2007-04-15 01:26:56 · 19 answers · asked by LadyC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When your mother trips out and stops making sense and starts making things up - you gotta find it in your heart to try not to hate her cause she's probably going thru menopause or premenopause and it's a real trip as you can see by her strange and erratic behavior. Freak her out by remaining calm, massage her feet, talk her through whatever anxiety she's going through. This exercise will make you a much stronger, wiser, and better person. After all she does deserve your support after giving you life and all, it will pass and you will shine as a wonderful child!
2007-04-15 02:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by gmoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer problem i've got have been given a mom who's even worse than your's. i think of u gotta merely ignore approximately. Why do no longer u pass out to benefit in another states or in an different united states of america? If u at the instant are not prepared to try this then attempt to stay away out of your place as long as achievable. I propose to declare stay on your college campus or at your pal's homestead or if u are a member of any club then bypass your day trip there & play some activities. Use your place only for the night remains. And after 18 u can continuously do even if u wanna gain this do no longer problem!
2016-10-03 00:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by linnon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, but before you make that statement, take an inventory of the reasons why. If she beat you and abandoned you, then yes, you probably have a good reason. If on the other hand the reason you have a problem with her, is because she makes you clean your room, or doesn't allow you to sleep with your friend and your both under 18, then you probably just don't like the rules that she has set up,
2007-04-15 01:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the circumstances, so it's tough to answer. They say hatred is not the opposite of love though (indifference is ) and suggests that there are feelings in there somewhere. My only advice is try to work it out. Once a parent is gone you will suddenly think in great detail about your relationship with them. And anything you regret doing or saying will multiply tenfold. As will any regrets you have regarding not spending time with them or sharing more of yourself. Try to know that they are probably doing their best given what they learned about parenting from THEIR parents. As they say , kids don't come with instructions.
BUT- if they are physically / psychologically abusive, they are COMPLETELY wrong. Again trust me on that one. Ask about the belt :(
2007-04-15 01:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lou Stewth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is such a strong word to use. She gave you life and she gave you your name and she made sure that every night you had dinner. Unless she took one of those away from you you won`t hate her. It`s a shame that some people feel such strong rude feelings to their loved ones. But if you do feel that way then just ignore here. let her know what she`s done before you do though. But remeber once you hate someone for real you can never love them again...
2007-04-15 02:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by hollister_hottie1995 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, You will never be able to HATE ur mother.. She is the one that took care of u all through child hood... You may not like her at times, but you will never hate her!!
2007-04-15 01:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by FooFightersChickk_14 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is - I know many people who had abusive and just plain mean mothers and they hate them!
2007-04-15 01:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i truly hated my father for abusing me all of my life, in every way imaginable.
now i don't hate him, but i've severed the relationship, and havent' seen him in over 16 years.
emotionally, i'm much better. and i've forgiven him in my mind.
take care.
2007-04-15 03:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it's possible but i don't think i could ever hate my mother
2007-04-15 02:38:36 · answer #9 · answered by Baby G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can hate your mother and love her at the same time.
not sure about your case though,
i need more info!!!
2007-04-15 05:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋