if it doesn't pretain to u don't take offensive. I myself am an ex-wife. Anyway, my boyfriend is completley blind to what his ex-wife is doing. (He really is naive about people being mean and vengeful, he is a really nice guy and always wants to help everyone.) Anyway, my bf ex-wife has never dated anyone since their divorce 4 yrs ago. She calls him about stupid stuff about the kids when she knows he is with me. (He is an excellent father). Showed up at his mom's bday party that she was not invited to....his family is glad she's gone. Wants him to fix her car or unload a lawn mower from the truck "that she borrowed from him". If ur wondering, I love him, thats why I stay with him. I just wish there was something I could do to get him to see her real motives. everyone but him sees it. Is there anything I can do to open his eyes. His daughter voluntarily out of no where told me when we first started dated that her mom runs his gfs off. How can I show her, I'm not going anywhere?
2007-04-15 15:49:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Show her by staying and not fighting about her. She would love to know you were jealous of her or anything to help her feel inferior toward you. Give it time she wil tire of it once she see's it isn't causing you two problems. Someday he may see it but I don't think there is anything you could do to show him.
2007-04-15 15:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to show her anything? Just keep on being yourself, enjoying your life & enjoying a man who is polite and helpful to his child's mother, whether *she* has ulterior motives or not. If he's not responding to her in any way besides just being nice to another human being (especially one who is important to his child), then what's the problem?
2007-04-15 23:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are with this guy, you will always have problems. He can't cut off all ties with his ex, because of the kids. You will just have to put up with her.
2007-04-16 00:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice and laugh it off.
2007-04-15 23:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh - how many times are you gonna post this question?
2007-04-16 16:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by kgperry70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋