Family & Relationships - 15 April 2007

I'm a girl (despite my avatar).

What I want to know is if there are men out there who won't consider having sex unless in a committed relationship and don't even WANT it with anyone they're not in love with.

Purely out of curiosity...

2007-04-15 17:55:32 · 16 answers · asked by starlake18 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep finding myself chasing after guys...and then once I get them...I'm no longer interested. I've tried over and over...to stay interested..and keep liking them once the chase is over. But I can't. Does this happen to anyone else?? I would think it's normal....but it's happened with every single I've liked.....and thats alot of guys. How do I stop being like this?? Thanks in advance you guys=]

2007-04-15 17:53:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or will she have to wait till her 18th birthday

2007-04-15 17:53:02 · 5 answers · asked by cwd_87 1 in Singles & Dating

well. My bf is very attached and i'm attached to him as well. I just know i'm defenately not ready to settle down yet! i see so many attractive men who have great personalities and i can't help but feel attracted to them .. (i do think my bf is attractive too and i do love him so i'd never cheat on him)

Is it normal after awhile to be afraid of commitment? i don't know if i'm ready to settle down, i'm only 19 and he's talking about marriage and kids... i do want to be with him, he is special to me but i hate finding someone who feels like "the one" at such a young age. Now don't get me wrong, i DO love him a lot. I'm not unhappy but i can't get rid of these feelings...

2007-04-15 17:49:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 17:47:02 · 4 answers · asked by ff 1 in Singles & Dating

Among other things, I'm looking for a man who:

- Believes in honesty, hard work, and keeping one's word as being vitally important in and of themselves.

- Drinks very little or not at all.

- Believes in waiting for sex until after marriage.

I'm a spiritual person, but I don't believe in a specific sect, and I have a hard time with churches who claim to have exclusive possession of "the real truth". Therefore, I don't attend church, and I'm not tied to finding someone of any specific religion.

My question is - where can I find a man who shares my general value system? I'm twenty-four years old, and it's proving incredibly difficult to find potential relationships. Most men today (and women, for that matter) simply have a drastically different set of ethics than I do.

I'm open to all suggestions: specific websites, specific locations, general types of locations, churches I might not have considered . . . anything.

I live in New York City.

2007-04-15 17:44:33 · 16 answers · asked by Pecosa47 2 in Singles & Dating

New York, I've watched every show you produced, even the renunion to see how men are so quick to get pubilcity. How lazy. Im a Gay Black male, well put together and when I saw your reunion I saw how much they were feeding off of "You". That hurts because it shows what people are all about. Girl its a dog eat dog world, and trust as fine as you look you dont need a busted fella telling you they love yo when there milking off of your successes. Your Beautiful no matter what they say. My guard is highly up just like yours. Go for your first instinct trust me you will be happy.
Much Love
Derrick
Baltimore
443-925-1545

2007-04-15 17:44:23 · 3 answers · asked by Derrick T 1 in Singles & Dating

No my fiancee is not Jewish. I am trying to convince him that our son will need to be circumsized. He thinks there is no need for it.

2007-04-15 17:44:19 · 13 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

the guy i like, knows i like him, and used to like me too, which i only recently found out, but denies having feelings for me now (because i did not know he liked me, and made the mistake of dating his best friend). and i know even though he denies it, he still likes me too (he often gives me plenty of signs that he is into me). we have been through this for about a year now. his friend and i have ended it and he knows that i have no intention of dating him again.

he told me he has always been shy and has trouble with relationships. and it seems like frequently he tries to avoid me because of reasons i dont know.

why does he avoid me and act so nervous?

2007-04-15 17:42:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 17:41:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 17:41:27 · 7 answers · asked by brad m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i gain it back? he says the only way that he will for sure stay with me is if the baby is his. other than that he says i have to gain the trust back....... any men out there tell me how to do this?? anyone plz give me some suggestions.

2007-04-15 17:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by kassie 2 in Singles & Dating

i asked a girl out on aol messenger and she said yes but when i asked her what movie would she like to go to....she said 'i dont care'......i was wodering if she is even interested in me or not

2007-04-15 17:37:12 · 11 answers · asked by J D 1 in Singles & Dating

alright so i'm in highschool and most of the guys there are jerks.
there is this one guy however who is completly different, he's smart, funny, adorable, & nice but he's really shy.
not in the sense where he doesn't talk, which we do everyday, but like when it comes to girls.


unlike most guys he isn't full of himself and doesn't like to show off but i think he's really scared of girls. i tried to give him a hug once and he kinda just did like a reach tap thing. He and i laugh togther alot and like alot of the same things but he seems really i don't know skiddish i guess.He's like this around all my friends (who all kinda like him too)

and i was wondering what's up with this guy and why he might be so shy.
i don't think he is gay, he's just really shy or maybe not even interested? help me figure this out please.

2007-04-15 17:36:58 · 10 answers · asked by thatonegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok my friends bfs father beat the crap out of him yesterday and his emotions are all over the place and hes was too scared to go ro sleep. So today she chose to go to her riding show when she knew he needed her for emotional support but she went and didnt come home till an hour ago and got mad cuz her ex best friend (shes also his ex gf) called her and told her what a selfish cow she is for doing that. And they got into it and the ex bff told her that she will take care of him and for to just stay away if shes going to just make it all about herself. So she called her bf and started witching at him and the poor guy is black and blue from head to toe with finger marks around his neack from where his dad choked him but she didnt care she just started playing th victim and cussing him out. What is her promblem? What should he do?

2007-04-15 17:31:36 · 14 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

we are both shy we use to talk all the time in math class but realy dont get the change since we dont seat next to each other anymore. i see him alot but im to scare to tell him should i wait ? if u need details just tell me

2007-04-15 17:26:08 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Princess♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

What things do you ladies do to show a guy you like him.

2007-04-15 17:20:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have to everything around the house and to top it off he won't help with the kids. I need some advice

2007-04-15 17:13:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 17:12:27 · 25 answers · asked by answer man 3 in Singles & Dating

Married for now 10 years, relationship with wife good, and after many years, from no where, i reconnect with my HS sweet heart. Now what to do?

2007-04-15 17:06:47 · 24 answers · asked by remas s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

dont they know that is their sole purpose in life.

2007-04-15 17:04:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

andalso a 2 month old the judge would not give him a reduction can anyone offer advice on what he should do!

2007-04-15 17:01:44 · 20 answers · asked by toshia1028 1 in Marriage & Divorce

married 20 years.

2007-04-15 16:58:10 · 15 answers · asked by henna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-15 16:55:59 · 18 answers · asked by Hero 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering because I know it would make me jealous if my boyfriends exs were supper hott or good in bed. Cause I don't want to be second best doesn't anyone feel the same?

2007-04-15 16:54:51 · 7 answers · asked by i ♥ Food 3 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is getting married in September. She wants me and my finace to sit at the same table as my ex and his wife. I
completely despise even the sight of them. Should I have to have this event ruined for me because of it or should I refuse?

2007-04-15 16:49:44 · 24 answers · asked by grammybebe 1 in Weddings

we r both in high school in 12 grade but it is ok? i need help?

2007-04-15 16:48:27 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Princess♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm in a wheelchair..i went to the prom with my friend, samantha last night... we had not a good time.. asked sam for dance three times.. first and second, she said "not now" third time she said "i dont want to dance wit u cause i'm afaid my friends see us.. that's bullcrap.. i was hurt.... sam asked me for dance i said i guess..... we dance for sorry.. i tolld her i want to leave.. when we were outside... i asked her why u ruin our night? she started to cry and walk away.. i was sooooooooo sad.. shre broke my heart.. its not my fault....... it was her fault... so i tried to text her today, she didnt text me......... so wut should i do when i see her tomorrow? is our friendship over?

2007-04-15 16:44:52 · 4 answers · asked by speedy\ 2 in Friends

2007-04-15 16:43:19 · 15 answers · asked by lily 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So there is this guy in my school and he is really really really hott x infinity + 1! He used to think im a freak cuz he used to always catch me at the wrong times. But now he doesnt think im so much of a freak cuz i try and act my self around him. He doesnt really know who i am so im not just gonna go to him and ask him out. Well..we have a school dance next week and I really wanna go with him. This week is vacation and he is leaving for florida tomorrow so i cant really talk to him or anything. What should i do?? I really really really really really <3 him!! SOO MUCHO GRANDE!!

2007-04-15 16:42:46 · 11 answers · asked by Allissa 1 in Singles & Dating