2007-04-15 03:30:00 · 13 answers · asked by s_martsp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Carefully, unless he admits to having a problem he won't take kindly to someone else who tells him!!
Don't say anything yet, just keep an eye on him and as he is living in your flat you have the right to tell him if he is behaving in an unacceptable manner.
he is your brother, you want to help him. have a night in together maybe he'll open up. It had to be him who mentions the alcohol first, as soon as he does this you can begin to help him through this.
2007-04-15 03:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A true alcoholic may not admit he has a drink problem. I think you will need to speak with him though especially as he is living in your flat. Offer him your support and offer to go to the doctor with him who will probably suggest he attends AA meetings and may give him some medication. If his drinking is really bad then doctor may refer him for a detox program at a unit.
Alcoholism is an addiction and cannot be stopped just like that. He will need support, understanding and professional guidance and help.
I wish him and you luck.
2007-04-15 03:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 08:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u and ur brother. Tell that motherfucker 2 stop drinking. U should talk 2 him, u know, tell him how u feel about his drinking. If he gets drunk or something then u can call me and I'll beat his son of a ***** *** up. Ye-heard! Ohhhhhhhhhhh, and if that **** head is still drinking just tell your parents, neighbors, and people like that. Usually they can handle problems. OKAYYYYYYYYYYY!
2007-04-15 05:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Soulja Grl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about the disadvantages of drinking like lever cancers etc... If it's too much than doctors should be contacted. I hope he is not a sponge.
2007-04-15 03:40:59 · answer #5 · answered by Bani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize it is HIS problem. Do not help him support his problem by giving him free room and board. Make him pay his way or throw him out.
2007-04-15 03:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him that while he's under your roof he does not drink ....if he does not like that arrangement, (as much as you love him) tell him he may have to find somewhere else.....talk to him and ask him if you can help him in any way....like AA or some councillor, thing is...he's the only one who can help himself by admitting he has a drink problem....good luck, i hope he gets help soon
2007-04-15 03:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try Alanon. it's for people who are affected by alcoholic(s) in their life.
you can look it up on line, and there are meetings all over the world.... they understand.
2007-04-15 03:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't want to encourage you to copy your brother...
but as you ask, I find a couple of super-strength lager when you wake up is a good start.
2007-04-15 03:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by fumingpuma 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ask him see if he admits there is a problem if he dosent its a bigger problem,if he does he needs help
2007-04-15 03:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by fairy_gdmthr 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋