I am 26 and still a virgin.?

Question

I am a nice girl: I am funny, intelligent and nice looking (said by people other than my mum). I have a problem though: I don´t like to socialize in clubs and stuff: I don´t drink or smoke, so don´t really like to hang out with people who drink a lot... even when I go out ONLY DRUNK GUYS come near me. I am a virgin cos it´s been ages since last boyfriend, but I would really like to meet somebody. Where can I meet guys more or less like me??!! PLEASE I DON´T WANNA DIE A VIRGIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would love answers from women who were like me and now have a happy family. (To make things worse I love kids).

Answer 1

I think that it is cool that you are still a virgin. It says a lot about you as a person. Ignore common s's advice. Don't dress or act like a tramp to get attention. Just be yourself. Get out in public. Go to the gym. Go for a jog through your local park during the day. Maybe join an organized sport. (bowling, softball, etc). You could also volunteer your services for a worthwhile cause. There are many places that are in need of help. The main thing is just to get out and about in public so people can see you. Make it a point to have eye contact with people when you speak to them and smile a lot. Make sure that you are approachable. Good luck and take care.

Answer 2

I was a virgin until I was 23. I was desperately looking for a boyfriend all the time. Then I gave up looking and just thought I would be single for the rest of my life and never have a chance to have children. I started filling my life with other things that I enjoyed - social groups of people who shared the same interests that I did. Some of my friends were co-workers, college buddies, church friends, etc... A couple of years later, I met this guy in one of my social groups and we started hanging out more and more. Today, we have been married for 4 years and have a 6 month-old son! God works when you let Him. Be patient! It is true that good things come to those who wait, and your knight in shining armor will be soooooooo happy that you have a special gift that you've saved only for him! Good luck to you! And I commend you for having such great morals in a time when morals and "good girls" are so commonly overlooked!

Answer 3

I think it's great that you know what kind of person you are and also know what type of person you don't want to be with and/or sleep with. That's great. There is no reason to be ashamed about being a virgin. Take pride in not just sleeping around or being into casual sex. Wait for someone that you love and care for and see a future with. As to how to meet guys like you- try an online dating service or pick a hobby you like and try to meet guys through that (i.e. say you like to read, join a book club or say you like to do photography, take a class on it). I didn't date during highschool and certainly don't like guys that drink and party too much. I was fortunate to meet a friend of a friend; I've been with him 14 months and 1 day today and we are engaged. :) Ask your friends to set you up with one of their friends or their bfs friends... Hope this helps!

Answer 4

Hey , im 31 and im still a virgin, yup i am a good looking guy and no i dont have problem talking with gals but i had a dream when i was young that i will lose it to someone im married with, im your regular MTV guy and stuff, see apart from religion i beleive losing something special only should be to someone who loves you and sharing the same thing would be a thrill, so be very proud of yourself, and a male and this is a sweet secret of mine because when i am with women they think i am a player and stuff ha ha ha,, funny eh ? hey chill out, let it be your sweet secret and who knows whoever loves you may love you more because of it.. Im still waiting for my only women in my life, see sex has lost its intimate thing these days, dont be just another women. be very proud of yourself and remember there is allways guys like me who appreciate gals like you and what you are going thru.. and for your info you wont die a virgin... dont go and do it because you dont wanna be a virgin anymore, i know so many women who dont cherish they first time because they did it because they are scared of what ppl may say,,, do message me, not hitting on you or something just errr i dont know ,,,just to talk ? ha ha

Answer 5

If you are pretty (both inside and out) and a very nice girl/woman with high morals, then I commend you. Good for you. Don't worry about the "virgin" thing. Just be happy and continue looking for that right guy. When you find him (or he finds you), he would be honored to have such a prize that you are. Remember, you are what you believe you are. Just live your life, the rest will fall into place. Have a good day.

Answer 6

Well...you seem like a pretty cool person. All you need to do is open up to people. If you are trying to avoid the drunken guys, then you may want to look somewhere else. Guys dig girls who are funny, intelligent, and good looking, so it seems that you are a likeable person. Maybe talking to one of your friends may help you as well. Eventually, you will find somebody with the same interests and outlooks, and hopefully thats the guy for you. Hope I answered your question. :)

Answer 7

It sounds like your a really good person with high morals and I really respect people like that. You should try going to parks or baseball games, Or even church. You could probably find a decent guy there. I would'nt want to advise anyone in the wrong direction but you really should be proud if your still a virgin. That is hard to come by these days.

Answer 8

listen you can be in a loving ,happy,perfectly content relationship WITHOUT SEX you don't need someone else to make you feel good .sex is just a feeling a hormone and lust and being madly in love fades Its been proven that the lust fades after a few months 2 years at the most(why do you think some marriages fail)don't rush things look for a best Friend not a quicky husband.(about the kids you can single parent ,foster parent,babysit,ect...

Answer 9

Perhaps you come across as a little too desperate. Sorry, that sounds pretty awful, but what I mean is that men may be put off by women who jump on them or come across as too needy. I think part of the problem is that you worry about being without a boyfriend. You needn't worry about it- just take your time, relax, and be friendly. See what happens and wait for the right man to come along, and you'll be far happier than if you grab the first man you can find.

Good luck.

Answer 10

I'm not really sure what your problem is. You are completely pure and that's awesome. As far as meeting someone, try a civic group or a book club. There are many available people out their just looking for the perfect you. Don't give up!!!