- I want to make it easy for women to be able to judge my suitability as a potential mate.
- I wish to save lots of time and heartache in the process, for both me and other women.
- I’m just going through a divorce after I found out that my wife of 7 years cheated on me (cheated many times actually). I wanted to have kids with her but she always changed the topic.
- Perhaps I have strange ways, or I look really ugly, or something else wrong with me, Who knows? My friends say I’m 100% normal and a fantastic guy. I just don’t want to go through another 7 wasted years. Life’s TOO short for this pain again.
- One very wealthy gentleman that I know gave me information on a private introduction service. They operate out of Eastern Europe and basically what they do is exchange information. I give them about 100 pages of my life; What I wish for in life, what my life is like, what I wish for in a relationship, my interests and hobbies.
2007-04-15 04:52:06 · 16 answers · asked by honesty_counts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It will include my good attributes as well as ALL of my bad faults and traits, filled out by my friends, co-workers, and family members; NOT just by me. This as well as lots of photos of myself are then sent out to about 50,000 women seeking marriage. Before these women get my info, they must first submit a similar life-story-biography of themselves. This allows the women to see if I am a suitable partner for them or not.
- I think that this is REALLY GREAT, because it allows the women to decide whether they like me or not without having to put them through the inconvenience and time of getting to personally know me. My EX told me that is she knew me better at first, she would have passed.
2007-04-15 04:52:41 · update #1
This would have prevented all of the pain of a breakup due to misunderstanding of what our personalities and desires in life truly are.
- I DON’T want to know 50,000 women! I just want to get to know 4 or 5 women who are similar to me and think I’m a really nice guy, with all of my bad characteristics included, then meet them in person and eventually marry the lady who wishes for me to be her prince in life. I wish to find my true love; someone who truly loves me and who I truly loves her.
- Do you think that this service is a good way for women be able to judge me, whether they like me or not?
2007-04-15 04:53:00 · update #2
dont' pay that! are u crazy........? you could save that money to take the woman you find on vacation or a "honeymoon" or a down payment on a house together.
Love finds you. Let got work his magic. Heck, if you want, you can give me 15,000 dollars and I'll hook you up with somebody. lol
2007-04-15 05:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are these Eastern European women??? Then you should know that if you marry one of these, in 7 years they have citizenship, and you get dumped. If you want some really personal matching services, try Kelerher and Kelerher (or Kellerher and Kellerher -- you'll probably be able to find it on Google...) or something akin to that. They set up very strict lines, and did all the searching for those The Bachelor shows and the Bachelorette shows. I know lots of people who have had success with e-harmony, Yahoo Personals, and Match, but they do their own sorting, or allow the computer to do it for them...sometime a long pain inthe a$$. The above named outfit charges a bunch, you are interviewed, and get a set number of appropriate dates for the money. They screen from all over the US, since their clients tend to be as you, not broke, but looking for a good match.... And the money is considerable. You might also try Millionaire Match.com. Not at big as Match or Yahoo.
2007-04-15 06:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't use just use an internet dating site. It's so much cheaper and you can still give all of your information. Love isnt something that can be bought and I am so sorry about your past situations. Get your life together and hang out with your friends, start meeting new people and you may eventually find that perfect person without spending $15,000. But if it's something you really want to do and you are blessed enough to have $15000 just laying around then go for it!
2007-04-15 04:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by chunkysmom3502 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are jumping in before the sea has calmed. Sounds like you are in a hurry to find another mate.
Relax a little. You sound like a great guy who has just had the ride called the cheating wife.
I dont think if I were you I would spend all that money for a professional search.
I was cheated on and it wasnt funny. It hurt like hell and my heart was broken and I kept looking into myself to find out what I had done wrong when it was just the person I was married to.
Take a year off. You will find true love when you least expect it.
2007-04-15 04:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not worth it. First, where do they find the women? Do you really think that the women are not either forced into it or just into men with money?
First, be calm - WHY do you need a woman? Be sure you are content with yourself before you look at getting into a serious relationship again.
It hurts to be cheated on, but finding someone can't be that important, can it?
Instead, just be yourself, and if you find yourself looking for someone, use eHarmony. You'll only access those who are "suitable" matches... And it is much cheaper, and is more based on compatibility than someone trying to get your money.
Good luck
2007-04-15 06:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd like to say that, if you are just going through a divorce, or have not been divorced very long, you need TIME to heal, readjust to life and grieve (even if SHE is the one who cheated, you still need time).
it takes the average person 1-2 years to adjust.. there is nothing wrong with socializing, playing the field and dating, but desparately seeking love on the REBOUND, certainly isn't very healthy for anyone. a person who is newly divorced, needs support, friends, family, more than another relationship and the responsibility that comes with one right off the bat.
i can't blame you for wanting to spend your life with someone, and that's normal for most. don't SETTLE or fall for the first person who comes along. we need to take the time to get to know someone, STEP BACK and LOOK at them... and ask ourselves questions, such as: how does this woman treat me? how does she treat and relate to others? do we have similar life priorities? what about ambition? does she have goals (they don't have to be monumental, but is she someone who has some sort of plans in life?), is she a mess or does she like to keep her life and world organized.... etc.
i have heard that eharmony.com is a reputable and safe internet dating service, and it doesn't cost thousands of dollars, either. in fact, a friend of mine met her boyfriend on eharmony, and they seem to get along very well.
it's up to you whether you spend $15,000 on finding a mate; eharmoney does the same for a lot less -- and finds singles in an area determined by YOU.
good luck, and please take time for yourself...
2007-04-15 05:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not worth it. I am looking for the same thing and they are chances in life that we take. No one ever knows if it will really work or not. Anything can work if you try at it hard enough or if one has enough love to want it to work. I think that you should save your money and just not look so hard. She will come when you least expect it and it will be right when the time is right.
2007-04-15 05:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rubbish, paying a marriage alliance to broker yourself around as an eligible gentleman is not what a diligent and sincere person wants!It just happens between two beautiful souls made up full of mistakes and love.One bitten twice shy but does that stop you from asking for more!Your English has improved tremendously from your previous question.Good and keep it up!
2007-04-15 05:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 00:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know 'ugly Betty' from TV? Yea? She's a nice girl but she's not got the best/most 'beautiful' appearence. Yea, well marry a nice little girl like that and you're sorted..... She has beauty, though it's not striking, but she will bring delight and joy to you........ *If* you can get her to marry a divorcee. If not then just get a strong pre-nuptual and move to a more pro-male country.
2007-04-15 05:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋