i cant stop thinking about my best friend. We both like eachother but we both are taken by other people. We have kissed once when we were drunk but we are trying to get rid of these feelings. Its just not happening i think about him ALL the time, i feel like my head is going to explode.
2007-04-15 02:20:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you both should brake up with how ever your dateing and you should both try dateing, I know it sounds bad/weird but it will work, that is the only way to find out if what you both feel is coupletle real, its kind of hard but I had to do it to find out if me and this guy are ment to be and guess what?? it is we are still together. friends are what makes are life so good, I say give it a try.
2007-04-15 02:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by april_gutkopf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you are taken by other people, are you married, if you are then you should talk to your partner and tell him how you feel before you let your feelings for this other guy get way out of hand, and you do not want to get caught, honesty is the best policy and if your friend feels the same way about you, and you break it off with the partner you are with now, then you better ask him if he plans on committing himself to you.
I suggest being honest, with the person you are taken with now, if you are not married, then it will be easier to tell you partner now, then let him find out later if your partner asks you to marry him, and then you will get married, while you still have feelings for the other man!
You are not really being fair to your partner, and your friends partner, they both have to know! You are hurting them also.
You and your friend sit down and really have a talk about this and think about not only are you two hurting, but also the other people involved. They have the right to know.
2007-04-15 09:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel, and ask if the feeling is mutual. Take it from there.
If you two do figure it out and want to get closer together, I suggest breaking up with your current partners first. Don't shut out the feelings of the person that you're with just because of your own. Keep them in the backs of your minds.
2007-04-15 09:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by kickstatus101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to get rid of your BF now. Its not fair for him to be with someone that isnt just thinking of him. Then see what happens with your other friend.
2007-04-15 09:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel, theres no easy answer, you could try to talk to him about how you feel, but my recent experiance is, that could only make things worse.
Hopefully time will heal all.
2007-04-15 09:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by LG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough luck. I would suggest that you both finish out your relationships
2007-04-15 09:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell him now or regret it later....
but you have to be a risktaker coz telling him might lose your friendship with him....
2007-04-15 09:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by karl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, just doin it for the points
2007-04-15 09:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by ebonycorine 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
stop thinking about it
the reason you "cant" is you dont WANT to
2007-04-15 09:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋