I'm a sophomore in high school and theres this girl I really like who goes to a different school. I've known her since 7th grade but after we graduated from middle school, i haven't seen her at all. We talk everyday on AIM and the occasional yet often myspace comments.
In a couple weeks, there's going to be a reunion party that I'm going to at my friends house and the majority of my 8th grade class will be there too, along with her. She knows that i like her because i've confessed several times online and i want to kiss her. I think she knows that too. However, as much as I want to, I can't date her because of my parents since they want me to focus on school.
She's really shy in person and i doubt she'll make any move at all. I wanna kiss her at the party, and hopefully makeout, but i dont know how to approach it. Theres gonna be music and people I know from my 8th grade class. What should I do?
2007-04-15 15:49:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am a junior in high school and there is a guy who I really like who goes to a different school, 45 minutes away. He's a senior in high school. We have known each other ever since our freshman year, but we rarely see each other, May 2006 being the last time. However, we talked on AIM and MySpace often.
A couple of days ago, he asked me if I wanted to hang out with him all day in his town. Just the two of us. We know that we like each other because we both have said so.
Now, about the kissing move. Yesterday we hung out. When I was with him alone at the mall, I was hesistant to make any move. I wanted to kiss him but I did not know when or how to make the right move. I could tell he was nervous too but he still dropped hints, perhaps hoping for me to make the first move. At one store I didn't see where I was going and would have tripped over something on the ground if he hadn't gotten hold of me. I smiled and said thanks as we made eye contact, and he suddenly went for the french kiss. The next thing I know, we're making out. When we stopped, I could tell he was very glad he took the risk. I was so relieved he did too then we weren't hesistant to do anything with each other anymore. We made out again, hugged and held hands for the rest of the day. God that day was heaven.
I think you should take advantage of the opportunity before it closes out on you. Make the most of every moment and enjoy it. But if she's that shy, then perhaps you could ask for permission to kiss her. I used to be really shy in person and one of my old boyfriends asked me if it was okay if he could kiss me. I said sure and let him do it. I felt good cause that meant he cared about how I feel, did not want to rush anything with me. Your girl will likely see that too. Good luck with her!
2007-04-15 16:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly simply loosen up, you are not able to fairly do something improper, simply ensure you've gotten contemporary breath, appear into his eyes and lean in. Here's a few matters I've discovered via kissing: -GO SLOW to begin, you are much less prone to believe clumsy and awkward should you begin with smooth smooth kisses -USE YOUR HANDS no longer within the kiss immediately surely, however contact him(no longer his dick right away). Start by way of resting your hand at the again of his neck/head, and should you get extra into it lightly tug on his hair(men move wild). You might additionally relaxation a hand on his shoulder or thigh if it makes you extra relaxed. -SMILE at him while you pull aside and appear into his eyes Good success, you are going to be pleasant xx I'm consistently pleased to aid should you wish to speak to me
2016-09-05 14:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are worried about your future as are most parents all through history. They know that once you begin to date you will be distracted and that may become the most important thing to you.
Through history love will prevail. I think that choosing a mate is just as important a part in your future as school and money. They would probably prefer you wait until college.
I would say the best person to ask is the girl her self. Is this where she is at. Does she need to wait? I think a private conversation like this would be endearing and respectful.
2007-04-15 16:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by granny_sp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u got her a gift but she has to close her eyes. tell her to count to 5 out loud and to ennunciate clearly. when she says 3, her lips are in the perfect kissing position so right when she says 3 kiss her and if she kisses u back...keep kissing for a minute and then ask her if she wants to take this somewhere else and then u and her can make out. if she doesnt kiss u back, tell her that u couldn't hold back and u felt like u needed to do it and ask her out. if she says no, HECK u still kissed her, if she says yes then YEAHya....u got a gf and yur gonna get quite a few more moments like that
2007-04-15 16:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sean Giborty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her clues that you like her. Then she'll just feel something about what you're telling to her. Just go ahead and do what you want.
2007-04-15 16:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just ask her out on a date, tell her close her eyes and just do it. My boyfriend and I do that all the time.
2007-04-15 15:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , Kiss her (but don't get too intense about making out)
Think how disappointed she would be if you didn't .
2007-04-15 15:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by jimanddottaylor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her first and see if she is in to you, if she is make a move:) goodluck
2007-04-15 15:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont sound like your old enough to sneeze
2007-04-15 16:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should, :p good luck
2007-04-15 16:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mumu V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋