the way she has been

2007-04-15 07:04:19 · 10 answers · asked by dazed and confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 07:04:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 22 and I'm falling in love with a 30 year old guy, what d'ya reckon?

2007-04-15 07:03:15 · 34 answers · asked by princesslouey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it coz it leads teh guy on and above? woot wooo...u think they're sexy?

2007-04-15 06:51:46 · 5 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for about 3 weeks and its getting really hard not to do more... Kissing can only satisfy for so long. He will be turning 18 in about 4 weeks. We know that right now it would be a very poor decision to have sex. But there are other thing we could do but he is so worried about breaking the law by doing anything with me. We havn't made it past second base yet. And we only got there very reciently. He lost his virginty at 15, and I am still a virgin. So we all know he wants alot more than he is alowing himself to give. I just really want to have thing move faster, I'm not used to having to wait so long. Prom is this weekend, would it be ok if I tried more? I don't want any trouble I just want him.

Oh and if it makes a difference my parents are pretty ok with him being almost 18. So they are not likely to press charges.

2007-04-15 06:49:42 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been together for 5 years, 2 years before marriage and 3 as a married couple. We were apart before we were married for a year with frequent visits between us, after we got married I found out that she had a serious relationship with someone. I came to terms with this and gave her the benefit of the doubt due to my absence. Well last month I found out she had gotten drunk at a party and hooked up with a guy friend of hers. I chalked it up as a mistake and requested that she no longer have any contact or communication with this guy. Fast forward to this past week, our relationship seemed to be as good as it had ever been... she normally pays the phone bill and I picked up the mail and had a past due notice on our cell phone bill, She had told me she had payed it and so I thought it was a mistake and checked our account online. While doing this I saw this guy's phone number in her recent text listing. I saw 50 in 24 hours. I offered counseling, I'm not sure I should

2007-04-15 06:46:32 · 13 answers · asked by flbuck78 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend were having sex last night and I went very hard so the condom broke, what steps should we take next?

2007-04-15 06:44:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-15 06:43:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anthony 1 in Singles & Dating

i won't get into details, but me and this guy have been through a lot of drama and we're both really annoyed with it. he likes me and this other girl, but the other girl's sort of out of the question for him (plus, she's got a bf).

because of all the drama, i think he thinks i'm not serious about him and i'm just fooling around with him.

how can i let him know i really like him without starting up more drama and without being annoying (having it seem like i'm all over him).

2007-04-15 06:41:53 · 25 answers · asked by jess m 1 in Singles & Dating

He is a wonderful guy and he took on my two children as his very own. He is the kind of guy that will do anything for you and being with him makes me really happy. Here's the point though. I feel like over that 2 years I have changed. He says that he loves me no matter what, but I don't feel like I am making him as happy as I use to. I'd like some ideas on things to do to keep him happy, but still keeping up the partnership we share. I don't want to let him think that I am going to start doing all of the cooking, cleaning, ect. We both work and I go to school. I just want some things that I can do to prove to him that I love him more than words can say and I want to be with him forever. Any ideas would be appreciated!

2007-04-15 06:39:52 · 9 answers · asked by sweetnsassyny83 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i had been together almost a year,when we had a huge fight and i left him.Afterwards,he went on the rebound with a girl i cant stand,while i started casually seeing my best guy friend.At first we thought it could our new relationships could be great,but now we've realised how stupid we've been.we are still madly in love,but our new partners have now also said they are in love with us.Its driving us crazy,because we do like them both alot and don't want to hurt them.anyway,i can't just leave my current partner like that,because it would really hurt him,and i know he would stop talking to me,for quite a while at least.i've lost him before,and i can't do it again.plus,his gf has hinted she would kill herself if he leaves(yes,she is nuts).what can we do?!

2007-04-15 06:38:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating