I have been married for 4 years and we have a 6 year old together and one on the way. We met 9 years ago and we're best freinds for a year and a half. I knew how he acted with girls. He was really shy. I don't remember him ever dating anyone. All his freinds are cheaters but he just doesnt have that dimeanor. I really trust him in that department anyways and i never suspect it at all. Mainly because i think he may be embarrased to sleep with someone else anyways because he has some major sexual issues. Every time i say that to people, guys or girls, they always say that all guys are cheaters and i am just naive. Some one please agree with me.
2007-04-15 04:02:37 · 14 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been married for almost 8yrs to my wife and I could never cheat on her she is the love of my life and well you just don't hurt someone you care for. I think these people are just jealous that you have found one of the guys that is not a complete selfish prick. Alot of men and women do not cheat they don't have that immoral quality within. I thinnk some of the people you ask have been burned by loved ones don't listen to them. If you trust your man and he loves and cherishes you then just enjoy life and give your man lots of sex to say thankyou for being such a awesome faithful husband.
God Bless and Best Wishes.
2007-04-15 09:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stop trying to get approval for what you believe. The only who really knows for sure if your husband is cheating is him. You need to either believe him or not. It's that simple. I think you are trying to get some form of validation from those around you and that's where you're going wrong. Unless someone has proof of your husbands possibly bad behavior he is as innocent as you believe.
I've said this before but a marriage depends on trust and respect. If you feel your marriage has both of these qualities then you don't have to look any further for your answers than your husband. All those other people whom you seem to want positive reinforcement from do not live your life and don't know your husband. Only you do. Be confident in your feelings, and don't always poll people for their opinions either. You are probably giving everyone you ask the impression that you are suspicious of something.
2007-04-15 04:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by IveBeenThere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do agree with you. Why do you care about what other people think anyway. If they believe that all men and cheaters that is very sad. Not saying much about the male species. Pretty much saying the guys don't have morals.
If I were you, I'd enjoy my relationship with my husband and I would stop telling everyone about the type of relationship I have with him. They are just trying to put doubts in your mind. When the subject comes up, either walk away, or don't say anything about your relationship. Keep it between you and your husband.
2007-04-15 04:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men are cheaters. i've only cheated once in my life, i knew she was cheating on me so i did it out of spite, i still felt horrible about it even though i was cheated on first. i was only 18 and didn't think that far ahead. i have never cheated again in anyway( 35 now). i have been married now for 3 years and get so many chances to cheat, but i won't because i respect myself and my wife. i believe it's different when your in love, you would never want to hurt the other person.
2007-04-15 04:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by dredead1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can know, deep in your heart that your loved one is cheating or not. I know, that my man is NOT cheating, I can feel it, I know it without doubt. I don't know about those other people, but people tend to want everyone to be miserable with them. Yes, a lot of men cheat, but a lot of men don't. Put this worry aside, and enjoy your family! Don't try to cross a bridge that isn't there!
2007-04-15 04:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why in the world you are posting this. Are you just looking for some amen chorus to bolster your fragile ego? Why would you post about someone else's "major sexual issues".
this post doesn't make any sense.
2007-04-15 04:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this question if you are sure?
I think birds of a feather flock together. You are who you associate with. Why does he hang around with cheaters?
That would be my concern.
2007-04-15 04:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with you some guys are different , yes most cheat but not all and if he has bedroom insercurities even less, just be carfull he dont met a girl who makes him confortable ! but im totally on your side
2007-04-15 04:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by miss240599 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you... as jaded as most folks are... there are some that believe in the sanctity of their vows and commitment to monogamy
2007-04-15 04:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by alex b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋