how can i tell this girl that i like her? we have known eachother for 2 years and have always been cool. recently, ive been talking to her a little bit and i realize that i want her, but i dont know if she wants me.
2007-04-15 15:27:38 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her how you feel
2007-04-15 15:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by Orange? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make it completely obvious that you really like her, because then she'll get a wrong kind of sense. BE really sweet to her, and nicer to her than before, so she knows that you've changed your view of her, but just a little. Do things that are proper manners, and don't make fun of her, even if it's in a joking way. If she smiles around you and does sweet things back, then you can kind of get an idea that she has feelings for you back. But even if she doesn't show that, it doesn't mean she doesn't like you. She could feel the same way, so she hides her feelings.
2007-04-15 15:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Clara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to her and go like dont you think that we'll make a good cuple and c what she says if she says that i dont c you more then friends then she's not into you and just pray hard that the relation between you and her dont change. If she says we wont be bad then just go liek you wanna give it a try? if she says i'll think about it then thats probably a yes : ] so good luck and go for it man t ime is too short dont sit around and thinking of the possebilitis TAKE ACTION she might even wanna be with you more then you think...GOOD LUCK
2007-04-15 16:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by AngelWithHorns: ] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want her, or want to be with her because those are two different things.
if you want to be with her, come out and be honest. Tell her that you have feelings for her, but dont know if she feels the same. this will leave you with 2 options, 1. she will start to consider whether or not she likes you as well. 2. she might not feel the same way.
either way, honesty is the best policy.
2007-04-15 15:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by ELgrande 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, If you have been friends for two years, you should have a pretty good feel for what she looks for in a guy. But needless to say, ask her out and see where it goes. Trust me, it is better to just take a shot at it instead of wating to figure it out. I just spend over 6 months trying to figure it out with this guy and he just wanted to be friends. I was total cool with being just friends, but I feel like an idiot for turning down dates with other guys because I was trying to figure him out. Just ask her out. If you get rejected, it is not as bad as everyone has made it sound.
2007-04-15 15:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by shdw1973 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out by holding her hand when the two of you talk. If she doesn't pull her hand away, that probably means she likes you in the same way.
After that, kiss her. If she is open to that, then she DEFINITELY likes you too more than a friend.
Just holding her hand will tell her how you feel about her. She'll get it. I promise.
2007-04-15 15:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her this..."You know the other day I was on Yahoo Answers, and I asked a question on there on how I should tell you that I like you. Then this guy wrote that I should say exactly what I'm saying right now."
2007-04-15 15:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by jacksfullhouse 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could start out by telling you you need to talk to her about something that is important to you. Explain to her that you are nervous and do not really know how to say what you need to say, but... and then spit it out. I personally respect someone who does not beat around the bush and is honest with me. Good luck.
2007-04-15 15:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by gogirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. If she does not want you read the poem:
Now That’s Love
I know what love is like:
Truly loving someone is giving them the freedom to love you or not
Truly loving yourself is choosing to be someone who uses that freedom to love you
Yea, now that’s love
June 19, 2006 by Arene
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2007-04-15 15:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the female.
if she goes for the confident guys then tell her exactly what you feel, woman like that, becuz guys rarely show their emotions.
If you are willing to risk your friendship then go all out.
Plan a get-2-gether, like a picnic/dinner/etc. and serenade her, let her know that you are serious about her, and that you want her honest feelings about this.
2007-04-15 15:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by dall4wwf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather than "telling" her...just show her you're interested. You've said you've been talking to her a bit more...find out more of her likes and dislikes , music, movies etc....ask her to a movie or to dinner...if she is interested..she will accept* Keep on Smilin*
2007-04-15 15:30:25 · answer #11 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋