Me and my boyfriend are both 14...and he's VERY shy, and im VERY confident...i hang out with guys WAY more than girls. So when im out with my guy friends and my boyfriend, i tend to muck about and get close to my guy friends, and my boyfriend being shy doesn't do anything! According to one of my girlfriends, he looks like he's often jelous...i cant help this, what can i do?! I dont want him to feel like this...
2007-04-15 02:21:59 · 11 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him! Don't just rely on dignostics from your friend.
2007-04-15 02:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by no_fool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out more often with him and his friends together so he feels more comfortable, or just hang out just the two of you. I don't think it's that big of a deal, at 14 relationships don't tend to be too serious, and probably shouldn't be! You're too young, and should probably be focusing more on school and yourself than boys at that age.
2007-04-15 09:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a grip you are 14 life is meant to be fun not serious. If you where 24 maybe but 14. You are trying too grow up way too fast.
2007-04-19 08:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know man... If you really like this guy, maybe you should take a break from all those other guys...i totally know what you mean though! guys dont talk about you behind your back and write that your a **** on the door of a bathroom stall.. I totally like my guy friends just as much as my girlfriends! If he's worth all that trouble talk to him!!! If not... personaly, i dont like shy guys... guys that are barely hangin on 4 the ride... It really depends on how much you really like this guy..
2007-04-15 09:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by jenniemae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you like messing around with your guy friends, but that he* is the one that has your heart~ Put yourself in his shoes......if you were to see him mucking about with your female friends, how would you feel? Most girls would be 'hurt'......so...just talk to him and re-assure him that you've always gotten along better with male friends than the female friends, but you are 'into' him* not them. GoodLUck*
2007-04-15 09:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to discuss this with him and you also need to give him extra time just him and no guys friends. You dont want to dump him I suppose? Not thinking of a smarter bf inplace of shy-one do ya?
2007-04-15 10:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys just don't like that sort of behaviour, so you either calm it down a bit, or prepare yourself to be dumped, I'm sure he won't be able to take it especially at that age when he probably feels you should be giving him 100% of your attention 100% of the time.
2007-04-15 09:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by shaun3937 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 14, don't get weighed down with all this s**t just enjoy being a teenage .
2007-04-15 09:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by isleofskye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can help this.stop mucking around with the other guys
2007-04-15 09:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by fairy_gdmthr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch how close you get to your guy friends. Make sure to include your bf.
2007-04-15 09:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU HAVING A BOYFRIEND AT 14?
2007-04-15 09:25:00 · answer #11 · answered by Adrian X 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋