Family & Relationships - 15 April 2007

..how did you know they liked you back before you asked them? tell your stories..

2007-04-15 15:51:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my girlfriend is graduating high school and shes going to a school that is an hour and a half away. i love her with all my heart and she loves me the same if not more. im scared, should i be? i mean i dont know i cant stand being so far away from her. plus shes gona meet new people there and im kinda scared shes gona leave me even tho i know she wont. welll i dont know im just kinda scared. can someone tell me what they think, dont be mean about it

2007-04-15 15:51:23 · 5 answers · asked by yeh yeh 2 in Singles & Dating

Should I move to another state with my children to have support from my parents to finish my career and leave my partner of 12 yrs behind, he is currently persuing his career but we both cannot afford to do it together, I dont feel is fair since I have waited so long to retake my career and he finish school and did not like what he did and now is going for something else?

2007-04-15 15:50:14 · 7 answers · asked by Proud Mama of 2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if it doesn't pretain to u don't take offensive. I myself am an ex-wife. Anyway, my boyfriend is completley blind to what his ex-wife is doing. (He really is naive about people being mean and vengeful, he is a really nice guy and always wants to help everyone.) Anyway, my bf ex-wife has never dated anyone since their divorce 4 yrs ago. She calls him about stupid stuff about the kids when she knows he is with me. (He is an excellent father). Showed up at his mom's bday party that she was not invited to....his family is glad she's gone. Wants him to fix her car or unload a lawn mower from the truck "that she borrowed from him". If ur wondering, I love him, thats why I stay with him. I just wish there was something I could do to get him to see her real motives. everyone but him sees it. Is there anything I can do to open his eyes. His daughter voluntarily out of no where told me when we first started dated that her mom runs his gfs off. How can I show her, I'm not going anywhere?

2007-04-15 15:49:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay prom is coming around and finally I found someone to go with. He told my friend he wanted to go with me so she gave me his number to call him. Now I don't usually call first or ask, nothing like that. But I called and he didn't answer his phone. That was the last time I am ever going to call.

So do you think that's basically him saying "i don't wanna go with you to prom anymore" or what?

2007-04-15 15:49:42 · 19 answers · asked by uglyvanity 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm a sophomore in high school and theres this girl I really like who goes to a different school. I've known her since 7th grade but after we graduated from middle school, i haven't seen her at all. We talk everyday on AIM and the occasional yet often myspace comments.

In a couple weeks, there's going to be a reunion party that I'm going to at my friends house and the majority of my 8th grade class will be there too, along with her. She knows that i like her because i've confessed several times online and i want to kiss her. I think she knows that too. However, as much as I want to, I can't date her because of my parents since they want me to focus on school.

She's really shy in person and i doubt she'll make any move at all. I wanna kiss her at the party, and hopefully makeout, but i dont know how to approach it. Theres gonna be music and people I know from my 8th grade class. What should I do?

2007-04-15 15:49:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend just got home and told me that she just had sex with this dude...she doesnt know what to do and feels like a piece of sh*t Tell me some things to say that will make her feel better.

2007-04-15 15:44:20 · 1 answers · asked by !London Force! 1 in Singles & Dating

SHe and him have been friends for about 7 years, OUr familys are very good friends, he even works for my husband. DO oyu see any reason not to let them date? i will take any answer this is going up against her father

2007-04-15 15:40:20 · 34 answers · asked by Chloe M 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years and he is talking about proposing to me. Now, the problem is I am only a freshman in college but he is a junior so what should I do. I have already went through the "Im young and want to be free" thing and I came right back to him. I realized that he is the only one I want to be with. So please no answers like, "well you are young and your mind can change" because I already went throught that. I dont plan on getting married until I graduate but is it wrong to be engaged at this point?

2007-04-15 15:35:20 · 16 answers · asked by expecting mommy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are best friends, we just aren't in love anymore. We have a little girl together whom we both love more than life. I would like to get a divorce kit from Office Depot and file myself since I cannot afford an attorney. The house we live in is his. It is my daughter's home and I do not want to sell it. I would like to continue living together (we've slept in separate bedrooms for 7 yrs) as roommates. I think it will be less expensive for him than paying alimony and child support, and I definitely cannot afford an apt alone. I am not seeing anyone, neither is he, we just aren't happy together. How can I approach the situation with him and explain that I'm trying to help us both financially, and it will be better for our daughter to have Mom and Dad together under the same roof, even though we're not married any more?

2007-04-15 15:30:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can i tell this girl that i like her? we have known eachother for 2 years and have always been cool. recently, ive been talking to her a little bit and i realize that i want her, but i dont know if she wants me.

2007-04-15 15:27:38 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I got into a fight, during which he said that he wouldn't marry me if I didn't learn how to drive. (I'm a very bad driver.) I asked him which was more important to him- being with someone who can drive, or being with me- and he eventually said me, but it took way too long to get an answer. He just kept saying, "I'd rather have both."

We've been dating for more than two years and have seriously discussed marriage. I've rarely had a reason to doubt his love before, and we trust each other. What's going on?

2007-04-15 15:22:58 · 7 answers · asked by Kelsey H 6 in Singles & Dating

What type of personality? looks?

2007-04-15 15:20:08 · 22 answers · asked by brittanyteecee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 15:19:19 · 10 answers · asked by nisey0069 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when Oprah was young and rich she could have had a lot of men want her so whats up is she cold to men becase she is rich or maybe she cant have kids did any one ask her this or am i the only one that sees this . I have heard she loves to help young girls and she had a boy friend thats all they said some one as big a tv person as Oprah how is it she able to keep so much" hush""hush."

2007-04-15 15:12:05 · 22 answers · asked by sehoy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do people think that long distance relationships work and how can you make sure that the other partner is telling you the truth and not seeing someone else? i am in one at the and i trust my man when the tells me that i am his one and only but his ex tells me different.His ex has been trying to break us apart for 6 months now and it hasn't worked.Is she just jealous? or does she just want to make his life a ling hell?

2007-04-15 15:09:37 · 9 answers · asked by happy m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ummm what is love? is it when u cant stand to be away from your partner, when u cant get them off ur mind, or is it simply when they tell u they love u? tell me ur opinion on what love is. tell me ur love stories or how u met the love of ur life....0

2007-04-15 15:08:26 · 4 answers · asked by dlcbabygirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well after we broke up...he went out with alot of girls....but now he wants to get back with me and I dont know if i should knowing he went out with all of those girls....and i really like him stilll but theres another problem one of my best friends does too. I dont know what to do..do you have any advice for me?

2007-04-15 15:07:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many people are married and feel more lonely then they ever felt when they were single?

2007-04-15 15:06:33 · 14 answers · asked by Amy M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this close friend and well we have been sleeping together of and on for the last year and a half, and well here lately it has been at least once or twice a week in the last month. How do I know if he wants it to be more than a friendship with benefits with no strings attached? He is always wanting to do more together than we have in the past and now he is wanting to spend the night together in his semi so his wife and my husband don't know. We can make this possible cuz of course he is a trucker, and well mine works 3rd shift, so it can easily be done. He is calling me all the time and vice versa and we send a lot of text messages back and forth. He is always telling me when he is lying in bed naked, and what we could be doing together. He even kept his promise of making it back here earlier this week to be with me, instead of going home to his wife and kids, he stayed in the truck and had me stay with him for a little while before I went home. What do you all think?

2007-04-15 15:05:07 · 12 answers · asked by Toni K 1 in Friends

My ex-husband is dating a woman with the same name as mine, who is 10 years older (she's 47, ex is same age as me) who looks like an older version of me with the same features, dark hair and blue eyes. Doesn't this sound a little disturbing? He says older women are more secure. He says he doesn't want to be with me, yet almost every woman he's dated since he left has some similarity to me, be it looks, hair or personality. It's like he's looking for me, but in someone else. We still talk, and whenever he visits he tells me he still loves me and he always talks about me when he's with other women because he can't get me out of his thoughts. A friend of his asked him in front of me why did he leave me if he can't forget me? She told him he's stupid for leaving me, that he doesn't know what he gave up and we should get back together! I just don't know. Am I wrong in assuming he still wants to be with me? It seems like he does. We were together for 20 years and we have a teenage daughter.

2007-04-15 15:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 14:58:45 · 12 answers · asked by lala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

are relationship has just started but we're already getting into fights what does it mean?

2007-04-15 14:57:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i badLy neEd it.

2007-04-15 14:57:36 · 18 answers · asked by fowtanesca_14 1 in Singles & Dating

She moved in with her husband, 2 kids and said she needed time to get out of financial trouble. She lived for free which is fine with me, except she didnt do the dishes, take out the trash, clean house or even throw her dirty diapers in the trash. She was filthy and after a year of her screaming undisciplined children and her laziness, she managed to buy a house, new van and new appliances for her new house. Today she came over to her dads and said she thought she would drop in and do his dishes, which really means she plans to borrow more money. We left and when we came back home there were about 10 glasses washed and she left the rest. of the dirty dishes all over the counter. I think she was trying to get money, but her plan failed when her dad left with me.
She makes me want to vomit and I feel like I need to tell her save it "*****". I will take care of the dishes! Get to the point.
How can I get past this feeling of wanting to just tell her off.?

2007-04-15 14:52:36 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

okay. my step mom is always getting on me to eat more and i eat alot it just dosnt show on me and today she broke me down and made me cry she said :shes like have u ever looked at ur self and compared ur self to other girls look at ur arms and face ur to skinny ur like anerxic and said thats y no boys like me and she like don't get mad im telling u nicely. and it broke my heart i no im a little skinny but not to anerxic i just hurt me bad how do i make my self FATTER to live up to my step moms standards.
im sick of crying. she does this alot at dinner she will yell at me if i dont lick my plate clean but tonight it made me cry.

2007-04-15 14:49:42 · 19 answers · asked by Chloe 1 in Family

Have you ever been "caught in the act" by your parents, kids, etc.?

My husband and I have been walked in on by my mom, my dad, my brothers, and his parents...lol...sad thing is, we lock our doors! Let's just say they've all learned a lesson to knock first!

How about you?

2007-04-15 14:43:16 · 11 answers · asked by I Have Answers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was recently married at the court house and a friend said that as a catholic, i am not considered married by the catholic church and that i will still have to go in front of a priest in order to have my marriage recognized by the catholic church. also my husband is not a catholic.

2007-04-15 14:42:12 · 8 answers · asked by jumpyjump44 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl that I have know for a few years, I am 25 and she is 18, her older sister used to be my sisters best friend back in HighSchool and I also know her family real well, I want to take her out to dinner or a movie or something like that. she is a senior in HS and almost done with HS and probally off to college, do you think I should ask her out? What should I do? Is she too young? Could this ever work out?

2007-04-15 14:38:49 · 7 answers · asked by stealth5033 3 in Singles & Dating

He tells me he is a private person andthat he just doesn't like sharing his personal life with them because they are always judging him. As well, he only has a cousin here whom he lived with prior to me. The rest of his family live in there country, however they don't know about me either.

2007-04-15 14:36:22 · 21 answers · asked by Mari 5 in Marriage & Divorce