so i was set up with this guy two years ago and we went out a few times but he told me over the phone that he couldnt be there for me the way he wanted to and he stoped talking to me after that. and after two years he has started to talk to me again. he and i saw each other twice and i thought we were just going out as friends and the first night we hung out he kissed me on the cheek. the second time we hung out he was trying to kiss me in the movies a few times. and then he started to hug me and everrything. later that night he started to kiss me on the neck. each time i told him to stop and i asked him why he is so interest all of a sudden and he said he was lonly. i honesty think he is trying to get some but i donktnow he hasnt been wiht any other gurl i was his first gurl in his life and well as mine. he doesnt even call me when he wants to go out he just im's me on aim. i know that he isnt committed this time either but i want to know what u think? should i give him another chance
2007-04-15 13:18:10 · 11 answers · asked by huh? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is after a bit and thinks because he knows you and left you that maybe an easy lay get rid of him.
2007-04-15 13:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time you went out he gave you a friendly kiss on the cheek. The second time he wanted in your pants. All of a sudden after two years he comes back around and sends you an IM to ask you out. He isn't committed still. Don't do it. Find you someone that will be committed to you and treat you with respect (like calling to ask you out).
2007-04-15 13:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by redneck_princess70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly hun, I don't think I would. Relationships are supposed to be 50/50. I don't believe that he is right in thinking that everytime "he" gets lonely that you will be there with an open heart and arms and just let him come walking on back in leaving yourself open to get hurt again. I mean if he was being serious and really making an effort to be with you, I could understant. I truly think that you really don't need that in your life. Maybe just stay friends and let him know that.
2007-04-15 13:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes818 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's really weird. Either he really does like you again or he's just trying to take advantage of the situation to get some. If you really like him, give him another chance and if he blows it this time, get over him as quick as possible and find someone else. He may just consider you to be a bootycall because he's "lonely." Be really really careful about this. Good luck!
2007-04-15 13:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is similar to me but he hasnt asked me yet but i still want him back..... I think you should give him another chance but dont do anything you will regret first of all..... get to know him better then after that you are on ur own!
2007-04-15 13:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by brie1inamillion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to figure it out yourself about his true intentions with you If he is just trying to pass his time because he is lonely and without any date then it's up to you if will let him.
2007-04-15 13:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by Reycen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your head. If you think it's worth giving it another try maturity wise for the both of you why not.
2007-04-15 13:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just using you. Cut it off...
2007-04-15 13:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you? Probably not. But if you like him and you say no. You will always wonder what if.
2007-04-15 13:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by Kari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say yes...but if he is just using you to not feel lonely just leave him......try to be his friend help him out
2007-04-15 13:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by lovemonkeys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋