2007-04-15 02:18:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it is a bit Hun, but dont worry if hes a nice guy he will take it as a joke :D
2007-04-15 02:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
He's not even dead yet why are you thinking about this. I am 23 years old and I have been married to my husband for 5 1/2 years. I could never imagine telling him that much less feeling it. He is my world, my rock and my everything. Are you falling out of love with him? I'm sure that really hurt his feeling hearing that from you. But honestly you don't know what you would do unless someone is currently cheating how would you know for sure you would remarry within a year?
2007-04-15 02:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by amandaholes19 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No... No because remarrying is normal and perfectly fine. And being honest. He would expect you to move on. Its hard when you’re other half passes away, it happened to me 3 years it took for me to get back into any type of dating scene. We weren’t even married, talk of it but he didn’t live to make it happen.
What I am going to say is rude but........you have made a statement ... no additional comments made to explain why you would have said this the way you did.
Yes because a year is pretty dam quick, sounds like you really don’t care about him. I would be deeply offended. Makes you sound as if you cant live by yourself and would become lonely too fast, you want the extra income... just some type of really negative reason as to why. Devalues what you have now.
I think you had better explain your reasons why to him.
2007-04-15 02:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, and unless you have someone waiting in the wings it probably won't even be true. But is good you told him this so he knows what kind of person you are. I am sure he loves you a lot less because of your mean ways. Bet he is out right now searching for someone else to leave a widow.
2007-04-15 03:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if I would call that "mean" but it is certainly a bit on the insensitive side. I mean, a year?? That's not long at all. To me, that's like saying that if your husband were to die, it wouldn't take you long to get over it and move on to someone else.
I totally understand moving on with your life, eventually after you have grieved and everything.. but, a year is just way too soon.
2007-04-15 03:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you were just talking to talk about that, then no, but if he's sick and is expecting his death, then yes that is mean. My husband and I have that talk sometimes, like what we would do if somthing happened to the other. I tell him flat out, I'd probably be a wh*re. LOL! Well, not that bad, but I would never commit again. My marriage has not been the best experience in the world and I dont think I would do it again.
2007-04-15 04:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Within a year? Do u know this guy already or something? Are your planning this? How do u know u will find a guy in a year?
Yes that was mean. It kinda makes him think u would get over his death quickly.
2007-04-15 02:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...I don't know your husband as a person...maybe he thinks you would like to continue to live your life...but maybe giving him a time like...a year...he may think you're bored of him...and that you would immediately get married and take the chance when he's "finally" gone? I wouldn't say that to my husband though...because I'd love him and cherish every moment I have with him. It's better to keep topics like that OUT! You know?
2007-04-15 02:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by ChelseaS 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your a cold hearted *****, not only do you say that sort of thing to your husband but you then have the hide to seek justification by asking here if its if it was mean.
Sometimes it easy to understand why some animals eat their young.
2007-04-15 02:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by LG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that she is a prostitute, married to someone just for a place to live and money to spend. That is why she would marry again so quickly. She is not in love with him, or anyone else but herself, that is why she can marry the first guy that asks her.
If I were her husband, I would dump her in a minute.
2007-04-15 02:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by billy brite 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Because you made it seem like you won't mourn his loss and that you are just spending time together in a loveless marriage. I would die if wifey said that to me. Then I'd go Serial Killer on her ***.
2007-04-15 02:23:12 · answer #11 · answered by kickstatus101 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋