I'm 22 and I'm falling in love with a 30 year old guy, what d'ya reckon?
2007-04-15 07:03:15 · 34 answers · asked by princesslouey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My best friend is 22 and her fella is 31 this year, and when I see them they are so right for each other. Every person is different but at the end of the day its about what makes you happy, some people may give you a lot of stick for going out with an older guy but its your choice, if he's the one you love and want to be with, and as long as he treats you right (with respect) and feels the same way its no one else's business. But no one can tell you what to do, you should do what's right for you! Although, your saying your falling for him which, i'd say means the decision has already been made! lol Good luck x
2007-04-15 07:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Miss E ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think Everything is on to something. When you truly love someone, you don't have a doubt in your mind that the relationship will work because you are both committed to each other. Age doesn't matter .......the commitment, the communication, and ways of resolving conflicts is what makes a relationship work. If it was love...........you would just know. And both would do whatever it took to be able to spend the rest of your lives together.
2007-04-15 14:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, go forit. Just be aware that age doesn't always have issues til a little down the line. It may feel right at the moment, but once the honeymoon period wears off and he's ready for a family and saturdays chilling, you may want to be out clubbing with your mates and all the things you should want to be doing and he's already done. It may never happen, but more often than not it does.
2007-04-15 07:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by heartshapedglasses 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he's not too old for you.I reckon you have good taste. 30 yrs old is perfectly aged. It's this age that most males turn from a boy to a man--so very attractive (also, your eastern signs make for a good compatability match 8yrs apart)
2007-04-15 07:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number what matter's here is that you both understand each other and respect each other no matter the age difference. Respect and understanding play an important role in a relationship what so ever the age between the person is. so go for it if you really like this guy.Good luck.
2007-04-15 07:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fine for now honey, but in time you will mature and out grow him so the worry should really be on his part, also just so you are aware, ten years down the line you may feel gutted that you spent them as a middle aged woman and not as the young carefree girl you should be! take care x
2007-04-15 09:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by MADDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - My hubby is 23 years older than me. We have been happily married for 11 years now. Most men are mentally only about 12 anyway (he is currently setting up his brand new PlayStation 3 that his mummy just bought him!!!) Go for it - and have fun!!
2007-04-15 08:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by soph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine. It's not like you're 12 and he is 22. At 22, you're probably mature enough to make your own decisions
2007-04-15 07:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by Charlesy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all honey. My hubby is 36 and I am 28. 8 is the magic number.
2007-04-15 07:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by HisWife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definetly not too old. He's only 8 years older than you....I've heard of couples being 15 years apart and being happy together!
2007-04-15 15:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by Bueno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋