since getting this bloody computer how can i get my b/f off it every night when he comes home from work other?

Answer 1

Stand naked in front of him when he goes on it.

Answer 2

Well, my guy's a programmer, so he spends a lot of time on the computer (though most of it's goofing around :P). I don't mind terribly much since I'm the same way, but sometimes it gets annoying (like if he wants to stay up half the night playing some game when I want him to come to bed NOW). Sometimes I'll just go do my own thing, and eventually he'll realize I haven't interrupted him for a while and go oops I need to pay attention to her. Sometimes I'll ask him if he can get off the computer within the next half hour so he has time to finish what he's doing, and then we go do whatever. And sometimes, I do stuff on the computer that I don't really want to do, killing time until he gets off his computer...only it turns out that he was killing time waiting for me to get off the computer too. Those are usually the nights when we don't eat until midnight. :P

It's really only a problem if he doesn't EVER want to give you attention. If that's the case, he probably doesn't love you as much as he says he does.

Answer 3

looks like you managed it hes not on it now you are lol a friend of mine had a similar problem so they took out a big hammer and smashed it to pieces lol sounds good only problem was after that my friends partner wasnt coming home at all when my friend confronted the partner as to where their whereabouts they admitted to going to local internet cafe so maybe your boyfriend is on puter all time but at least he is at home with you and you know where he is and if puter is new he will soon be snuggling up to you in front of coronation street when the novelty wears off i wouldnt worry too much if i was you

Answer 4

I experienced the same problem a few years ago. I left him in the end as he'd already made his decision as to what was more important to him. Rip the damn thing out of the wall and bring it down over his head - see if that works!

Answer 5

I too am addicted to the computer. Nothing will get me off it that is for sure, not an earthquake, not a thunderstorm, not
a screaming cat. Even if Hugh Grant himself appeared in my room and asked me out on a date, I'd tell him to come back tomorrow. Is Hugh Grant single? if he is, tell him to send me an e-mail huh???

Answer 6

either get rid of the computer or don't get connected to the internet. men are particularly bad for computer addiction and often sited as a reason in divorce courts

Answer 7

He doesn't want to give you attention. Common problem. I have absolutely no idea how to solve it, but I know how not to - by talking to him. Crying on his shoulder abt how neglected you feel only would make the situation worse. What worked on me so far - neglect him, show you are not interested in him any more - the next day he'll be after you again.

Answer 8

my borfriend( ex now )got addicted he even stopped noticeing our 3 year old daughter ignoring her permantly in the end i had enough he was on pc 7 days a week 24 hours a day he never came to bed in the end i had enough one evening when he was on pc i got up pulled monitor of table opened front door chucked it out then i pulled tower off chucked out the front then speakers went after that god did i feel better or what he just got up picked the whole lot up put it in back of car went to his mums i phoned him up 1am in morning spoke to him he just said cant talk now im fixing computor that was that he never came back again GOOD

Answer 9

Hey, can't you use a little feminine imagination to distract his attention. I love my laptop and my 360 and certain things on tv.

But if my wife wants me to play with her instead of my toys then toys lose every time.

Answer 10

unplug one of the many wires and tell him about the horrible computer virus that happened earlier today when you were surfing the internet.

Stomp a little and pull your eyebrows down and tell him how mad u are that that happened.. just to make it a little more believeable.. lol

Answer 11

GOOD LUCK IM NOT SURE AND STANDING NAKED DOESN ALWAYS WORK SOMETIMES SUDUCING HIM WHILE HES ON IT DOES NT WK EITHER WE HAVE AN AGREEMENT THAT WE GO TO BED AT THE SAME TIME AND NO ONE GOES BACK TO THE COMPUTOR TIL THE OTHER IS ASLEEP !!