I think my boyfriend is gay what do i do???

Answer 1

Ask him out straight, thats the only way you're gonna find out! And if he tells you that he is not, it is up to you and your own instincts whether to believe him or not. I'm sure lots of people who know him would be able to give you more insight, but choose the way you approach them carefully, so as not to make the situation awkward.

Answer 2

Well I was married to a guy I felt was gay. After several YEARS (he traveled a lot for work so it lasted longer) of little or no sex, many counselors, therapists, talking, begging, dressing him up and sending him to strip clubs and raunchy hopefully get him to come home all hot and bothered)bachelor parties, (I finally gave up). Most of the counselors and therapists felt all the signs of him being gay were there, but since he refused to speak about it, and was extremely homophobic, who knows. (two of the signs by the way)...I divorced him and had lots of great sex to make up for five years of being celibate!

By the way, if your boyfriend IS gay, it is time to have a long talk and go find someone who is actually attracted to you! Both of you deserve love from someone you desire! Good Luck!

Answer 3

Dah! I assume from your picture you are female and that since you call him boyfriend he is male. And I assume if you are correct that you don't qualify as his primary interest. What about your question appears difficult for you to make a decision about?

You have a choice if he is gay -- Try to make him heterosexual or leave him.

1) You can't change him, so that course is fraught with hurt and peril
2) You have no future in the relationship, so you have only one choice unless you just like losing.

Answer 4

the best thing to do is ask him. there can be some signs though. does he blow plans with you to hang with "friends"? when a cute guy walks by does he look? does he like to shop with you and helps pick out ur outfits? if you answered yes to any of these, i would comfront him with all the reasons y u think hes gay. good luck to both of you!!

Answer 5

Break up with him!

how do you know/think he's gay? Does he like other guys? Does he act feminine? It seems like being maybe gay is just one problem. You should break it off.

Answer 6

That's a little weird, but I think you should stay with him for a while. What makes you think he's gay? Talk to someone else and get their opinion on his actions. If you really think he is then it's best to ask him (I know that sounds awful) then you should break up with him if he admits it.
Good luck

-Cheshire xo

Answer 7

never ever ask a boy if he is gay that just gets on there nerves.
first just make him feel a little spark between you kiss him and ask do you happen to know a boy thats insterested in me and he will say a name and that will be the boy he likes but if he says no then your ok!!

Answer 8

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From this above-mentioned awareness you now have in this realization, I am certain that pleasing him in the ways he likes best will please you very much at this arousing
realization you strongly feel to be certain.

Answer 9

If he is gay, then you are with the wrong guy. If he loves you then, he might be bisexual or bicurious. Let him make up his mind. You have to respect his decision.

Answer 10

you think only. did you prove that he is a guy? do one thing, get a handsome friend as a friend, be with him in meeting your boyfriend. see what is his reaction, be smart in doing that so you will not be in trap.