i won't get into details, but me and this guy have been through a lot of drama and we're both really annoyed with it. he likes me and this other girl, but the other girl's sort of out of the question for him (plus, she's got a bf).
because of all the drama, i think he thinks i'm not serious about him and i'm just fooling around with him.
how can i let him know i really like him without starting up more drama and without being annoying (having it seem like i'm all over him).
2007-04-15 06:41:53 · 25 answers · asked by jess m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
E-mail him. Keep it short, sweet and simple.
Say hey, love hanging out with you. When the drama unfolds call me I'd love to date you, hang out with you.
Love,
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2007-04-15 06:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by kelly e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one to help with. You say there has been a lot of drama, but don't specify what that drama was. So, my only suggestion to you is to have a frank and open talk with him, privately. State the situation to him and then let him know (no beating around the bush..you don't need any misunderstandings with him now) that you have passed through the drama, you would like to get to know him better because you find him attractive and you hope that he feels the same way about you.
Hope this helps, good luck.
2007-04-15 06:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just becuase the "other girl" has a boyfriend doens't mean she can't break up with him and start dating your "guy".
If you are unsure of the relationship with this "guy"...the best thing to do is to sit down and tell him how you feel. Maybe it is time you guys took a break from each other. Or maybe the conversation will seal the relationship between you.
But just remember, it is unlikely that at this age you will meet someone to be with for the rest of your life. It is best if you keep your options open...date other people to see what they are like. ...and that doesn't mean sleeping with them.
2007-04-15 06:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by aziahh30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is already drama, turn around a walk away.
Perhaps the drama level will drop and things will become more opportune.
2007-04-15 06:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by Reformed Nice Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing Do u really want to be with a guy that likes another girl?Don't u think u deserve better?But if u really want 2 be with him just tell him how much u like him or try doing something romantic that u know he might like and appreciate.I would have helped u there but I don't know his choices.
2007-04-15 06:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well quit playing around, and be up- front, some guys like that,take him out to dinner or make dinner for him and sit down and have a heart to heart talk, no more games or drama, truth and honesty, what a concept????????????just tell him you want him alone so you can be up front and honest with him and you expect the same in return, quit wasting valuable time
2007-04-15 06:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo Jess why would you care? You said he likes you and another girl but she has a boyfriend. The fact that she has a boyfriend shouldn't matter but what should matter is the fact that he's obviously not 100% into you if he likes someone else as well. You need to find someone that only has eye for you because hopefully you feel you are worth it.
2007-04-15 06:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by truly speaking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need to speak to him alone and tell him how you feel and if he thinks it's a big joke still then maybe he is too immature to actually listen. He may have more feelings for this other girl and he might just say forget it and go for you but don't put your whole heart into it because to me it sounds like he might take that control and break your heart.
2007-04-15 06:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by 5ft Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You both sound immature. Go off and develop yourself as a more mature human being. Urge him to do the same. Maybe once you are both fully developed adults with meaningful interests, you will find more to bond you together.
2007-04-15 06:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him and let him know how you feel about him........if he tells you he still wants the other girl then just break up with him and move on.
2007-04-15 06:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by Vergie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him so.Hear his response,but don't be attached to it-yes or no.I would not be to quick to rush into anything with a person who is not emotionally available.Let him work through whatever it is he feels or believes that he feels for the other girl first.Peace.
2007-04-15 06:50:50 · answer #11 · answered by wildrover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋