Family & Relationships - 15 April 2007

I am a nice girl: I am funny, intelligent and nice looking (said by people other than my mum). I have a problem though: I don´t like to socialize in clubs and stuff: I don´t drink or smoke, so don´t really like to hang out with people who drink a lot... even when I go out ONLY DRUNK GUYS come near me. I am a virgin cos it´s been ages since last boyfriend, but I would really like to meet somebody. Where can I meet guys more or less like me??!! PLEASE I DON´T WANNA DIE A VIRGIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would love answers from women who were like me and now have a happy family. (To make things worse I love kids).

2007-04-15 09:48:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have fallen in love with someone i have never seen before...so u see love doesnt have to be "love at first sight", but could be "love at in dreams".....i feel really connected with her and i actually travelled over 8,000 miles just to go see her but instead it was a foolish move? i did not see nor could find her.....the problems is, SHE NEVER RESPOND to any kind of messages..........im really lost here, but i havent given-up hope yet. NO MATTER WHAT, i won't give up.....i just wanna know why's my love life have no sense to it?

2007-04-15 09:46:26 · 25 answers · asked by <_> 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had the choice between the guy who works 60 hours a week, always comes home after work, doesn't drink or do drugs and the bike riding, beer chuging dope smoker....

Who would you choose?

2007-04-15 09:45:05 · 11 answers · asked by Mortis 3 in Singles & Dating

Does any one have any experience with a living trust?We want to do one for our kids but I have a stepson (who would be included) I just dont want his mom to try to get what's not due to her. Any one know of the cons of a living trust?

2007-04-15 09:44:32 · 3 answers · asked by vchild22 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my long time fiance just got married march 24. We went to the bahamas on the carnival crusie for our honeymoon I was so excited the night before I couldn't sleep so the first night on the crusie I waz so tired I went to bed early he said he wanted to see a comedy act so i said go ahead and have fun around 4 am I noticed he still was not back I went looking for him I found him on the top deck of the boat holding hands and smiling with another girl he said nothing happened he was just so drunk he did not relize what he was doing he said the show got cancelled so he went to one of the clubs to have a couple of drinks and she was with her boyfreind but i think it is bull why would her boyfriend let her go with him ? And i can't stop thinking about what he did and what there were about to do he said she was just taking him to his room and he was just being friendly ? I can't stop thinking about it but he has been being real nice to me but i am scared he might do it again.

2007-04-15 09:42:28 · 58 answers · asked by nancyjimenez24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 09:42:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my husband and i seperated 2 years ago b/c i was gone in the military. I cheated on him w/ one man who i am still involed with and he cheated w/ 7different ladies. i am now back home and We live 2 seperate lives but neither one of us has filed for divorce and i cant get him out my head and he has lied and said he did but he has not done anything. and his current girlfriend looks better than me b/ ive gained some weight. what should i do and why do you think neither one of us has filed?

2007-04-15 09:41:06 · 6 answers · asked by beautiful 1 in Marriage & Divorce

instead of for the ones that will treat them right

2007-04-15 09:40:16 · 18 answers · asked by Seth K 1 in Singles & Dating

At one of my former workplaces, I recall being in the employee lounge one day and overhearing a conversation between a woman who was somewhere in her early twenties and a woman who was in her early fifties. The twenty-something made a comment along the lines of "I'm not sure if I will ever want to have children." The fifty-something woman responded with, "Honey, I don't blame you. If I were young and just starting out right now, I probably wouldn't have kids, either. Don't get me wrong, my kids are everything to me. But if I were your age, I would probably make the decision to not have kids."

I was just wondering, does anyone else feel that way?

2007-04-15 09:39:26 · 17 answers · asked by I'm Still Here 5 in Family

when I'm woeing about being single, my friends say I don't "put myself out there" enough. Well, I'm already talkative and friendly, so what exactly is "putting yourself out there" besides that?

2007-04-15 09:39:13 · 7 answers · asked by LuvUrGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex confessed that he is smoking pot but he won't tell me who with. Why won't he tell me? what is he trying to hide? he lives out of state and i don't really know his friends anyway. what's the big deal? i think it might be his co-workers. we're are working on a reconciliation, but i want him to come clean and be honest with me. any thoughts?

2007-04-15 09:37:43 · 10 answers · asked by philly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 09:36:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey Babe,
Hey this is Andrew remember me you probably do not remember me at all, I was just asking are you doing okay i hope you are fine.
I just wanted to say Hello and to see how you are doing, Am I doing too much then just tell me then just ignoring me. I think we are lacking communication right here, I also think that I better just come out and say this to you. I am doing way too much like calling you all the time I am acting too immature for you. I think its better for the both of us if we just talk about this whenever if we ever have a chance to talk to eachother.

2007-04-15 09:35:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know what to do my boyfriend use to be a noce caring person that loved me and never screamed at me he didnt care who was there he would always say cute things to me hold my purse even when his friends were around but now things changed ever since he starrted working in construction he trys to act tuff and raises his voice at me dosent answer the phone when i call he saids that he treats me better than any of the other guys treat there wifes and he dosent even call me on his lunch brake what do i do? all i want is my sweet caring boyfriend back.

2007-04-15 09:35:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im meeting someone new tonight and i dont want it to be the last date either, i feel im boring and dont have much to say..

2007-04-15 09:34:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my partner for 7 years and we have a 2 yr old daughter. We are in the middle of buying our own house and recently got engaged. When we went up to the in laws house (my partner having told his mother on the phone our good news) they didnt say a word. His father never congratulated us. His mother didnt ask me a thing and didnt even see my ring. I was in tears when we left. Do you think this means they dont want us to marry. I have to admit they are a bit odd. I was never quite sure what they thought of me. We were young when we first started dating. He was 17 and myself 19. We dont expect help financially with our wedding. We have always found them quite mean anyway (they are millionaires who never seem to buy anything not even for themselves) I cant help feel hard done by as I thought I would be gaining a family. I just think if they werent so rich maybe we could have a decent relationship for myself and our daughter. I dont care about their money. We do fine on our own

2007-04-15 09:29:35 · 13 answers · asked by Teresa M 2 in Family

2007-04-15 09:29:24 · 15 answers · asked by LC 1 in Weddings

2007-04-15 09:29:12 · 17 answers · asked by rachael w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I visit my g/f at her house and talk to her parents probably about once every 3 weeks. She, however, never wants to come over to my house. She shows no interest in wanting to meet my family again. She's met them once, but she is unwilling to do so again. She never told me this because that would be rude, but her actions prove that beacuse she's never come over and never wanted to. We've been going out for 5 months, and she met them once in the first month of us going out. For example, my parents wanted to take her out for her birthday that just recently passed, but she declined due to her having too much work, which she DOES. She's in the middle of exams right now, but she shows no willingness to make a date AFTER her exams. Keep in mind, in the past 4 months, her grandmother died, and her mother got very sick and is still recovering. Will this pass? Should I wait? What should I do? I try to create a relationship with her parents and she doesn't do so with mine. Is that right?

2007-04-15 09:24:19 · 5 answers · asked by joe_miserable 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend seems not to be bothered by anything.. I mean I feel that she doesnt care for me at all. She likes the way I care for her, she likes me being there for her always, when she is bored or sad or when she have nothing better to do.
She expects from me to be there available for her and I have been always there for her.
But I feel very used, I feel like she just wants me only when she has no other option and this makes me feel v bad.
Recently when she called me though I was free but I pretended to be busy and she acted normal n said " we will talk later" it happened 2 days ago and she has not contacted me back till now.
Did I do right being not available for her there. Should I continue that way.
Otherwise she will talk to me till she gets something better to do. Like if her siblings or parents r back home she says without realising that it hurts that" ok my parents or siblings r back I will talk to u later" How bad is that it means she used me 4 that time when she was free.

2007-04-15 09:23:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We went out for like 2 months, then she dumped me for no reason at all. Just one day her friend comes up to me and says she doesn't like me anymore.

2007-04-15 09:19:59 · 1 answers · asked by Snaker 1 in Singles & Dating

If a man and a woman agree to have an abortion, yet the woman never does, that the woman should take sole responsibility for , and get sole custody of, the child that she chose to keep?

2007-04-15 09:18:09 · 17 answers · asked by Mendi8a 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 09:18:02 · 21 answers · asked by eric j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I realize my question sounds a bit strage. The background is that my boyfriend lost his father when he was young so I never met him. We've been together for over a year now and I've met his mom and sisters and they are great. But I'd like to know more about the man that influenced him for 19 years. There's infromation that I've picked up through passing comments, like his favorite holiday was Halloween, but that isn't much. I'm just not sure how to bring up the topic. It's been 6 years, so it might not be as painful for him to talk about but, I don't know.

2007-04-15 09:13:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

major problem fiance wants me to move in with his female roomate already knowing i have bad vibes about her but he tells me that if she wants to talk to him for 2 hours i should be cool with that because he cant be direspect her on the other hand when i called he house the other day he told me he was busy and i was talking to him he was talking to her and helping her cook chicken he claims he does this because shes from a country and they dont have that type of food over there still i think thats ******** what whould i do ? does it seem to you guys like he is putting me 1st or second ?

2007-04-15 09:12:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 09:11:14 · 47 answers · asked by redhotminxy 1 in Family

none of my relationships has gone well yet and i really want to find the right girl for me but i cant find her. im 16/m/PA and live in lower burrell i am 5'10" brown hair and blue eyes i am athletic on the football team.

2007-04-15 08:59:31 · 9 answers · asked by nick f 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 08:58:50 · 19 answers · asked by Bob and Candi T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-15 08:57:56 · 20 answers · asked by redhotminxy 1 in Family

i'm a sixteen year old girl and people say i have a good head on my shoulders and that i'm very smart. i conciously make an effort to be kind to people because my dad says i'm this TERRIBLE, WORTHLESS person. he also says that i dont treat him well. i recently moved away from him and now my mom is claiming that i dont treat her and my siblings well. when i asked if im like my dad she said no. i dont know if i'm abusive or not. if so i want to distance myself from other people and get help. WHAT ARE THE CHARACTERISTICS OF AN ABUSIVE PERSON?

2007-04-15 08:51:38 · 6 answers · asked by jme19914fun 3 in Other - Family & Relationships