How do I forget her?

Question

My friend seems not to be bothered by anything.. I mean I feel that she doesnt care for me at all. She likes the way I care for her, she likes me being there for her always, when she is bored or sad or when she have nothing better to do.
She expects from me to be there available for her and I have been always there for her.
But I feel very used, I feel like she just wants me only when she has no other option and this makes me feel v bad.
Recently when she called me though I was free but I pretended to be busy and she acted normal n said " we will talk later" it happened 2 days ago and she has not contacted me back till now.
Did I do right being not available for her there. Should I continue that way.
Otherwise she will talk to me till she gets something better to do. Like if her siblings or parents r back home she says without realising that it hurts that" ok my parents or siblings r back I will talk to u later" How bad is that it means she used me 4 that time when she was free.

Answer 1

Get hurt by her alot, hate her alot and then it will be easy for u to forget her alot!

Answer 2

Don't always be so available. Maybe if she can see that the whole world doesn't revolve around her she'll appreciate you more. She obviously must put other people first, her family etc. sometimes and this doesn't neccesarily mean she's any less of a friend. Try and talk about how you feel and if she's a good friend she'll listen it's important to have a bit of give and take and some time out too. I had a so called friend who used me when she wanted something or when she had nothing better to do. I decided I didn't need this and when I showed less interest in her the friendship soon fizzled out. I wouldn't let it happen again. If she's a true friend you will be able to talk honestly with her but without hurting each others feelings .Above all don't let anyone use you!

Answer 3

hey babes deep down she thinks the same way k she just can't or will not show it cos she might think she'll lose u or something.
tell her how u feel, and maybe she'll tell u how she feels and if she don't ask her maybe she's shy u need to get her out of her shell lol,
u said she called u maybe it was something inportant she had to tell u! don't worry about it don't wait for her u no where she is (well i hope so anyway lol) u should make da 1st move.
u should continue with u life as well as being with ur mates and family don't stop everything just cos ur mate rings u up. just act normal.
It sounds to me that u have deep deep feelins for her not in a mate way, well ye in a mate way but more than a mate well thats just me i could be wrong so hang in there and relax don't worry just ask her how she feels and then u tell her how u feel u'll never no what will happ?

Answer 4

I would sit down and talk to her about it and how it makes you feel. How she reacts will tell you if she truly is even a friend. If I knew I was hurting a friend I would be very uspet and try to fix what it was that was causing the problem. Friendship is a two way street, when it goes only one way it is called getting taken advantage of.

Answer 5

I think you are reading to much into this, why shouldnt she want to spend time with her family!? if she didnt care for you she wouldnt want your company. I think your being a bit selfish and should try and make some other friends. And so what if she didnt call you for two days, she probably had other things to do, so stop waiting by the phone for her to call and get out and enjoy life!!

Answer 6

That is what all girls do & you have to live with it unless you do something about it.

I really care about the women in my life & I treat them well but I dont let them get the better of me.

I am not available to them at times it suits me & I keep them on the hook.

Make them wait for you.

Good luck