WHY do women (not all) have an issue with Dad's being single parents ?

Question

Ok ive raised my daughter since carpet crawlin days .
Short an sweet the other half didnt want her.
since then I did a complete 360 an devoted my life to her.
But now here is the Deal Alot of men dont like premade famlies true.
well Women are in the same frame of mind .
so to men an women lets stop hating an start loving . single parents are human to.
we have feeling an give a lot .
going to bed alone an doin it all youre self gets old after a while .
I restructured my hole life just for my daughter of 12yrs
an i would do it again if i had to!
So what iam asking why do women Do the same as men but in a different version.
Thankyou Confused

Answer 1

ok that was diffcult to read but anyway you did what you had to and you should be comended because we tend to be bobarded with male as dead beat dads so thenk you for standing tall and being a real man role model for all men yes we tend to get punished for doing the right thing in life but there are women out there that wants us and needs us in there life but with all things we have to stay hanging in there until we find that person a lot of people are affraid to be with singel parents because they think it comes with baggage babymama/babydad drama and we tend to be over protective of our children and they of us sometimes our children does want to share us becase we are all affraid of change it a hard road to travel to that we must i wish luck joy and happiness above all the i wish you love be strong my brother

Answer 2

A Lot of people, not me - but a lot of people, stereotype woman to be the parent that feed, clothes and cooks for the children and the men to work and pay for everything,
I don't agree with this, and think that men can be just as good as a parent then any other woman, even though I think there are times when your 12 year old may want to talk to an older woman, rather than a man.
Meanwhile, carry on with your great work and show all those people who frown upon you that you can be just as good a parent then any other female - if not better!!!
Any woman who can't respect you for that is not worth it !

Answer 3

You can not compare women to men, the same as you can't compare one person to another.

Do not try to understand a woman. The best you can do is find someone in your same situation.

Parents Without Partners is a non profit international club. There are clubs everywhere and offer a safe place to meet like people. They feature a very inexpensive and very active social life both with and without kids.

You need to get out there and market yourself. The right woman will approach you based on her observations of you in a social atmosphere.

Answer 4

I am one up on you in that I raised my daughter from the moment of conception till she was born and then after childbirth and she is still here. My choice to raise my child was made the day I found out I was pregnant.
I didnt do it for any great recognition, but because I made her, carried her in my womb and felt a bond with her. I am the one with the stretch marks from pregnancy, and the saggy breast left over from breast full of milk.
I have been a single mother for 19 years now. I never thought a man was not interested in me because of my 2 children.
Women probably arent interested in you because you use your daughter for attention and they probably think you are a less than capable father.

I walked around for about 4 months looking like I was going to bust and birthed her from my womb after hours of labor.
I fed her from my breast.
You, as a man will never be able to do what I have done.
You are a bragger and using your child to get attention.
Women catch on to you.
Men tend to use their women as babysitters. They leave the child with the girlfriend and no woman wants to babysit your child.

Answer 5

One reason may be jealousy. Woman want to be a top priority, especially when newly dating. This will never happen if you have a child - she will always come first. Also, because you have a girl, that creates more competition with a girlfriend. Have you found the same problems with single moms as with women without children? Maybe they'd be more sympathetic?

Answer 6

i think there are a lot of women out there who respect a man for taking the initiative to raise their child alone.

it's a lot of work to raise children.

some women don't even want children of their own, let alone taking on someone else's. but, i think there are many women out there who don't mind a bit.

women who don't want children do not hate single male parents. that's absurd! it's possible they don't want to deal with it. i don't know why you'd think they "hate" you? that isn't it at all.

maybe it's not the fact that you are a single parent -- it could be something else all together. if you have any female friends, or even a sister, ask them what you could do to make yourself more attractive to women and how to "get out there" to meet someone nice.

i'm sure there is someone out there for you.... take care.

Answer 7

i think its the activity of black women human beings,all women human beings For that count to confirm that they use precaution in any respect cases for the time of intercourse. additionally women human beings ought to look on the lads they have intercourse with. it form of feels they continuously fall for losers . additionally women anybody is getting pensions to ordinary so its a cop to no longer artwork in simple terms have little ones and get stored by the government. All toddlers ought to be in a powerful mom, father, courting. i think that this ought to study a school and at domicile . that's in an appropriate worldwide.

Answer 8

those women are close minded. My parents were never divorced but my dad may well have called him self a single parent because mom was not very capable. Dad took awesome care of us. At the end of mom's life she admitted he was the better parent.

Answer 9

There are plenty of women with children that marry men with children. I don't think there is a difference in that aspect. I respect a man that can raise his children.

Answer 10

Not sure of what your question really is,but i don"t think we really treat single dads any different,at least i don"t,i think its great,keep up the good work,sounds like you put your child first,and that in it self is what more people should do.good luck