Because much of our behavior is determined unconsciously, our friends and others around us know us, in some ways, better than we know ourselves. Would you want to *really* know what they appreciated AND found irritating, annoying, or even worse about you.
2007-04-15 07:46:09 · 7 answers · asked by Michael 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OH YES INDEED! That would be great. Although I think I know already, but it would be good to have that information. You could really weed out your friends that way too.!! LOL
2007-04-15 07:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that I would want to know.
It's complicated enough *thinking* that you know what other people think and trying to go off of that to please everyone.
It is absolutely impossible to please everyone....so finding out what is irritating to other people would just add a lot of stress on yourself.
It's hard enough to actually *be yourself* because we all know that sometimes we do act off of what we think other people are thinking.....
Ugh.....I don't know, I'm rambling. Basically, I wouldn't want to know, because it might cause me to try to change who I am.....and once again, ya can't please everyone, so there's no point in being anything but yourself.....so finding out wouldn't help anything.
2007-04-15 07:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by jezyka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, details & everything. If they can't tell me to my face...and if i can't handle what they are about to say, then the friendship isn't true...Communication is something you need in EVERY relationship..whether it be boyfriend/girlfriend, family, or just friends....if you can't be completely open & honest, you have NOTHING....
2007-04-15 08:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by blondeatheart4lfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not because everyone has their moments when they think or say something they really don't mean and if you could hear what they were thinking you would probably take it the wrong way or you would really want to kill someone you really dislike.
it would be horrible! NO THANKS!
2007-04-15 07:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by faista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only at the poker table.
2007-04-16 08:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ranto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how they think my disposition is, am i really the person i think i am or am i a complete loser.just everything they think of me.
2007-04-15 07:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Blah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES... i will want to know who my true friends are....
2007-04-15 07:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by mariaFB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋