i have fallen in love with someone i have never seen before...so u see love doesnt have to be "love at first sight", but could be "love at in dreams".....i feel really connected with her and i actually travelled over 8,000 miles just to go see her but instead it was a foolish move? i did not see nor could find her.....the problems is, SHE NEVER RESPOND to any kind of messages..........im really lost here, but i havent given-up hope yet. NO MATTER WHAT, i won't give up.....i just wanna know why's my love life have no sense to it?
2007-04-15 09:46:26 · 25 answers · asked by <_> 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no im not desperate....lol
and its not really online its my own peoples....the only im conatacting her online is bcuz she is in Thailand and im in this hopeless place U.S..lol
2007-04-15 10:31:49 · update #1
none of you peoples answers makes sense.....waaaaaaaaaaaaay off the subject......lol
2007-04-15 10:34:31 · update #2
"but it sounds like u kinda creepd her out. The whole trip and everything seem just bit stalkerish and if i were her i'd stop responding too. "........hahahaha thats my own people...and noooo she would never be like that to me, but maybe to other peoples...!!
2007-04-15 10:37:31 · update #3
"she might be busy or scared..."
hahaha never that i know my thai girls too well......well maybe to other peoples she would be SCARED! but deffinitely not to me....i know!!!!
2007-04-15 10:39:44 · update #4
"if she's not responding to your messages, maybe there is something wrong or maybe unfortunately, she found someone else "......hahahaahaha noooo i know her too well, we Thai are not as desperate as many others, and we could wait forever for our true love to be truthful.........MOST OF YOU PEOPLES knows nothing about Thai-Royal-Family
2007-04-15 10:43:02 · update #5
.......DREAMS???....we never meet peoples in reality and we dont never talk to peoples in reality.......thats how it is in Thailand/Laos, even if its at a village, peoples dont meet unless we communicate through love-letters, mails, etc..etc.etc...get it?
2007-04-15 10:47:13 · update #6
hahahahahaahahah very funny answersss....im glad i ask questions!
2007-04-16 06:06:24 · update #7
Give up on her and move on in a more realistic relationship.
2007-04-23 05:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by Carol G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are adding and adding details clearly shows me that you are not the kind who thinks things through.
And so you did not think through before you wasted your time and money on this trip.
How can you fall in love in the first place, when you say that she never ever responded to any of your messages? Apparently you never had a conversation!
What, if there is not even a real person and some idiot played a prank on you?
Also, the fact that you are finding the whole affair funny shows me that you are not the serious kind. perhaps there was someone and she felt the same way?
No offense, buddy, just thinking...
2007-04-23 05:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Eugene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it...if you're doing the right things in your life, Jehovah God does hear those kinds of prayers because to love someone and ask God about it is within his will. Things in his will is good will for mankind, love for your neighbors, prayer to understand and endure, and love...ultimately love for a woman (you being a man) can lead to marriage of which was God's purpose for mankind...to be fruitful, marry and multiply.
Stop creeping up on her and quit watching so many fictional love stories on TV for the time being. Sometimes fiction and reality can be a blurr and get you into trouble with the law, etc. Write her once and let her know how you feel. If she feels the same way she'll respond. If not, she just does not want it, so then you don't be a pest and leave her alone. What you might want versus what she wants may not end up the way you want it to.
Don't force yourself upon someone who may not want you in the end. Leave them alone and if they respond to you the way you want, then you'll know it's reciprocal. Don't be a forceful and jerk-off man. There are too many of them around thus the need for self protection. If I didn't love a man and he flew over 8,000 miles to see me, it would creep me out and quite frankly scare me to a point where he just might get hurt.
Think before you act...think wisely.
2007-04-16 00:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by KimIsland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav only ever fallen for one guy not by his looks first. So i think love at first site and not exist, but it sounds like u kinda creepd her out. The whole trip and everything seem just bit stalkerish and if i were her i'd stop responding too. as much as you dont want to hear it i just dont think it is going to work out. So go on a trip (not to her) and get over her, but learn from the experience (worked for me)
2007-04-15 16:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Cena_Kix_Ass 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she never responds to your messages, she's either not interested, or she doesn't think you're serious. Or perhaps she's not receiving any messages - check that you're sending them to the right place. It's hard to maintain a long-distance relationship no matter what the circumstances. Let it go for a while and see if she will contact you. Otherwise it might be better for you to look for someone else. Good luck.
2007-04-15 16:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that she is that connected to you. She never respond to any of your messages.
I think you need to just wake up. Dreams can be so real some times can't they.
2007-04-23 16:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by peach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pfft... I hate when women do that. She was afraid because the most obvious reason is that she lied about some things that she said to you (most likely age). Go out and meet real life women (but there's no guarantee that they wont suddenly start avoising you and telling you lies...XD I hate that feeling)
2007-04-15 16:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by altinnovation 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to give up. Its just a dream. Hopefully you will meet someone else in real life like your dream.
2007-04-15 16:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, internet relationships rarely works. It is so easy to lie on the internet. I think you've been made a fool of, don't you? I hope you've learned from this.
2007-04-22 13:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Susie L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for you to travel 8000 miles and her stand you up, she's either a liar or scared of something -- my advice is to make her travel next time -- if she's not responding to your messages, maybe there is something wrong or maybe unfortunately, she found someone else
2007-04-15 16:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Bakes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because your living in a dream world. It's reality time.
2007-04-15 16:50:24 · answer #11 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋