Family & Relationships - 15 April 2007

- I want to make it easy for women to be able to judge my suitability as a potential mate.
- I wish to save lots of time and heartache in the process, for both me and other women.

- I’m just going through a divorce after I found out that my wife of 7 years cheated on me (cheated many times actually). I wanted to have kids with her but she always changed the topic.
- Perhaps I have strange ways, or I look really ugly, or something else wrong with me, Who knows? My friends say I’m 100% normal and a fantastic guy. I just don’t want to go through another 7 wasted years. Life’s TOO short for this pain again.
- One very wealthy gentleman that I know gave me information on a private introduction service. They operate out of Eastern Europe and basically what they do is exchange information. I give them about 100 pages of my life; What I wish for in life, what my life is like, what I wish for in a relationship, my interests and hobbies.

2007-04-15 04:52:06 · 16 answers · asked by honesty_counts 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i broke up with this guy and now he like hates me what should i do?

2007-04-15 04:51:27 · 6 answers · asked by lauren m 1 in Singles & Dating

I am upset because it seems that every light hearted conversation with friends will either run into a dead end or turn into something serious.
Any tips on letting conversations flow instead of that? I think my problem is I am too logical a person so I can't help it but analyse everything even something funny whether it is logical it should happen. I am too factual. Help

It didn't used to be like this. I used to be the one who talk nonsense all the time in class

2007-04-15 04:48:49 · 6 answers · asked by adrienne 1 in Friends

We have been seperated for for about two years and she is living with this guy that got her pregnant. I have one daughter by her who lives with me. I want a divorce but I have been told It can't be done until the baby is born.

2007-04-15 04:48:46 · 11 answers · asked by rgmiller 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my guy for almost 2 and a bit years, we got engaged about a year ago for my birthday. This was a bit of a tricky thing as he had previously asked my dad for permission at christmas and my dad had said no (as in there's no need). My parents are unmarrried after 25 together so they see no need in 'that bit of paper'. My birthday is in feb so we got engaged then, knowing my parents wouldn't be happy i handled it really badly- not telling them til the day after. There were a few arguments and loads of tears and now- after a year - it's almost a taboo subject- as if it didn't happen.
i don't like bringing it up as i'm embarrassed how i handled it. But now me and my guy have talked about possibly getting married next summer and i have no idea how to tell my parents- he's already told his family and they're all over the moon....
hope anyone can help.
thanks

2007-04-15 04:46:58 · 6 answers · asked by Bexta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a guy in a social club I'm in whom I've spoken to a few times. He is a very nice guy. The type everyone would appreciate.
He asked me where my drink is. I said I'm not sure I'm drinking tonight. He asked what I'm drinking. wasn't sure what I wanted so he suggested something. I said sure. he also asked the other guys he was socialising with. I figured it was just a friendly gesture. but never sure what to make of it. he asked about signing up for the summer rollerblading activity and said I should come out to those. I said I hug lamp posts to stop myself, but I enjoy it. after drinks done everyone went home. He said he would see me at the next social event. (I told him the sign ups for the rollerblading would be the next event). just don't quite get the buying drink thing because he wasn't a random stranger.

2007-04-15 04:45:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an "online girlfriend" from the Philippines and we want to meet at some point but I know so very little of their culture. What are the women there really like? Are they just after American men to bring them here to the US? I keep getting "mixed signals" from this woman and could use any advice that somebody may offer to me.

2007-04-15 04:44:13 · 16 answers · asked by shy guy 1984 2 in Singles & Dating

i was recently "scammed" by the nigerians, but want desperately to find the man who's picture the scammer used. Is there any way of doing this????

2007-04-15 04:43:08 · 2 answers · asked by Casperi G 1 in Friends

I would love to hear what all of you get up to most weekends, i mean apart from coming on here ???

2007-04-15 04:36:15 · 14 answers · asked by corrinab2705 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 19 yr old daughter was court ordered by a judge to live with her dad when she was 11 yrs old. The judge left her 13 yr old brother with me. Its a very long story, but I was devastated because I was concerned about her safety.
She came home to live with me when she was 16 and I put her in counseling. The psychologist told me she was very immature, with the maturity of about a 12 yr old. He also told me she was very manipulative and suggested that I watch myself with her and suggested we stay in counseling together. After about 3 sessions, she refused to go any longer.
She is not 19 yrs old and I cannot get her to get full time job, she has put me thru hell. She moved in with some 26 yr old guy a week after high school graduation and he threw her out. Now she is home with me again and sneaks off in my car. Her brother is off to college and she is stressing me out. She is not on my insurance because she is 19 and doesnt want to enroll in college I can pay for counseling

2007-04-15 04:30:59 · 14 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

He used to like me. And when he went out with my bff I realized I loved him. Now he broke up with her because she got mad at him everyday. And he asked me out. I know if I say yes she'll kill me....even though she tells me its okay.

2007-04-15 04:28:53 · 36 answers · asked by Mila 2 in Friends

and did anyone notice? Please tell.

2007-04-15 04:25:24 · 16 answers · asked by B Z 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 04:25:08 · 9 answers · asked by Jody B 1 in Singles & Dating

She left me because her mom thinks that i am to old for her.

2007-04-15 04:15:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have feelings about my teacher. It happens, (not very often), but when touches me lightly or hugs me, I feel very hot, break into a sweat, even hardly think... Do you think my teacher notices?

2007-04-15 04:13:10 · 14 answers · asked by luppo3 1 in Singles & Dating

We were together for 15 years and have a 4 year old son. I tried everything I knew of to make it work, but we have been seperated for almost a year now. I still find myself crying at night. The worst of it is that he has moved on with a 24 year old girlfriend (he is 35) and he has introduced our son to her. My son is very confused and I am very angry. I just want to know if there is a way to move on gracefully? I don't want a boyfriend just to prove to him that I can get one-yet I'm tired of being alone. Any magical advice?

2007-04-15 04:08:09 · 23 answers · asked by Tomsmom03 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 4 years and we have a 6 year old together and one on the way. We met 9 years ago and we're best freinds for a year and a half. I knew how he acted with girls. He was really shy. I don't remember him ever dating anyone. All his freinds are cheaters but he just doesnt have that dimeanor. I really trust him in that department anyways and i never suspect it at all. Mainly because i think he may be embarrased to sleep with someone else anyways because he has some major sexual issues. Every time i say that to people, guys or girls, they always say that all guys are cheaters and i am just naive. Some one please agree with me.

2007-04-15 04:02:37 · 14 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 4 years and we have a 6 year old together and one on the way. We met 9 years ago and we're best freinds for a year and a half. I knew how he acted with girls. He was really shy. I don't remember him ever dating anyone. All his freinds are cheaters but he just doesnt have that dimeanor. I really trust him in that department anyways and i never suspect it at all. Mainly because i think he may be embarrased to sleep with someone else anyways because he has some major sexual issues. Every time i say that to people, guys or girls, they always say that all guys are cheaters and i am just naive. Some one please agree with me.

2007-04-15 04:01:54 · 12 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am very interested in this guy and we have been out a few times, including once with my friends. But the other night when we went out he told me that he is giving up on dating and that he can never meet the right girls. I have to admit I was pretty crushed, because I wanted more, namely a relationship. Afterwards we were sitting in his car talking and he told me that I'm so great and that he loves spending time with me because he knows that I find the things he says and does funny, and do not get scared away by him being himself and that we have the same type of personalities. I feel the same way about him, I know that I can always be myself with him and that he makes me laugh, and happy. I guess I'm not sure what he means because when he said he was giving up dating I took it to mean that he just didn't want to date me, but then he made me second guess it when he told me how great he thought I was. Does he have feelings for me or does it seem like he just wants to be friends?

2007-04-15 03:59:32 · 8 answers · asked by notsoluckyinlove 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

of them and it can not be a photo,dvd movie of them..what would signify your loved ones left behind.

2007-04-15 03:58:47 · 11 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Friends

what will be ur reaction,guilty or not ?.

2007-04-15 03:58:38 · 5 answers · asked by sweetgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 03:52:57 · 17 answers · asked by cdudley5007 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok ive raised my daughter since carpet crawlin days .
Short an sweet the other half didnt want her.
since then I did a complete 360 an devoted my life to her.
But now here is the Deal Alot of men dont like premade famlies true.
well Women are in the same frame of mind .
so to men an women lets stop hating an start loving . single parents are human to.
we have feeling an give a lot .
going to bed alone an doin it all youre self gets old after a while .
I restructured my hole life just for my daughter of 12yrs
an i would do it again if i had to!
So what iam asking why do women Do the same as men but in a different version.
Thankyou Confused

2007-04-15 03:49:45 · 12 answers · asked by Soften 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How young is to young? I was 17 yrs old and yeah I regret it.

2007-04-15 03:47:20 · 20 answers · asked by what a world! 2 in Singles & Dating

I gave my girl fren( unofficial ) a soft toy. Now she is overseas and she took it along. What does this mean?Aww man i really miss her, what do i do?We still mail each other once every week... But she came back but didnt inform me..But 2day she asked me to go online and when i asked her why, she said we havent spoke to one another for a long time.What does this mean?

2007-04-15 03:43:47 · 12 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter married a wonderful guy a few months ago. He has a father who has been divorced for about 15 years. This man hasn't dated anyone since the divorce. He is very handsome, employed, and just the sweetest man. I felt an attraction but I am not sure what to do about it. He seems to like me but I am confused about what to do. My daughter said that it would really strange to have her father-in -law and her mother dating. What do you think?

2007-04-15 03:42:20 · 15 answers · asked by copcp2555 1 in Singles & Dating

...to boycot guys who listen to misogyny on the radio, TV, in music and magazines? I'm old and settled down with a PERFECT man, because I always figured, if you can refuse a man for being a smoker, why can't you refuse him for being a woman-hater? If he allows it to be said about any woman, he allows it to be said about YOU.

Do you believe you can be a fun ;) girlfriend without settling for degradation?

2007-04-15 03:33:35 · 9 answers · asked by Kacky 7 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is 21 and i'm 15 (PLEASE don't go on and on telling me how wrong it is - i've heard it too many times - and it's legal in canada) and my dad has always hated him (even though he knows nothing about him). we started having sex about a month ago and a few days ago i told my mom, who ended up telling my dad and now he won't talk to me, he won't look at me... he's just so upset i can't believe it. i knew he wouldn't like it but i didn't knew it would make him get THIS mad!
i just don't know what to do about my dad... i'm hoping he'll get over it but it doesn't look like it right now. this is making him so sad and i'm getting really depressed again. what i don't understand is that in january i was hospitalized because my depression got really bad. my dad said over and over: the only thing i want is for you to be happy.. i would do anything for you to go back to the way you used to be. and now i'm happy, i'm so happy.. but my dad is just mad it makes no sense! what do i do?

2007-04-15 03:30:05 · 39 answers · asked by Jessica Cohen 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-15 03:30:00 · 13 answers · asked by s_martsp 1 in Family

This is someone who you think deserves it.

2007-04-15 03:26:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships