How many people are married and feel more lonely then they ever felt when they were single?
2007-04-15 15:06:33 · 14 answers · asked by Amy M 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am married but my husband is in Iraq, so that is different... But this is my second husband, I do love him with all my heart. But there were alot of times(with my ex) when I felt alone, and felt like my heart was not there, felt like why was I there.. it took me 3 years to leave him because I didnt know if it was right.. It would come and go, but was always there for the most part.. I sure hope you are not feeling this, it was the worst thing I had ever felt.. I wish you luck
2007-04-15 15:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question. Sometimes I feel lonely. Sometimes I don't. However, given a choice. I'd stick to being married. Peace and God bless.
2007-04-15 22:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way. I married my best friend, and things have only gotten better and better through the years. You can't expect a husband to make your world complete, YOU have to do that yourself. If you are happy and make your world full, you will bring a better self to your marriage.
2007-04-16 08:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just shared this phrase with another . . . " I'd rather be alone by myself...then be alone in a relationship ".
I'm peacefully divorced. The last years of my marriage...my heart was very much neglected by him. I divorced...now I'm happy again . . . single . . . yet very happy as I found the trueness of the ' voice ' of my soul and heart again.
I'm alone...yet not lonely. I believe in marriage...it's a wonderful environment to share in. I'm sure I'll meet the man who balances with my heart, and me with his, one day...till that time...I live and celebrate myself, my family, friends and my life.
Those who stay in lonely, emotionally empty marriages I feel are holding their own selfs emotional hostage.
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2007-04-15 22:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a raw deal for the man unless he wants kids, otherwise its just not worth the headaches and potential lose of monetary things in the divorce.
2007-04-15 22:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
an amazing high percentage of them
hence the high divorce rates and even higher number of people choosing to forgoe marriage alltogether and stay single
2007-04-15 22:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try going through what i have been going through, my wife had an affair and left me 37 mos ago, i lost everything i own, i am single, God is my strenght, so what i am saying is if you think you have it bad, someone else has it worst than you, be thankful for what God has given you, you have someone.
2007-04-15 22:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if the couple sees eachother alot. or even if the woman is a stay at home mom. it all depends on the circumstances
2007-04-15 22:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by puppy l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definitly do but then again she hasn't been here in awhile so i guess that doesn't count
2007-04-15 22:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by dionysus26047 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me
2007-04-15 22:09:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋